MarriageToday with Jimmy & Karen Evans

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast, I'm excited to dive into this episode with you. Today, we're going to uncover how the enemy uses pain and trauma to deceive and manipulate us. I'll share some powerful biblical examples that shed light on this issue and offer practical strategies for aligning our thoughts with God's truth to overcome deception's grip. Join me on this journey of healing and restoration in your marriage. -------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket -------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:23 The Devil's Introduction of Thoughts 09:00 God's Goodness and the Devil's Lies 11:43 Vulnerability and the Devil's Attacks 24:26 Expelling Thoughts That Don't Align with God's Word 25:47 Confessing Our Agreement with God's Truth 28:01 Preventing the Devil from Campin in Our Minds Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Marriage Today Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy delves into the profound impact of pain on our lives and relationships. Through personal stories, he illustrates how unresolved pain can accumulate and affect our mental, emotional, spiritual, and relational well-being. Jimmy identifies three common ways people cope with pain: medicating, motivating, or meditating. Join us as we explore these approaches and learn how to navigate life's challenges towards healing and growth. Tune in to the Marriage Today Podcast and discover valuable insights for transforming pain into resilience. ----------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Jimmy and Karen Evans here, and in this episode, we're tackling a question many of us grapple with: what to do when you love your spouse but don't particularly like them. Get ready for a candid conversation as we share our personal insights on navigating those moments. We emphasize that it's okay to have times when you're not best buddies, but it shouldn't shake your commitment to the marriage. Join us as we delve into controlling emotions, the distinction between liking and loving, and the power of agape love. Stick around for a special mention of our book, the 'I Will' Devotional, and details on counseling services available through xomarriage.com/help ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways It is normal to have times when you don't like your spouse, but it should not affect your behavior or commitment to the marriage. Controlling emotions is crucial in maintaining a loving relationship with your spouse. Liking someone and loving them are not the same thing; agape love goes beyond emotions. The I Will Devotional and counseling services are resources available to help couples navigate challenges in their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Question 00:35 The Real World of Marriage 01:31 Loving Your Neighbor 02:01 Dealing with Dislike 03:00 Controlling Emotions 04:27 Actions vs. Feelings 05:23 The Arrogance of Not Liking 06:22 Commitment in Marriage 07:20 Agape Love 08:17 The Naivety of Expecting Perpetual Like 09:45 Sustaining Love 10:43 The I Will Devotional and Counseling 12:13 Closing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving deep into the heartbeat of a strong marriage: sacrificial love. We're excited to share insights from our new book, 'I Will,' a 365-day devotional crafted for couples. Join us as we unpack the foundation of sacrificial love, the challenge of embodying Christ-like love, and the pivotal role of husbands at home. We get personal about the importance of sacrificial love as the bedrock of any thriving marriage. Stick around for a special promotion of 'I Will' and our heartfelt call to action—whether it's strengthening your bond with our devotional or seeking help when needed. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Sacrifice is the foundation of a man's love for his wife. Loving like Christ is a challenge, but with God's grace, it is possible to strive for it. The husband's role at home is to sacrificially take care of his wife. Sacrificial love should be the number one role in a marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion 01:00 The Foundation of Sacrificial Love 03:22 The Challenge of Loving Like Christ 06:11 The Role of the Husband at Home 08:56 Sacrificial Love as the Number One Role 10:20 Promotion of the I Will Devotional 11:49 Closing and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! We're Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving into the critical topic of having an emergency relief plan for your marriage. Drawing parallels to hurricane evacuation routes, we share personal insights on the importance of being prepared for crisis situations, even those that might seem less severe. We emphasize the impact of emotional decision-making on marriages and highlight the need for help and counseling. From pastors to trusted friends, we encourage you to build a support system and be accountable to others. This isn't just advice; it's our heartfelt call to action—reach out, seek help, and strengthen your marriage. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Having an emergency relief plan for your marriage is crucial to navigate crisis situations. Seeking help and counseling is not a sign of weakness but a sign of wisdom. Building a support system of godly friends and mentors is essential for a healthy marriage. Being accountable to others and submitting to authority can protect and strengthen your marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast 00:34 The Importance of Having an Emergency Relief Plan 01:31 Making a Plan for Crisis Situations 02:29 Seeking Help and Counseling 03:27 Availability of Marriage Counseling 04:23 The Consequences of Not Seeking Help 05:23 The Importance of Outside Influence and Perspective 06:21 Creating a Support System 07:18 The Role of Church and Godly Friends 08:17 The Value of Accountability 09:42 The Importance of Submission to Authority 10:12 The Need for External Help in Complicated Situations 11:37 Encouragement to Seek Help and Counseling 12:07 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're getting personal about the importance of unity in marriage. Beyond parenting, we explore how being a united front impacts every aspect of life—relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Drawing from our own experiences, we stress the benefits of counseling and highlight the pivotal role of communication and shared vision in a thriving marriage. Join us for a candid conversation on why unity is the heartbeat of a strong and lasting relationship. This is not just advice; it's our personal journey, and we're excited to share it with you on the MarriageToday Podcast! ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Being a united front in marriage means being one and not allowing divisions to occur. Parenting requires couples to be a united front and not let their children divide them. Seeking counseling can help resolve disagreements and strengthen unity in marriage. Being a united front extends to all areas of life, including relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Vision retreats can be a transformative experience for couples, helping them align their goals and strengthen their unity. Applying marriage principles and actively working on unity is essential for a successful marriage. Shared finances and decision-making contribute to unity in marriage. Blended families face unique challenges, but being a united front is crucial for the success of the marriage. Resources such as counseling and vision retreats are available to help couples strengthen their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the Importance of Being a United Front 01:04 Parenting as a United Front 03:00 Seeking Counseling to Resolve Disagreements 04:28 Being a United Front in Relationships and Friendships 05:25 The Importance of Communication and Unity in Marriage 06:20 The Benefits of Vision Retreats 07:47 Applying Marriage Principles to Real Life 08:44 The Dangers of Separate Bank Accounts 09:43 Blended Families and Being a United Front 12:32 Conclusion and Resources for Strengthening Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as we unpack the difference between love and enabling in relationships. We get real about codependency, sharing personal stories, and tackling tough issues like addiction and boundaries. Tune in for a fresh perspective on love and relationships! ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Enabling is doing something that encourages your spouse to continue in a negative behavior. Codependency is a relationship where both partners are unhealthy and dependent on each other's unhealth. Setting healthy boundaries is crucial in preventing enabling behavior. True love means loving imperfections but not enabling self-destruction. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Love vs Enabling 00:33 Enabling vs Codependency 01:02 Enabling in Extreme Situations 02:00 Setting Healthy Boundaries 03:24 Negative Behavior and Destructive Relationships04:20Entitlement and Self-Centeredness 05:44 Loving Imperfections but Not Enabling Self-Destruction 07:09 God's Resistance to Pride and Grace for the Humble 08:38 Taking Responsibility in Destructive Relationships 09:33 Manipulation and Enabling 11:02 Knowing Each Other's Past and Recognizing Red Flags 12:00 True Love: Telling the Truth and Taking Action 12:29 Resources and Help for Destructive Relationships 13:12 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy and Karen Evans delve into the crucial theme of forgiveness in marriage. They highlight the consequences of not forgiving, the dangers of bitterness, and the challenging journey of forgiving infidelity. The hosts stress the importance of grace, discuss rebuilding trust after betrayal, and underscore the long-term effects of unforgiveness. Wrapping up, they encourage couples to keep short accounts, seek help when needed, and recommend their book, 'I Will,' as a valuable resource for daily devotionals in marriage. Don't miss this insightful conversation on the transformative power of forgiveness in relationships. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------------------- Takeaways Forgiveness is essential in marriage and should be practiced daily. Unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and negatively impact the relationship. Earning trust after betrayal takes time and consistent behavior. Seeking help and counseling is important for resolving relationship issues. ----------------------- 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forgiveness in Marriage 01:18 The Consequences of Not Forgiving 02:35 The Daily Practice of Forgiveness 03:59 The Impact of Unforgiveness 05:22 Forgiving Infidelity 06:54 Earning Trust After Betrayal 08:43 Grace and Forgiveness in Marriage 10:06 The Power of Forgiveness 11:03 Keeping Short Accounts and Seeking Help 12:27 Conclusion and Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans in a candid discussion on prioritizing marriage. They share their own journey from the brink of divorce, highlighting the vital need to re-prioritize. Advocating for marriage as the most important human relationship, second only to one's connection with God, they stress placing it above work, hobbies, and even children. Tune in for insights on handling in-law dynamics and modeling a robust marriage. Jimmy and Karen encourage couples to address priority violations, fighting passionately for the integrity of their relationship. A short, impactful episode on putting marriage first. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ----------------------- Takeaways Marriage should be prioritized as the most important human relationship, second only to one's relationship with God. Putting marriage before other commitments, such as work, hobbies, and children, is essential for a thriving relationship. In-laws can sometimes pose challenges to a marriage, and it is important to set boundaries and prioritize the spousal relationship. Modeling a strong marriage for children is crucial, as it provides them with a sense of security and sets a positive example for their own future relationships. Addressing violations of the law of priority and fighting for the integrity of the relationship is necessary for a healthy and thriving marriage. ----------------------- Chapters  00:00 The Importance of Prioritizing Marriage 01:01 The Four Laws of Marriage 02:26 Jealousy and Prioritizing Marriage 03:25 The Foundation of a Secure Relationship 04:53 Love and Prioritizing Marriage 05:50 Putting Children Before Marriage 07:14 In-Laws and Prioritizing Marriage 08:40 Modeling a Strong Marriage for Children 10:06 Healing and Communication in Marriage 11:35 The Law of Priority Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as they discuss the importance of total openness in marriage. Introducing their new book, 'I Will,' the couple emphasizes creating a judgment-free space for sharing. Drawing from personal experiences, they highlight the role of honesty, repentance, and graciousness in building trust and intimacy. Be inspired to be each other's best friend, bring everything to light for healing, and seek help when needed. A short, powerful episode on fostering a climate of openness for a thriving marriage. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------------------- Takeaways Creating a safe place for sharing in a marriage is essential for building trust and intimacy. Avoid legalism and embrace grace in order to foster openness and acceptance in the relationship. Being a spouse's safe place means listening without judgment and providing support and understanding. Confessing and bringing everything to light can lead to healing and growth in the marriage. ----------------------- 00:00 Introduction and Book Announcement 01:31 Creating a Safe Place for Sharing 03:47 The Dangers of Legalism 05:10 Maintaining Confidentiality 06:15 The Power of Honesty and Repentance 07:25 Sharing Dreams and Desires 08:39 Bringing Hidden Issues to Light 09:34 Creating a Climate of Openness 10:30 Seeking Help for Unresolved Issues 10:51 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the Marriage Today Podcast. Today, Jimmy Evans reflects on some of his favorite moments from the past five years. The conversation focuses on the importance of communication, creativity, and empathy in marriage. It explores the phases of instinctive romantic love and the need to remember and restore first love. The episode also emphasizes the unconditional love of God and the importance of trusting Jesus. It concludes with practical advice on establishing and maintaining priorities in marriage and protecting them from good things out of priority. ------------------------------ Takeaways Communication, creativity, and empathy are essential for a thriving marriage. Remembering and restoring first love is crucial for maintaining romance in marriage. Trusting Jesus and prioritizing a personal relationship with Him is key to being a good spouse. Proving priorities in marriage through sacrifice, time, energy, and attitude is necessary for a strong relationship. ------------------------------ Chapters 00:00Introduction and Purpose of the Show 00:51 Ways to Communicate Value in Marriage 02:16 The Importance of Creativity in Romance 03:13 The Phases of Instinctive Romantic Love 04:10 Remembering and Restoring First Love 05:36 Taking Action to Restore Romance 07:00 The Unconditional Love of God 08:24 Acceptance, Identity, Security, and Purpose 09:22 The Importance of Trusting Jesus 10:19 Establishing and Maintaining Priorities in Marriage 11:36 Proving Priorities in Marriage 13:32 Protecting Priorities from Good Things Out of Priority 18:42 Putting Family First 19:11 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy and Karen Evans! Today, we're thrilled to bring you a special episode featuring some of our favorite moments of Karen Evans. Join us as Karen delves into various topics crucial to relationships and marriage, sharing insights on essential issues for couples. From improving communication and navigating financial conflicts to balancing frugality and fun, meeting emotional needs, rebuilding trust after infidelity, and setting boundaries with in-laws—this episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice. Get ready to be inspired and empowered as we pull together highlights from our journey together. You're listening to The MarriageToday Podcast, where Jimmy and Karen Evans guide you through the keys to lasting love and connection Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child -------------------------- Takeaways The foundation of a strong relationship is a shared spiritual connection. Open and honest communication is crucial for resolving conflicts and meeting emotional needs. Couples should work together to find a balance between financial security and enjoying life. Rebuilding trust after infidelity takes time, support, and a commitment to forgiveness. Setting boundaries with in-laws is important for maintaining a healthy relationship with your spouse. -------------------------- 00:00 Essential Issues for Couples 01:42 Improving Communication in Marriage 03:02 Dealing with Financial Conflict 05:54 Balancing Frugality and Fun 07:57 Meeting Emotional Needs 09:21 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity 12:12 Setting Boundaries with In-Laws Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the impact of friendships on marriage and faith and the crucial role good friends play in marriage and spiritual growth through personal stories. Learn why surrounding yourself with the right people is vital, as divorce and faithfulness often reflect group dynamics. We'll discuss the significance of choosing friends who share your values, love for Jesus, commitment to marriage, church, and offer encouragement and accountability. Tune in as we explore the profound influence of friendships on your future and relationships. ----------------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we discuss redemptive love, exploring 1 Peter 2:21-3:7 as our guide. Discover how Christ's example of enduring suffering without retaliation teaches us to respond to our spouses' wrongs with grace and love. ----------------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the importance of seeking outside help when facing marital challenges that you and your spouse just can't agree on. We'll explore why seeking counsel isn't a sign of weakness but wisdom. Discover the significance of being teachable through Proverbs 18:1-2 and hear our personal testimony about seeking guidance during tough times.  NEED HELP? Visit:https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ ----------------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! Today, we're tackling the hurdles of praying together as a couple. From handling different spiritual levels to understanding each other's needs, we'll explore the why, when, and how of joint prayer. Join us in learning how to navigate this essential aspect of togetherness and enhance your spiritual connection with your partner. --------------------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey there, welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! Today's episode is all about how Karen prayed for me when I wasn't the best husband and what happened when we truly invited God into our relationship. We'll talk about how relying on God to transform our spouses fosters deeper trust and spiritual intimacy and significantly lowers divorce rates. ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Today's topic is one that we are very passionate about. We want you to know we are praying for you and walking beside you as you fight the battle of redefining your personal identity in Christ. ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! Today, we're tackling the hurdles of praying together as a couple. From handling different spiritual levels to understanding each other's needs, we'll explore the why, when, and how of joint prayer. Join us in learning how to navigate this essential aspect of togetherness and enhance your spiritual connection with your partner. ------------------ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Let's be honest; parenting is hard, and it takes a ton of time and dedication to truly raise great kids. Yet on the flip, your marriage should be your number one priority. Join us today as we dive into keeping your marriage your number-one priority while in the thick of raising kids. Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child For all links mentioned in the episode and more: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Today, we're talking about one of the worst things you can say in your marriage. We will give some practical steps to change the word mine to ours. Resources mentioned in today's show:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/jimmy-evans ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. Karen and I are excited to discuss a common myth we see in marriage; we're debunking the lie that sex and intimacy are the same in marriage. Vision Retreat Course Bundle: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/vision-retreat-course-bundle ----------- Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are so excited; our friends Dave & Ashley have officially launched their new Parenting Uncovered Podcast, and they wanted to share this quick clip with you guys. Because you are listening on our channel, you have the opportunity to enter a giveaway, and who doesn't love free stuff? Follow the link below, listen to the first episode, follow, give a five-star review, and fill out the form in the episode description to enter! https://link.chtbl.com/NH9GRC1Q Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. We are talking about parenting again, but we want to dive into the needs we believe all children have! We have seen the impact a parent truly has on their children. We believe this is the most important job you have as a parent, so lean in, and let's grow together. __________ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. We are excited to be talking about parenting! We have seen the impact a parent truly has on their children. We believe this is the most important job you have as a parent, so lean in, and let's grow together. __________ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1 Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome Back to the MarriageToday Podcast. We are excited to dive back in on the topic of leaving and cleaving! We know it's hard, but it is absolutely necessary to have a successful marriage long-term. Are you the in-law in the relationship? This episode is for you too so don't tune out, lean in and lets grow together. __________ Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Marriage Today podcast. In this episode, Jimmy talks about how we are created differently for a reason and teaches us to understand and operate efficiently through our differences. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about how to deal with anger in your marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about how we build and keep emotionally healthy marriages. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about how we move on from the baggage in our marriages. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about how we handle the changing of circumstances in our marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about what truth your marriage should be based on. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about who should be a true leader of your home? ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about how do we surrender the control in our marriage and become a shepherd not a sheep driver. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, we are giving you a preview of one of our other great podcasts at XO Marriage. The Creative Marriage exist to talk about the art of keeping your love alive no matter what life throws at your marriage. Ed & Lisa Young are some of my dear friends and I know you will enjoy their show.  Listen here: https://link.chtbl.com/ZwlNxYOv For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about the way that we embrace our differences in marriage ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about one of the biggest reasons (and mistakes) we get married. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about how we fall in (and out) of love with our spouse. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about how to understand romance and how it unlocks your marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about doing the hard work to make your marriage succeed. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's brad new episode, Jimmy & Karen are talking about how important being involved in a healthy church is for your marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about breaking generational cycles of dysfunction in your life ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about honest, open conversation in marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about conflict resolution ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

50 years. Jimmy and Karen Evans reflect on today's episode on what they have learned, the good and the bad and what it takes to achieve 50 years of marriage. --- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part three of a three-part series on how to have an unshakable marriage in today's BRAND NEW teaching on the podcast. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part two of a three-part series on how to have an unshakable marriage in today's BRAND NEW teaching on the podcast. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pastor Jimmy kicks off the first part of a three-part series on how to have an unshakable marriage in today's BRAND NEW teaching on the podcast. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about the Importance of prayer in your marriage  . ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about the steps to having a thriving & happy marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about the major needs of men and women in marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about the major needs of men and women in marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about the major needs of men and women in marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about the requirements of raising great children. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about what makes a family functional vs dysfunctional. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is talking about soul mates. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, Pastor Jimmy is teaching the first law of marriage. ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can you be selfish and independent and still have a good marriage? ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you handle when you are let down by your spouse or someone else? ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is is possible to get marriage to "the wrong person?" ---- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Even in a great marriage, a husband and wife can end up hurting each other. What happens next can either strengthen the marriage or steer it toward divorce. Jimmy Evans reveals the value of redemptive love and the five basic choices a spouse has when something goes wrong. Only one of these choices truly works. ------ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can our marriage really succeed? Will I ever find the right one? Take heart that you have a 100% chance of success in marriage when you do it God's way. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can our marriage really succeed? Will I ever find the right one? Take heart that you have a 100% chance of success in marriage when you do it God's way. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy talks about what an emotionally healthy marriage looks like ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Introducing a brand new show on the XO Podcast Network with our from our good friends Jimmy & Irene Rollins. In this new show their share vulnerably about their lives, addictions, struggles, and redemption. We believe this show will have a tremendous impact on your life and marriage. Check it out here: https://link.chtbl.com/twoequalsone More about their new show: Join us for a cinematic journey with Jimmy & Irene Rollins, as they tell their story of addiction, pain, and secrets, and how they found "Purpose in the Prison." The balancing act of family, marriage, and ministry came to a screeching halt when their public ministry life and private family life became too much for two broken individuals to manage. At that point, they had a choice to make: quit or face the problem head-on. This is a story of hope and freedom. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy talks about how prayer will strengthen your marriage and relationship with God. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy talks about having a marriage without baggage. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy talks about why change is difficult and how God can help us through it. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy talks about his and Karen's habit of controlling each other and how they learned that control has no place in marriage. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy talks about his and Karen's differences and how they ultimately helped them have a successful and thriving marriage. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we are sharing how to work on your marriage so that when the kids leave, you can enjoy your marriage. Also, we share some stories and what we've learned from this time in our lives. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we are sharing how to transition from a parent to a friend after your kids leave home. Also, we share some stories and what we've learned from this time in our lives. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode from the Marriage on the Rock sermon series, Jimmy talks about sexual fulfillment and how to keep your passion alive. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this BRAND NEW episode, we are sharing why a date night is important for you as a couple, and what kind of rhythms you should establish. Also, we will be sharing some of our favorite & not so favorite date night stories. ----- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode from the Marriage on the Rock sermon series, Jimmy talks about raising great children and explains how to avoid a dead marriage after raising kids. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode from the Marriage on the Rock sermon series, Jimmy talks about God-centered parenting. Jimmy also discusses in-law relationships and how to navigate them. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My spouse threatened divorce, what do I do? Jimmy and Karen Evans answer this question and others about divorce in this Q&A episode from the Marriage Today Podcast. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy discusses the financial aspect of marriage and how to not let it consume your marriage. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jimmy and Karen outline how dating while married can keep your love alive. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode from the Marriage on the Rock series, Jimmy Evans discusses how to have healthy communication in your marriage. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 300! Thanks for being a faithful MarriageToday listener! ------ On this episode of MarriageToday, we are answering some of your questions, including how to approach the conversation when your parents marriage is in trouble. ----- For all links mentioned on today's show, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jimmy Evans discusses how to overcome the destructive personal tendencies that can lead to divorce. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Brand new MarriageToday content! Enjoy today's episode as we talk through the marriage money languages as well as sharing which language each of us speaks. ---- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jimmy Evans explains how men’s and women’s primary needs differ, and how to meet those needs. ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode we learn what the four laws of marriage are and how they can make or break your relationship. Are there any laws that you are breaking right now? ----- For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Marriage on the Rock Ep. 1 Marriage doesn’t have to be full of frustration and disappointment, you can have a passionate relationship that will stand the test of time. From communication to money to sex, the best-selling book and series, Marriage on the Rock, clearly deals with all the major issues a couple will encounter. Leading marriage instructor Jimmy Evans discusses practical real-life challenges and offers easy to understand solutions even if you are the only one willing to work on the relationship. For more XO content, click HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode we are talking about God's perfect plan for marriage. Is it possible to reach your full potential on your own or did God create marriage to help us do that? ---------- For more great marriage building content, visit: xomarriage.com Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode we are talking about God's perfect plan for marriage. In the last 100 years, the percentage of adults who are married has dropped from 81% to less than 45%. Is marriage a thing of the past or something God has created for our good? If you do marriage God's way, you have a 100% chance of success. ---------- For more great marriage building content, visit: xomarriage.com Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As we approach our 300th episode, we wanted to look back on all of our episodes and share some of favorite moments. We pray the MarriageToday podcast has been given you hope that your marriage has a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. On this episode, we're highlighting Jimmy's favorite marriage teaching. ---------- For more great marriage building content, visit: xomarriage.com Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As we approach our 300th episode, we wanted to look back on all of our episodes and share some of favorite moments. We pray the MarriageToday podcast has been given you hope that your marriage has a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. On this episode, we're highlighting some of our favorite moments Karen has had on the podcast. ---------- For more great marriage building content, visit: xomarriage.com Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As we approach our 300th episode, we wanted to look back on all of our episodes and share some of our Q&A segments with you. We pray the MarriageToday podcast has been given you hope that your marriage has a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. For more great marriage building content, visit: xomarriage.com Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As we approach our 300th episode, we wanted to look back on all of our episodes and share some of our favorite moments with you. We pray the MarriageToday podcast has been given you hope that your marriage has a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. For more great marriage building content, visit: xomarriage.com Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode, Karen is teaching about her journey in overcoming insecurity and how can too. Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

God did not create you to live a life of fear but, instead, to live a life of peace. Fear is always in your life, to some degree, and the enemy uses it to try and keep you from doing God’s will. Seeing God for who He truly is will cause you to run toward Him and never fear again. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You are the gatekeeper of your mind. You decide which thoughts stay and which thoughts go. You’ll either live your life insecure, falsely secure, or secure in God. Turning to God is the first step to security. Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Worry and anxiety are common but are not meant to be normal. It is a robber of joy and only exists because you allow it. We are commanded, in Scripture, not to worry, be fearful, or be anxious. God would never command us not to do something if we didn’t have the ability to overcome it. Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Understanding the difference between worldly and biblical definitions of success will determine the standards of success you set for yourself. You can have all the success of the world and still be a failure, but as long as you have your relationship with Jesus as your first standard of success, you are winning. For more marriage content, visit: xomarriage.com For more teaching from Pastor Jimmy Evans & more visit: xonow.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Word tells us not to be conformed to the world but rather, be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Having a bad attitude keeps you from having the future God wants you to have. Attitudes are chosen and not caused by our circumstances. Having a good attitude is Christ-like and a witness to those around you. Listen Ad-Free by becoming a Premium Team Member: marriagetoday.supercast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Restoring romance is the key to keeping love alive and having a rust-proof marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices