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- 131 - Moving Forward
Jake & Brett have some big announcements to share about the future of the podcast. They share about some exciting endeavors that have begun in their lives & reminisce about some of the best moments, guests & insights from the five years of Way of the Heart. Thank you for listening! If you would like to stay connected with us and stay up to date on these new projects, check out the links below.
References -Big Yellow Coffee-Brett’s Life Compass Website-Brett’s Website-Life Restoration Website
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Wed, 13 Dec 2023 - 1h 49min - 130 - Leadership
Jake & Brett have worked together with organizations to help solve some of their issues & grow in some places that needed improvement. In this episode, they share these leadership & relational skills with us! Whether you are a leader at your job, your Church or in your home, this episode has tools to help you lead well. Jake & Brett will challenge you & give you the tips & shifts in mindset that you need to be successful in all that God has called you to.
Key Points
Sharing key issues that most organizations have in common.
Communication tends to be an issue, both from the leaders down & from the employees up the chain.
Keeping in mind the gap between what is and what should be.
Leaders need to have their ears to the ground so they can hear about small problems before they snowball into larger ones.
How common leadership tips work in the home.
The importance of building a culture and bringing people in that fit the culture.
Defensiveness slows our growth.
How these principles apply to our Church & Church leaders.
References -Big Yellow Coffee-Patrick Lencioni’s Website-”Good to Great” by John Collins-”The Leadership Challenge” -Brett’s Website-Restore the Glory Podcast-”Becoming a King” by Morgan Snyder-”Waking the Dead” by John Eldredge
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Wed, 29 Nov 2023 - 1h 03min - 129 - Yeshua Retreat
Jake & Brett just returned from their annual men’s retreat with beautiful reflections on what the Lord did. They discuss the power of praying together, falling back in love with Jesus & how interactions with Christ may not always be what we expect but are always loving.
Key Points
Returned from the annual men’s retreat with reflections (and a lost voice)
Brett got a rare opportunity to participate in a retreat without having to lead it or speak and it was freeing.
The power of praying with other guys.
We may fail, but love will never fail.
Breaking out of a fun & falling back in love with Jesus…and your spouse!
The woman at the well leaves her interaction with Jesus happy, even though He revealed her sin to her.
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Wed, 15 Nov 2023 - 46min - 128 - Jordan Peterson
Dr. Jordan Peterson has been in the news recently so Jake & Brett discuss the situation and what they appreciate about Dr. Peterson. They share the lessons they have learned from Jordan in regards to culture, faith, fathering & more. While Dr. Peterson isn’t perfect, our hosts share that he is still one of the best thought leaders we have in our modern day.
Key Points
Jordan Peterson has been in the news because the regulatory body that governs counselors in Ontario is sanctioning him based on complaints they received. He is fighting against these sanctions
This case is concerning for the right to free speech and restriction of non-government approved thoughts on topics like faith and morality.
Jordan is a master of critiquing culture. He argues against arguments becoming simple dichotomies.
Being radically in the middle is a rare but good place to be.
The importance of staying calm in the midst of backlash.
Jordan is a good example of fathering people who aren’t your children. Jake & Brett share examples
Men need to be dangerous, but good.
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References -Big Yellow Coffee-Brett’s Blog on Frodo being reluctant hero that Jordan Peterson retweeted-Brett’s Blog on Jordan Peterson
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Wed, 01 Nov 2023 - 43min - 127 - Can We Get Serious Now?
Brett shares a quote from the movie “Sully” that really struck him: “Can we get serious now?” He and Jake discuss that as a culture and as men, we need to start focusing on what really matters and not the frivolous matters that often keep our attention. This leads to tackling issues such as being too hard on ourselves, not challenging ourselves enough and learning from our mistakes. It’s a great conversation for any man who struggles with stress, self-doubt & complacency.
Key Points
“Can we get serious now?” is a quote from the movie Sully about the miracle on the Hudson that caught Brett’s attention.
As a culture and as men, we need to start focusing on what really matters and not the frivolous matters that often keep our attention.
We need to factor in normal human error into our own failings and stop beating ourselves up. Taking on difficult endeavors is admirable and we need to adjust our expectations of ourselves accordingly.
We need to apply some common sense combined with deeper thinking into hot button issues in our culture.
If you’re not getting the results you want, look at the underlying excuses you’re making or where you may be turning your focus on to things that aren’t helping you get those results.
If we haven’t learned from our mistakes, we are bound to repeat them in the future.
We don’t need to become holy before we come to Jesus, we need to come to Jesus as we are so He can help us grow in holiness.
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References -Big Yellow Coffee
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Wed, 18 Oct 2023 - 1h 06min - 126 - Men & Feelings
Jake & Brett are together in person to discuss men & feelings. There is a common narrative that men don’t have emotions but that just simply isn’t the case. Our hosts discuss how this common misconception affects men in their everyday lives, including within the Church. Men’s mental health issues and lack of emotional regulation are rampant so today the guys discuss the importance of addressing men’s emotions in order to become better men.
Key Points
Suppression of emotions is common in men’s culture and even men’s ministry
Men’s mental health issues are a largely unaddressed problem
Being able to show our own weakness is actually strength
Men often suffer in silence or only their family see their struggles
Addressing the root cause of the pornography epidemic
Unregulated emotion is dangerous & needs to be addressed
The passions are not bad, but they just need to be ordered with reason
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References -Big Yellow Coffee-Brett’s Blog on Men & Emotions
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Wed, 04 Oct 2023 - 45min - 125 - Letting Our Masculinity Go
Jake & Brett are back from their summer break! They share the highlights of their summer & dive into a new season by discussing what happens when you let your masculinity grow. They talk about the importance of discipline in our spiritual, physical, family and work lives & share how to find environments and practices that challenge you to be a better man.
Key Points
Jake & Brett share the highlights of their summer
Jake’s surprising best place to pray
What happens when we have let key aspects of being a man go
What is the environment that challenges me to be a better man
Processing challenges to our masculinity through prayer
The importance of avoiding constant comparison
Self-awareness is the first step in a process of change
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Wed, 20 Sep 2023 - 43min - 124 - Summer Break | Rest, Reflect & Recharge
Jake and Brett are taking time off for summer vacation and want the listeners of the podcast to enjoy the break as well. They also remind us that you can take this time as an opportunity to catch up on all the episodes of the show that you may have missed. Have a blessed Summer. We will see you in the Fall!
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Wed, 14 Jun 2023 - 05min - 123 - Life Compass (Part 2) | Values, Virtues, Purpose & Key Relationships
In part 2 of our “Life Compass” series, Jake and Brett dive further into discussion about personal values, virtues & leaving a legacy. They talk about “eulogy virtues” and what they mean for how we conduct ourselves today. They also touch on charisms, perfectionism & regulating our emotions.
Key Points
Exploration of personal values & charisms
Having eulogy virtues, not only resumé virtues
What kind of legacy do you want to leave for your family?
Integrating our virtues and values
“Perfection becomes the obstacle to progress” -Brett
Having emotions regulated by reason
JPII as a model for masculinity
References Build My Life Compass WebsiteDavid Brooks “Road to Character”
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Wed, 31 May 2023 - 32min - 122 - Life Compass (Part 1) | Values, Virtues, Purpose & Key Relationships
Brett has a project called the “Life Compass” that he has been working on for many years. Jake invites him to share where this idea came from & how it has transformed his life. In this two part series, Jake & Brett discuss how to integrate your personal & professional life, live based on your virtues and so much more. Enjoy!
Key Points
An exploration of Brett’s new venture/retreat called “Life Compass”
Where this idea originated in Brett’s life
What are the most important things in your life?
Integrating our personal and professional lives
Compass vs. Clock mentality
“Direction matters more than speed.” -Brett
References The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen CoveyBuild My Life Compass Website
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Wed, 17 May 2023 - 31min - 121 - A Prophet’s Perspective of the Church with Ralph Martin
Jake and Brett interview Ralph Martin, the president of Renewal Ministries, which is an organization devoted to Catholic renewal and evangelization. Ralph is also the host of the long running television show "The Choices We Face." This conversation discusses the state of the Catholic church in the United States today and explores the role of modern men in today’s world, culture and Church.
Key Points
Key moments in developing your heart as a man for the Lord
Giving our “yes” to the Lord
An overview of “Fulfillment of All Desire”, Ralph’s book combining the best of many Catholic spiritualities
Ralph’s insights into what is going on in the modern Church
How to discern the difference between truth and heresy
The importance of knowing Scripture to know the real Jesus
The role of men in the modern Church and culture
References The Magnificat WebsiteRenewal Ministries WebsiteThe Fulfillment of All DesireRenewal Ministries YouTube Channel
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Wed, 03 May 2023 - 1h 01min - 120 - Church, Culture & Masculinity with George Weigel
In this conversation with prolific author and renowned educator George Weigel, Jake and Brett talk through a number of extremely important topics regarding modern man, faith & culture. George shares his deep knowledge and understanding of the Church and its connection with the ever-changing cultures through his lifetime. They also discuss what was actually taught at Vatican II & the wisdom found in the teachings of Pope St. John Paul II.
Key Points
How the landscape of Catholicism in culture has changed during George’s life
The Catholic view of sexuality vs. the modern thought on sexuality
What actually happened with Vatican II and common misconceptions
Pope St. John Paul II’s view on modern masculinity
Lessons from the story of the prodigal son
Letter about Pope John Paul II written by George Weigel
St Pope John Paul II's talk on penance
References George's WebsiteGeorge’s Books
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Wed, 19 Apr 2023 - 51min - 119 - What is the Good Life: Some Final Thoughts
Jake and Brett wrap up the season reflecting on all that they heard from their great guests throughout this series about the Good Life. They discuss the themes that tied many of the episodes from this season together like the importance of brotherhood & seeking truth. At the end, they give a sneak preview of what to look forward to next season.
Key Points
Revisiting the highlights from the guests this season
The importance of brotherhood for living the Good Life
Living according to truth, no matter what the culture is telling us
How we can help our children live the Good Life
Discussing resources people can use to better live the Good Life
Introduction of the theme for the next season
References John Eldredge Books & PodcastJordan Peterson Books & Podcast“Live Not by Lies” by Rod DreherGeorge Wiegel’s Book on Vatican II “To Sanctify the World”“Ordering Your Private World” by Gordon MacDonaldWide Open Spaces Podcast
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Wed, 05 Apr 2023 - 52min - 118 - What is the Good Life with Fr. Boniface Hicks, OSB
Jake and Brett talk with Father Boniface Hicks, a monk who serves as the director of The Institute for Ministry Formation at St Vincent Seminary in Latrobe, Pennsylvania. He is also Jake’s spiritual director. :) This conversation dives deep into this season's topic of "the Good Life?" from the perspective of a monk. The guys talk about the different ways to be a man and how the lives of the saints contrasts with how society tells us to live.
Key Points
What the good life looks like in the priesthood/religious life.
Learning from the saints about what life can look like.
Dealing with repetitive tasks as a priest, husband and father and how to keep our hearts in it.
What it means to let yourself be loved.
The false pursuits people often follow that don't actually lead to happiness.
Why St. Joseph is a strong male role model.
Being overwhelmed in inadequacy.
Key Quotes “Love until it hurts and then there is no more hurt & only more love.” Mother Theresa
“St. Joseph was perpetually inadequate but never weak.” -Jake
References Fr. Boniface’s WebsiteThe Institute for Ministry Formation @ Saint Vincent Seminary
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Wed, 22 Mar 2023 - 57min - 117 - What is the Good Life with Peter White, RCC
In this episode of Way of the Heart, Jake & Brett are joined by long time friend, Peter White. Peter is a Registered Clinical Counselor that has known Jake professionally for years and watched Brett hoop during his prime basketball years. They discuss a wide variety of topics including the beauty and difficulties of marriage, how men and women respond differently to conflict, how conflict can lead to great things & the importance of good fathers. This is one of our deepest conversations yet and we hope that it speaks to your heart.
Key Points
The beauty and difficulties of marriage.
A discussion about how people, especially men, get married without an understanding of what it takes for a marriage to thrive.
Trends in boy’s/men’s personal growth since the feminist movement
Psychologically, men tend to have a fight or flight mentality. Women tend to have a tend and mend mentality. This dates back to the earliest humans. Men tend to fight alone. Women work together.
Conflict in marriage can be generative.
The importance of fatherhood. Inviting our sons to something higher by letting them punch a little above their weight.
The distorted desire to build an empire instead of serving your neighbor.
How to drop the facade and get to more of your true self.
Key Quotes
“Most men are far more sensitive than they let on.” -Peter
“Your wife cannot fully understand the contents of your heart if you’re shouting at her.” -Peter
References Peter’s Website Warren Farrell’s Website
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Wed, 08 Mar 2023 - 1h 18min - 116 - What is the Good Life with Dr. Christopher West
In this episode of Way of the Heart, Jake and Brett are joined by a close friend of the show, Dr. Christopher West. Christopher is a renowned Catholic author and speaker on the topic of human sexuality. This conversation touches on many topics that appear in our everyday lives. The guys also address the temptations of worldly desires and how they give a false sense of what is considered good. Dr. West shares several examples from his life experiences about what “the good life” has meant to him and the lessons he has learned in his personal life and professional training.
Key Points
The modern idea of the good life that is pushed on us in today’s culture is actually a lie
There is always going to be an unreachable ideal of what society expects you to be
Having security in yourself as it comes from the Father
A discussion of the 4 levels of happiness
The idea of the good life being a journey
References Dr. West’s Website
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Wed, 22 Feb 2023 - 59min - 115 - What is the Good Life with Dr. John Bergsma
Jake and Brett sit down this week and speak with Dr John Bergsma. Dr. Bergsma is a professor at Franciscan University and one of the leading Scripture scholars in the nation. The guys talk about “The Good Life” and how it relates to Dr. Bergsma’s personal faith and professional expertise. They touch on how the Catholic faith allows people to connect with the Father through both Scripture & Tradition and what cultivating a deeper relationship with the Lord might look like.
Key Points
Why we need more than just the Bible as Catholics. How Scripture and Tradition work hand in hand.
What it means for a man to have access to his heart and how that awareness helps us to grow into better men.
What the good life means to Dr. Bergsma
Maximilian Kolbe - What is sin?
We are loved by a God that wants to be our Father
What is the weight of the word "good?"
Making "Nourish and Cherish" a central part of your relationships
References Dr. Bergsma’s Website
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Wed, 08 Feb 2023 - 51min - 114 - What is the Good Life with Bishop Scott McCaig, CC
Way of the Heart continues diving deeper into the theme of “the Good Life.” Joined by Bishop Scott McCaig, the guys dive into conversation regarding the 4 levels of happiness and how that contributes towards our fulfillment. They discuss how the levels of happiness help motivate us to become a better person and often leads to improving the quality of life for yourself and family. They also take a look into the many unhealthy desires for success that people hold in their hearts. This episode is a must listen for anyone wanting to learn more about how to use the levels of happiness to satisfy their needs for fulfillment.
Key Points
- The good life is reaching happiness on all four of it’s levels The foundations of the idea of the good life is the Greek philosophers Finding happiness in something external is the most basic level of happiness: material objects, physical pleasures, etc. The pros and cons associated with the pursuit of each level of happiness Owning possessions is fine unless you let the possessions own you Happiness by comparison. Being happy due to your successes. Happiness from doing good for others. Happiness from reaching out with our hearts to other people. Perfect happiness recognizes that our deepest fulfillment yearns for something not of this world: Heaven.
References“Fulfillment of All Desire” by Ralph Martin“Finding True Happiness” by Fr. Robert Spitzer“Flourishing: Why We Need Religion in a Globalized World” by Miroslav Volf
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Wed, 25 Jan 2023 - 54min - 113 - Intro to the Good Life
Jake & Brett begin Season 13 with the primary question of “Are you happy?” They discuss where they will be headed in their new season about “the good life.” The guys open up about their personal lives and dive into the matters of the heart on what truly makes them happy and fulfilled. They explain how this season they will be laying out the groundwork for a life worth living. Get ready to explore how we can all live more peaceful, loving and fulfilling lives this season.
Key Points
- Are you happy? We have to take a step back and get under surface level thoughts to examine what is going on deeper in our hearts What are the things that lead to a good life? “The unexamined life is not worth living” -Socrates We need relationships to help give us perspective on how our lives are going. On our own we can become complacent, too negative or over-confident. How do we find peace?
ReferencesWay of the Heart S12 E7 with Fr. Timothy Gallagher
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Wed, 11 Jan 2023 - 56min - 112 - Season 13 Teaser | The Good Life
Jake & Brett tease they’re upcoming season called “The Good Life.” They share how excited they are and Brett calls it their most important series yet! Some great conversations, guests and life lessons are coming to you starting January 11th. Be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss it!
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Wed, 28 Dec 2022 - 06min - 111 - Men in the Arena: Reflections on Season 12
Jake & Brett close out Season 12 with a conversation about Teddy Roosevelt’s "Citizen in a Republic" speech commonly known as the “Man in the Arena” speech. They discuss how to deal with critics(including your internal one), strive for excellence and battle in the arena of sexuality.
Key Points
Only voices in the arena matter. Don't listen to external critics. Sometimes the critic is our internal one. In a world of critics, we should be encouraging each other Excellence honors God but it cannot take His place We should be using our charisms to honor God and build up our family and friends, not for our own personal gain. How to battle in the arena of sexualityConnect with Way of the Heart:
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Wed, 14 Dec 2022 - 1h 08min - 110 - BONUS EPISODE: Ignatian Discernment with Fr. Timothy Gallagher
Have you ever wondered which of your every day thoughts are from God, and which are not? Or have you ever contemplated, “What’s God’s will?” when faced with a decision, big or small? A series of simple principles called the Ignatian Rules of Discernment can bring clarity to these questions and more. They are a 500-year-old playbook to understanding the spiritual movements of our everyday lives and in this bonus guest episode, Jake and Brett unpack the Fourteen Rules of Discernment with the modern master of discernment, Fr. Timothy Gallagher. Fr. Timothy has written countless books on St. Ignatius’s teachings and hosts a podcast to bring these foundational spiritual principles to a modern audience. Though they are simple, they are transformational for growth in the spiritual life.
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Before listening to this episode, had you heard of discernment? What did you think it was? How has your understanding of discernment changed after listening to this episode?
Resources
The Discernment of Spirits: An Ignatian Guide for Everyday Living, Fr. Timothy Gallagher (book) The Discernment of Spirits in Marriage, Fr. Timothy Gallagher (book) Discerning the Will of God: An Ignatian Guide to Christian Decision Making, Fr. Timothy Gallagher (book) The Examen Prayer, Fr. Timothy Gallagher (book) Discerning Hearts - The Discernment of Spirits (podcast) frtimothygallagher.org (website)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Wed, 30 Nov 2022 - 1h 17min - 109 - Men in the Arena: Simon Kyne
Today, Jake and Brett welcome their last guest of Season 12, Simon Kyne, to the podcast. You may not recognize his name, but Simon is the ‘friend’ mentioned in many stories throughout our episodes. In fact, Way of the Heart would not be here without Simon, since he introduced Jake and Brett years ago. For more than two decades, Simon has walked with Brett and Jake individually as a foxhole friend, at different times feeling called to pray for each of them for one hundred days straight. Simon joins the conversation to tackle the absolute necessity of brotherhood, loneliness and what to do when the longing for close friendship is unfulfilled.
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Who can you ‘lend strength’ to as a brother? Do you believe you are worthy of belonging and deep friendship?
Resources
The Pope & the CEO, Andrea Widmer (book)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Wed, 16 Nov 2022 - 59min - 108 - Men in the Arena: Fr. John Riccardo
In this episode, Jake and Brett sit down with Fr. John Riccardo, a priest from the Archdiocese of Detroit who leads a ministry called Acts 29 which helps ordained and lay leaders in this apostolic age. Fr. Riccardo is passionate about preaching the Gospel, responding to the crisis of fatherhood in the priesthood, and being authentically human. Pull up a chair and get comfortable because Fr. Riccardo is about to share a pulse on the Church like you’ve never heard it.
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? How did Fr. Riccardo’s comments about the struggle of priests impact you? Have you heard the Gospel message shared that way before? What is the response of your heart?
Resources
Acts XXIX Ministry You Were Born for This Podcast Episode 133:The Heart of a Shepherd, You Were Born for This Podcast Episode 47: Leading and Leadership (Part 2) with Archbishop Sample, Restore the Glory Podcast From Christendom to Apostolic Mission (book)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Wed, 02 Nov 2022 - 1h 03min - 107 - Men in the Arena: Fr. Raymond de Souza
Employing true critical thinking in our current cultural environment requires no small measure of courage. Our guest today, Fr. Raymond de Souza, is no stranger to making his thoughts known in the public sphere as one of the longest standing columnists for the National Post (among countless other titles and accolades). Father de Souza shares with Jake and Brett his proudest commentaries published by the paper, how his critical thinking was developed at the family dinner table, and the importance of reading books by those you do not agree with.
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? How would you describe the line between courage and arrogance? How can we be more courageous with voicing our opinions while not becoming arrogant? What do you think of Father de Souza’s encouragement to read more, especially books by those you disagree with?
Resources
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Wed, 19 Oct 2022 - 1h 09min - 106 - Men in the Arena: Sam Blair
Have you ever wondered what it’s like to be a Navy SEAL? How do SEALs stay the course under the most brutal circumstances and what can we learn from them as men living in our own arenas? In this episode, Jake and Brett sit down with Sam Blair, a trained and experienced SEAL who shares the importance of being called to your work, how excellence comes down to training, and why knowing your why is the secret to persevering when things get tough.
Guiding Quote:
He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how. - Viktor Frankl
Key Points
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? When adversity strikes, what are your outlets? Are they healthy or unhealthy? What is your ‘why’ in the arenas of your life? Where do you currently feel like a ‘beginner’ in your work, spiritual life or vocation? Could it be because you have entered into a new phase?
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Wed, 05 Oct 2022 - 54min - 105 - Men in the Arena: Peter Herbeck
Do you feel disillusioned by the state of the world? Are you feeling lukewarm in your faith? Jake and Brett talk to Peter Herbeck of Renewal Ministries about judgment, the grinding down of truth, redemption and hope. Peter shares pieces of his own story and how he is unafraid of dark places and hard things because of what Christ has done for him.
Peter Herbeck is the Executive Vice President of Renewal Ministries, a leading voice in evangelization and renewal throughout the world.
Guiding Quote:
“I am a sick man and I need help. Please help me.” - Peter’s father
Key Points
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Do you find yourself in a place of being lukewarm in your faith, or have you in the past? How do you respond to Peter’s exhortation to step into the light? Have you experienced situations where going to dark places actually gave you greater hope in the long run? How did God meet you in those places and draw you back?
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Wed, 21 Sep 2022 - 59min - 104 - Men in the Arena: Introduction
Jake and Brett share their highs and lows of the summer, and introduce the theme for Season 12: Men in the Arena. Over the next few weeks, we’ll hear from five men who are living ‘in the arena,’ including a Navy SEAL, a priest and columnist for a major publication, a ministry leader, a priest engaged in parish renewal, and a high-level business executive. Jake and Brett explain what made them choose to interview each man, and tease some surprising turns in the conversations.
Guiding Quote:
“It’s not the critic who counts. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.” - Theodore Roosevelt
Key Points
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What are the arenas I’m in? What are my low, medium and high level arenas? How do I handle failure? What do I do when a brother is in the arena? How do I respond to him?
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Wed, 07 Sep 2022 - 58min - 103 - Summertime
In this final episode of Way of the Heart before a summer hiatus, Jake and Brett discuss the feelings that the summer evokes for them and what this says about the Father’s heart.
Key Points
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What does the summer evoke for me? What feelings and/or passtimes come to mind? Do I believe that the Father wants 'summertime' for me? Where do I find life, and what do I have to do to get it?
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Mon, 27 Jun 2022 - 28min - 102 - Centre of the Universe
In a recent conversation, Jake had an image come to mind of planets revolving around the sun, except instead of planets they were people, and instead of the sun, Jesus was at the centre of everything. Jake and Brett spend the episode breaking open that analogy and putting into perspective why saying that ‘you’re not the centre of the universe’ is an invitation to a rightly-ordered life rather than a judgement.
Guiding Quote:
“You are not the centre of the universe” - Jake Khym
Key Points
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What are you looking for in life? What are the expectations you have of God? Do you hear the phrase, ‘You’re not the centre of the universe’ as a judgement or with relief? Why? Which is the primary tendency you struggle with, based on Jake and Brett’s examples: pride, vanity or sensuality? How can you invite Jesus to help you combat this?
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Mon, 13 Jun 2022 - 40min - 101 - The Value of Asceticism
Jake and Brett have a rich conversation covering everything from the principle of asceticism, to how true self-actualization is found in Christ, to what it means for us to be living in what George Weigel describes as the ‘Age of Witness’. The hosts challenge us to consider what captures our attention and time, and reveal how giving up good things to pursue something greater can offer us freedom and intimacy in our friendship with Christ.
Guiding Quote:
It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased. - CS Lewis
Key Points
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What do you find yourself enchanted by, or in other words what do you spend the most time on? How would pulling back from this allow you to deepen your friendship with Jesus? What feels impossible to give up in my life? Challenge yourself to be free of that thing over the next two weeks. What areas of your life are hard to trust that God will be able to provide for or satisfy?
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Mon, 30 May 2022 - 42min - 100 - Celebrating One Hundred (and Getting Below the Surface)
Jake and Brett look back at one hundred episodes of the Way of the Heart by sharing favourite episodes, what they wish they’d talked about more, and how they’ve watched each other grow over the past four years. The show wraps up with some unscripted feedback as the men offer each other words of encouragement and observations about potential blindspots. As always, the show is a window into the brotherhood the two share, and a blueprint to help navigate the way of the heart. To celebrate our 100th episode, would you leave us a rating and review? Thanks for listening!
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Contest is open to anyone age 19+ and closes June 30 at 11:59 pm PT. Information about the Men's Retreat can be found at liferestoration.ca/mensretreat.
Guiding Quote:
For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice but rather a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline. - 2 Timothy 1:7
Key Points
Brett’s favourite episodes (linked in resources): Episode 68 - Spiritual Growth Episode 94 - Discerning the Internal Critic Episode 95 - Living From the Heart Episode 96 - What’s Going on in the Culture Episodes 69 & 70 - Marriage (with Heather Khym and Andrea Powell) Anything with Bishop Scott! Any time the conversation turned into a different topic than planned! Jake’s favourite episodes (linked in resources): Episode 20 - What Jake Would Say to His 20-Year-Old-Self Episode 91 - The Masculine Healing Journey with Dr. Bob Schuchts World events that have happened since the podcast began in the summer of 2018 Podcast regrets: what we wish we’d talked about more Ways the podcasts has helped us improve and grow over the past few years Areas where we’ve noticed ourselves slipping since we began the podcast Jake and Brett give honest feedback to each otherDiscussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What is your favourite episode? What’s one suggestion you would have for a future episode?
Resources
Episode 20 - What Jake Would Say to His 20-Year-Old-Self Episode 68 - Spiritual Growth (with Bishop Scott) Episodes 69 & 70 - Marriage (with Heather Khym and Andrea Powell) Episode 91 - The Masculine Healing Journey with Dr. Bob Schuchts Episode 94 - Discerning the Internal Critic (with Bishop Scott) Episode 95 - Living From the Heart (with Bishop Scott) Episode 96 - What’s Going on in the Culture (with Bishop Scott) On Men and Feelings, Brett Powell (blog post) The Men’s Retreat, Life Restoration Ministries (event)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 16 May 2022 - 59min - 99 - Way of the Heart Jargon 101
If you’ve ever listened to the podcast and wondered, “What on earth do they mean by ‘orphan mentality’ or ‘foxhole friends’?” then this episode is for you. Jake and Brett zoom out to explain some of the vernacular they use regularly on the show. Whether you’re a faithful listener or new to the Way of the Heart, this episode is full of a-ha moments as they provide context to terms like the foxhole, wounds, scripts, performance orientation, and orphan.
Key Points
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Which of the terms that Jake and Brett discuss are you least familiar with? What did you learn from their definition? What terms would you add to the Way of the Heart jargon list?
Resources
Anatomy of a Wound series from Restore the Glory Podcast 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey (book)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 02 May 2022 - 48min - 98 - Defining Our Personal Values
Why does it matter to know and define our personal values? Jake and Brett argue that discovering our personal value system can help us understand and live God’s unique design for our lives. Whether we have taken the time to define our core values or not, we all live out of an unspoken code. The more we seek to live a well-ordered life and come to understand what makes us tick, the better we can fulfill our unique mission in the world..
Guiding Quote:
But let your word 'yes be 'yes,' and your 'no be 'no.' - Matthew 5:37
Key Points
Brett’s high: he’s grandfather to a second grandbaby, Sebastian! Our personal values are a manifestation of God’s unique design for our life, but they have to be discovered Examples of why personal values matter Our emotions can reveal our values when they’re well ordered A model you can use to uncover your values: define, align, refine How Brett and Jake have defined, aligned and refined their own values How can we recognize if we’re out of alignment with our values?Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Take a moment to do the ‘eulogy’ exercise: what do you want people to say about you at the end of your life? How do these things point toward your values?
Resources
The Strangest Way: Walking the Christian Path, Robert Barron (book) Gladiator (movie) Episode 78: The Compass vs the Clock, Way of the Heart (podcast) Episode 91: The Masculine Healing Journey with Dr. Bob Schuchts (podcast) Principle-Centered Leadership, Stephen Covey (book) The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey (book) First Things First, Stephen Covey (book) The Leadership Challenge (book) John C Maxwell (author) 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos, Jordan Peterson (book)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 18 Apr 2022 - 52min - 97 - How Cancel Culture and the Digitization of Everything Impact the Heart
Jake and Brett continue the conversation from last episode about what’s going on in the culture. The topics on the table are “cancel culture” and the digitization of everything, but most importantly how these trends affect the way of the heart.
Guiding Quote:
“The Church has always had the duty of scrutinizing the signs of the times and interpreting them in light of the Gospel.” - Gaudium Et Spes (4)
Key Points
Shoutout to Forte Catholic - thanks for editing our show! Why we are called to pay attention to (and discern) the signs of the times Cancel culture and the canceling of Joe Rogan Extending mercy and forgiveness to those in public spaces who admit to doing wrong The danger of not creating space for conversion and growth How the expectation of perfection by our culture can be dehumanizing What the digitization of everything is doing to the heart How constant connectedness through technology can affect our prayer life, relationships and attention An insightful story about Jake’s son’s basketball teamDiscussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Do you find it challenging to extend mercy to those in public roles? Do you allow yourself to hope for conversion and growth in our leaders or do you find yourself expecting perfection? What is the distinction between grace and accountability? How do you notice digitization affecting your life? What is one thing you can do to make a positive shift in this area?
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Mon, 04 Apr 2022 - 45min - 96 - What’s Going On In the Culture with Bishop Scott McCaig
Bishop Scott McCaig, CC is back to share what he sees happening on a heart-level in our culture today. If we want to truly live the way of the heart, we have to understand the culture we’re living in instead of burying our heads in the sand. Then, we must engage there from a place of love. Join us for an enlightening conversation that closes with a challenge and a dose of hope.
Guiding Quote:
Faith and Reason are like two wings of the human spirit by which it soars to the truth. - St. John Paul II
Key Points
We’re living in the age of voluntarism, where everything originates from the will The shift from Christendom to Enlightenment in the 1700s changed how we saw the origin of truth We have moved past the Age of Reason to the Age of the Will (Voluntarism) which leans heavily on our feelings rather than looking to Divine inspiration Jake shares the analogy of the Matrix to illustrate our reality Why advocacy is the primary virtue that our culture seems to value Discussion turns towards women’s sports and how objective reality makes itself known The men tackle the question, “What’s the way of the heart in the midst of a culture of voluntarism?”Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Do you feel that you have a good grasp of the culture we are living in? Do you find yourself desiring not to engage with the culture? What do you think of Jake’s analogy of the Matrix? How can you live the way of the heart with this newfound understanding of voluntarism?
Resources
Philosophy of Voluntarism The Matrix (movie) Bishop Scott on TwitterConnect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 21 Mar 2022 - 37min - 95 - Living from the Heart with Bishop Scott McCaig
Show Notes:
Jake and Brett welcome Bishop Scott McCaig, CC back onto the podcast to revisit a quote from the Catechism of the Catholic Church that addresses the way of the heart. They each share reflections on the heart as a place of authenticity, decision and encounter. The Catechism describes the heart as “the dwelling-place of where I am.” If we want to live in full freedom, we must understand our own hearts. This episode is a great place to start.
Guiding Quote:
The heart is the dwelling-place where I am, where I live; according to the Semitic or Biblical expression, the heart is the place "to which I withdraw." The heart is our hidden center, beyond the grasp of our reason and of others; only the Spirit of God can fathom the human heart and know it fully. The heart is the place of decision, deeper than our psychic drives. It is the place of truth, where we choose life or death. It is the place of encounter, because as image of God we live in relation: it is the place of covenant. - CCC 2563
Key Points
Brett, Jake and Bishop Scott share initial thoughts about the quote from the Catechism of the Catholic Church Three qualities that mean living from the heart authentically: sincerity, presence and intentionality. We live three lives: the public life, private life and hidden life of the heart We must prioritize the hidden life The power of decisions and how past decisions have formed us and future decisions can lead us Identifying personal values of the heart allows us to make good decisions How virtue sets us free to be who we are meant to be How right orientation to God as the centre of all things makes us inherently vulnerableDiscussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What are some of the personal values you strive to live out of? Which area of your life is it most difficult to live as your authentic self: the public, private or hidden life of the heart?
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Mon, 07 Mar 2022 - 37min - 94 - Discerning the Internal Critic with Bishop Scott McCaig
In this episode of the Way of the Heart, we host special guest Bishop Scott McCaig, CC. We dialogue about discerning the internal critic and what voices belong to the enemy, the self, and the Holy Spirit. We discuss how the enemy and the self often condemn us, whereas the Holy Spirit lovingly convicts us of the truth that brings about good fruit in our lives. We distinguish that condemnation leads to shame, but conviction leads to repentance and hope. We also focus on the need to experience the deep love that the Father has for us and His desire for us to lead us into our glory.
Guiding Quote:
“We have to be rooted deeply in a place of sonship, in a place of understanding the father's love for me. Then I can understand and receive both his affirming voice and his voice of discipline.” Bishop Scott McCaig
Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What types of things does the voice of condemnation (whether from yourself or the enemy) say to you personally? Share a moment where you felt that God gave you loving correction.
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Mon, 21 Feb 2022 - 40min - 93 - How to Engage With Relational Drift
Jake revisits his low from the last episode, which revolves around friendship dynamics and his shortcomings. Brett presses into the recent and humbling experience Jake had with an old friend, and the two launch into a discussion about the power of self-awareness, safety and virtue when you’re experiencing relational drift with a friend. This is heart-level stuff, but as Jake says, it’s important to engage at this level if you don’t want to be an asshole (plus, Navy SEALs aren’t afraid of talking about their weaknesses for the sake of their team).
Key Points
Jake recounts a difficult conversation with a good friend who he hadn’t been in touch with for some time Jake shares the conviction that he wants to do better in friendships and move away from utilitarian tendencies Brett presses into the factors that led to Jake approaching friendship with utility How safety plays a significant role in being vulnerable and growing a friendship The power of interpretations and agreements The blessing that truth is to friendship Why Navy SEAL training includes sharing what your greatest weakness is with your team How hard conversations can be a blessing and lead to stronger friendship Why we should try not to be an assholeDiscussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Do you want the kind of friendship that Brett and Jake describe? Are there any friendships that come to mind during this episode where you’ve experienced that ‘relational drift’? Instead of diving into a conversation with them right away, pray about it first, as Brett advised. What comes up for you?
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Mon, 07 Feb 2022 - 43min - 92 - The Internal Critic
Brett’s low this week leads to an extended conversation about the internal critic, a diminishing voice that tends to show up when we least want it to: during a work meeting, right before an important exam or in an important conversation with a loved one. Where does the diminisher come from and how can we tell the voice of the enemy from the voice of God? Brett and Jake share their reflections and offer suggestions about how we can react maturely in ways that draw us back to reality and our sonship in the Father.
Guiding Quote:
There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. - 1 John 4:18
Key Points
Brett’s low leads into a discussion about the diminisher voice How self-awareness helps us identify the diminisher voice Unhelpful behaviors that we might have in reaction to the voice of the diminisher Brett’s shares about fog in Saskatchewan and why this is a great analogy for the inner critic Jake and Brett share their definitions of the inner critic or diminisher The diminisher viciously attacks our sonship and identity in Father The diminisher voice feels so real in the moment, how can we tell what’s from God and what’s not? Helpful practices for working against the diminisher in the moment How vulnerability with trusted brothers can help you through the fogDiscussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? What’s an experience you can recall when you felt the impact of the diminisher voice? What allowed you to recognize it for what it was, either in the moment or later? How long does it take for the effects of the fog to pass? The next time you feel yourself in ‘the fog,’ what’s a method you can use to prevent you from spiraling? Ideas from the episode are: talk to a trusted brother or friend, affirm someone else, journal the feelings and bring it to the Lord.
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Mon, 24 Jan 2022 - 36min - 91 - The Masculine Healing Journey with Dr. Bob Schuchts
As men, we often find it difficult to look at our woundedness and need for healing. Why is that, and what can we do to engage the process better in this important area? In this episode, renowned Catholic psychologist Dr. Bob Schuchts joins Jake and Brett to discuss healing in a deeply personal way. The three men share examples of healing in their own lives, and Dr. Bob helps Jake work through a childhood memory live on the episode. You can hear more from Dr. Bob and Jake on their podcast, Restore the Glory. Don’t forget to check the show notes for many helpful resources!
Guiding Quote:
“Healing is an essential dimension of the apostolic mission and of Christianity. When understood at a sufficiently deep level, this expresses the entire content of redemption.” - Pope Benedict XVI (Jesus of Nazareth)
Key Points
How men’s ministry led to Dr. Bob’s healing work Off script discussion of the phenomenon of Jordan Peterson Dr. Bob shares what comes to mind when he thinks of healing in men Understanding why men resist healing The struggle against powerlessness as men The Seven Deadly Wounds that occurred in the Garden of Eden Description of the anatomy of a wound: wound, beliefs, vows How we can get a hold of what’s happening within our hearts Dr. Bob helps Jake break down the anatomy of a wound from his own life Hope and the Seven Signs of HealingDiscussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Do you fear the feeling of powerlessness? What are some everyday moments that have happened in the past week that can point you to what’s going on in your heart right now?
References
Restore the Glory (podcast) with Jake Khym and Dr. Bob Schuchts Be Healed (book), Dr. Bob Schuchts Be Devoted (book), Dr. Bob Schuchts Restore the Glory Episodes 12-16: Anatomy of a Wound series Anatomy of a Wound (image) Seven Deadly Wounds JPII Healing Center The work of Jordan Peterson Wild at Heart (book), John Eldredge Jesus of Nazareth (book), Pope Benedict XVIConnect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 10 Jan 2022 - 1h 01min - 90 - Navigating Life In the Trenches With Brothers
Loneliness is epidemic among men today. The thing is, we’re not meant to live without deep friendship. Join Jake and Brett as they get real about the strength they’ve found in their own friendship and how they have intentionally invested in it over time. They share why every man needs true brothers who will walk with them through the trenches of life, and how to go about building friendships like that.
Key Quote:
Be a son. Love the process. Close the gap.
Key Points
Jake asks Brett a vulnerable question about their friendship The importance of ‘checking in’ with our brothers The power of consistency and presence (companionship) in brotherhood Some simple things you can do to walk with someone through a hard time Learning long-suffering and being okay with it The difference between deep ‘3 am’ friendships and acquaintances Why men need friends Seasons of life that can be difficult that call for the support of good brothers: marriage challenges, parenting, work, health, mental health The intentional process of building a deep friendship It’s okay to be on your own but not all the time - we all need brotherhoodDiscussion Questions
- What stood out to you in this episode? Do I worry that walking with a brother who is going through a difficult time will be draining? How can I show up for them in a way that simply offers my presence? Have I ever experienced what Jake calls ‘long suffering’? Do I trust that it can make me a better man if I engage with it well? Who are my ‘3 am friendships’? If I can’t think of anyone, who in my life would I like to intentionally go deeper with to get there?
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Mon, 27 Dec 2021 - 58min - 89 - The Downward Trend in Religious Affiliation
In today’s episode, Brett and Jake engage with deep questions of the heart as they discuss the shrinking church. While they begin by citing Canadian stats, this trend is evident in other Western countries. Brett and Jake address why it is that culturally speaking, Jesus isn’t seen as relevant anymore. They also share some thoughts on why it’s crucial that the Church as a whole accepts a share in the responsibility of this downward trend. The following episode does not seek to provide all the answers to these difficult topics, but rather to engage in a meaningful conversation about them. We hope you find this conversation enlightening as we journey together in the way of the heart.
Key Quote:
The Catholic Church almost doesn’t even need a defense. It’s more like a lion; just let it out of its cage and it takes care of itself. - Dr. Scott Hahn
Key Points
Religious affiliation has dropped significantly in the past 40 years, with Covid adding an extra blow The importance of relevance and leadership on the practice of faith The cultural shift from believing that what oppresses man is sin, to the belief that oppression comes from human ignorance, which removes our need for a Saviour Why Jesus must be central, and things which distract our gaze from him Some basic psychology and why our lack of fulfillment leads us either to numb or to embrace faith The importance of accepting responsibility as leaders and as the Church as a whole The challenge faced by leaders of Christian institutions to stay true to Christ as we move away from Christendom Why our podcast is not about answers, but rather engaging the questions of the heartDiscussion Questions
What stood out to you in this episode? Examine your own life. Do you live as if Jesus is relevant to your everyday life? If not, why? Are you numbing or avoiding in any areas of your life? Where are the places that you appear to be Christian but you're not truly walking the walk?References
CTV News Article: Number of Canadians reporting religious affiliations at all-time low: StatCan From Christendom to Apostolic Mission (book) Live Not By Lies, Rod Dreher (book)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 13 Dec 2021 - 1h 05min - 88 - Where Do You Go For Life?
How often do we pause to think about how we’re spending our time? Are the things that are taking up our attention truly making us feel alive? In this episode, Jake and Brett explore a list of the things they turn to for life. Naturally, prayer, close relationships and sports make the list, but there are also a few surprises!
Key Quote:
“I am the way, and the truth, and the life.” - John 14:6
Key Points
What we mean when we say, “What gives you life?” The misunderstanding of happiness and the tendency to go for an ‘all or nothing’ approach Aristotle’s Four Levels of Happiness Things that bring Jake and Brett life The importance of relationships for our happiness Learning to trust in God’s abundance Helping in small ways can have a huge impact on the life of someone elseDiscussion Questions
What stood out to you in this episode? What brings you life and makes you feel alive? Are you doing those things? What might you have to dial back in order to make space for more of what brings you life?References
Aristotle’s Four Levels of Happiness, Spitzer Center Suddenly Les Miserables (2012), song Patrick Roy, NHL Hall of FameConnect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 29 Nov 2021 - 47min - 87 - The Shift From Christendom to Apostolic Mission
Now is not a very popular time to be a Catholic. The culture which was once steeped in Christian ideals is now hostile to those same ideals and beliefs. In this episode, Jake and Brett discuss a book that’s currently taking the Catholic world by storm which can help us understand this shift. “From Christendom to Apostolic Mission” is a short and pithy book that’s easy to read and extremely relevant, giving us a lens through which to understand how the Church fits into the current culture. The return to an Apostolic age presents it’s own opportunities and hope for a more authentic Church.
Key Quote:
“We are at the end of Christendom. Not Christianity, not the Church. Christendom is the economic, political, and social life as inspired by Christian principles. That is ending. We live in it from day to day, and we do not see the decline.” - Bishop Fulton Sheen
Key Points
Christendom refers to the society in which the Church is planted, a society that is animated by Christian principles Christendom spanned from the reign of the Emperor Constantine to the 1960s The ‘Apostolic mode’ is not a new mode of church - it goes back to the early church Apostolic Christianity leaves no room for duplicity, hypocrisy. It is the narrow way. The importance of being grounded in eternal truths Looking at the culture, not in an alarmist way but taking stock of the facts, it’s not a popular time to be a Catholic Apostolic Mission calls us to live authentic, Christian livesDiscussion Questions
- Do you find it difficult to live out Christian values in our current culture? How does the shift to Apostolic Mission intimidate and/or inspire you as a Christian man? What’s one area of your life that you feel called to greater authenticity and integrity in living your faith?
References
From Christendom to Apostolic Mission: Pastoral Strategies for an Apostolic Age (book)Connect with Way of the Heart:
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Mon, 15 Nov 2021 - 52min - 86 - How Benevolent Detachment Can Help You Get Your Life Back
Our lives are increasingly distracted, and our constantly connected state can threaten to overwhelm us. Jake and Brett discuss how the art of benevolent detachment can help you ‘get your life back’ and stay focused on what’s most important. Benevolent detachment allows us to re-prioritize our time to be more loving and frees us from self-reliance. It can help us to live happier and holier lives.
Guiding Scripture:
"Cast all your cares on Him for He cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7
Key Points
The downsides of relentless connection through technology and our increasingly distracted state The importance of developing healthy habits How detachment can help you to be more loving An explanation of how self-reliance indicates a lack of trust in the Father’s love Benevolent detachment means we are not ruled by needs or opportunitiesDiscussion Questions
What things could you use some detachment from? What “rules” do you have in place to be able to separate yourself from work while off the clock? In what ways do you view yourself as an orphan or a son in your relationship with God?References
Get Your Life Back by John Eldredge (book) Pause App by John Eldredge News of the World with Tom Hanks (movie) The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k by Mark Manson (book) Surrender Novena by Fr. DolindoConnect with Way of the Heart:
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Tue, 02 Nov 2021 - 42min - 85 - Domination or Dominion and the Tendency to Control
We all have times in our life where the stress piles up and the tasklist seems endless. This week, Jake and Brett go down an unscripted route as they dive a little deeper into the reasons behind our desire to control as men. They talk about how to handle busy seasons as a man of God, how to find some sanity and learn the important difference between domination and dominion.
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Key Points
- Overcoming an endless list of tasks
- What in our life do we try to control?
- Looking below the surface of control to our interior state: are we seeking domination or dominion
- The difference between domination and dominion
- In times of chaos, find simple tasks that you can complete
- The difference between mistakes and sins
Discussion Questions
- What struck you about this episode?
- How do you typically deal with stressful, task-heavy seasons of life?
- What things in your life are you seeking to control in order to satisfy your own needs (domination)?
- What are some things in your life that you are able to approach with a spirit of dominion? How do you see fruitfulness in that dominion?
- What tasks that help you emotionally regulate?
- What have you learned from your mistakes?
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Mon, 18 Oct 2021 - 23min - 84 - Relics, Motorcycles and Covid
This week, Jake and Brett take a special, extended look at their highs and lows. They both share great stories of what God is doing for them in their families and what new adventures they’re tackling at the moment. They also share about challenges due to Covid, election season and returning to school. We are all still dealing with the difficulties of a stressful and disunified time in our world and we hope this conversation reminds you that you're not alone.
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Key Points- There is blessing in experiencing the wider Church, not just how it is experienced from our perspective. - Story about obtaining relics- Jake trying a new adventure- Signs of a healthy discernment - Disunity in the world weighing on our hearts - Not feeling restored after Summer like usual - Dealing with stressful topics internally like Covid and elections
Discussion Questions - What struck you about this episode?- What are your highs and lows this week? Share them with friends or loved one.- What are the signs in any current areas of discernment that you are making healthy decisions? What might be the red flags that you are not discerning well?- What is the last adventure you went on? - How can you find rest in this season?
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Mon, 04 Oct 2021 - 59min - 83 - The Battle of the Mind with Fr. Richard Conlin (Part 2)
In this second part of a conversation with Fr. Richard Conlin about winning the battle of the mind, Jake and Brett discuss how to prepare for the battle of the mind before it even begins. Preparations include spending time in prayer, immersing yourself in scripture and surrounding yourself with allies. The three men share common scenarios that men find themselves in and how to change thought patterns during these crucial moments.
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Key Scripture
Romans 12:1 “Be transformed by the renewal of your mind”
Key Points
Attack before the enemy begins. Wake up and pray/read Scripture. Have allies in the battle Remember that inner thoughts and reality can be very different Interpret things through a lens in relationships. Frustration can be compounded when we react to others as if they intended to wrong us when they may not have. Invite Jesus into the situation. Ask for clarity and how best to move forward The men provide strategies to engage in the battlefield of the mind when it comes to temptation toward impurityDiscussion Questions
How can you prepare for the battle of the mind before it even begins? Who can be an ally in the battle of the mind? How can they help? What situations do you need to invite Jesus into?References
Fr. Conlin’s Website: The Prodigal Catholic Blog Fr. Conlin’s 33 Biblical “I Am” Statements for CatholicsEditing by ForteCatholic.com
Mon, 20 Sep 2021 - 36min - 82 - The Battle of the Mind with Fr. Richard Conlin (Part 1)
This is the first of a two-part conversation with Fr. Richard Conlin about winning the battle of the mind. Fr. Richard, Jake & Brett discuss how managing our thoughts is critical to opening ourselves to grace, and why it’s impossible to stay neutral in this battle. They share how turning to Scripture in times of struggle is modelled by Jesus, and can seal us in truth to combat the lies of the enemy.
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Mon, 06 Sep 2021 - 31min - 81 - Wild at Heart (Part 3) - A Beauty to Rescue
This week is the final episode in our series breaking open the three core desires of the masculine heart from John Eldredge’s book, “Wild at Heart.” The last core desire is a “beauty to rescue,” focussing on a man’s relationship with the women in his life.
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Mon, 23 Aug 2021 - 52min - 80 - Wild at Heart (Part 2) - An Adventure to Live
This week, Jake and Brett break open the second of three core desires of the masculine heart, based on John Eldredge’s book, “Wild at Heart”: an adventure to live. In order to embrace adventure and live as we were created to, we have to have a certain amount of risk in our lives.
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Mon, 09 Aug 2021 - 47min - 79 - Wild at Heart (Part 1) - A Battle to Fight
This week kicks off Jake & Brett’s new three part series based on John Eldridge’s "Wild At Heart". They explore the three key desires of every man’s heart: A Battle To Fight, An Adventure to Live & a Beauty to Rescue. This week is all about the most important battles we face and how to fight them. Enjoy!
Mon, 26 Jul 2021 - 52min - 78 - The Compass vs. the Clock
On the anniversary of Stephen Covey’s death, Jake & Brett discuss the immense impact he’s had on their lives. They focus on one of his key quotes, “Live your life by the compass, not the clock." They discuss how hard it can be to truly live by our values and compass, and why it’s important to regularly stay connected to what matters most.
Mon, 12 Jul 2021 - 48min - 77 - Man Fully Alive
In celebration of St. Irenaeus’s feast day, Brett & Jake break down his famous quote: “The glory of God is man fully alive.” Taking inspiration from the life of St. Irenaeus and his fight against heresy in the early Church, they dive into what it means for us to live an abundant life and how we should use our freedom.
Mon, 28 Jun 2021 - 36min - 76 - Fatherhood
With Father’s Day right around the corner, Brett & Jake spend an episode discussing fatherhood and the call to sacrificial love shown to us by Christ on the cross. A major theme in fatherhood is making the right choices for our family even if this means sacrificing our own desires. Growing in spiritual maturity allows us to become the fathers that God intended as we learn more and more to love without counting the cost.
Mon, 14 Jun 2021 - 45min - 75 - St. Joseph (Part 3) - Creative Courage
Jake & Brett take a deep dive into their highs and lows before continuing the conversation about how we, as men, can learn from the example of St. Joseph. This week, they focus on the “creative courage” that St. Joseph exemplified as he led the Holy Family through difficulties. They address the redemption that God can bring from difficult circumstances in our histories, and how the sacrifices we make can bring about new and greater possibilities for us and those we love.
Mon, 31 May 2021 - 40min - 74 - St. Joseph (Part 2)
This week, Jake and Brett explore the topic of work and responsibility through the lens of St. Joseph the Worker. How does his example help us to grow as men in our work? How we handle our work reveals our character and our hearts. We can find profound meaning in responsibility. How does responsibility help us to mature, and how can St. Joseph help show us the way? The hosts provide insight into these essential questions, helping us identify how we can mature from boys into men.
Mon, 17 May 2021 - 36min - 73 - St. Joseph (Part 1)
This week kicks off a series on St. Joseph. Brett shares his experience of doing the consecration to St. Joseph and Jake shares how St. Joseph was probably not an old man like we’ve often been told. They have a discussion on the implications of St. Joseph being a young man and also take lessons from him being the patron saint of workers. How does our work help to orient us towards the Lord? Tune in to learn about masculinity by focusing on one of the greatest men of all time: St. Joseph.
Mon, 03 May 2021 - 31min - 72 - Pastoral Leadership
Brett & Jake are rejoined by Fr. BJ Hamilton to continue their conversation from the last episode. This week, the focus is on two of Father BJ’s primary passions: basketball & pastoral leadership. So many in Church leadership, whether lay or priests, haven’t had adequate training in how to be a leader. This has led to some very difficult situations in parishes/ministries. Fr. BJ shares how he has sought out growth as a leader and pleads for others to do the same.
Mon, 19 Apr 2021 - 36min - 71 - A Father's Love
Brett & Jake are joined by Fr. BJ Hamilton for a conversation on the importance of sharing and showing love as a father. They discuss the similarities between the heart of a dad and that of a priest. They share hardships and triumphs and what they have learned about how to love better as a man.
Mon, 05 Apr 2021 - 49min - 70 - Marriage: Part 2 (with Heather Khym and Andrea Powell)
The wives are back for part 2 of their discussion continued from last episode. This week, Jake & Brett invite their wives to share the feminine perspective on masculine heart. Andrea & Heather share how their husbands have led them well and also how they have challenged and encouraged them to grow when they weren’t at their best. This conversation is helpful not only for married couples but also any man who one day wants to be married and any man who wants to heal broken parts of his heart. Connect with Way of the Heart: Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/wayoftheheartpodcast/) Instagram: @wayoftheheartpodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wayoftheheartpodcast/?hl=en) Website: https://www.wayoftheheartpodcast.com Subscribe/Rate Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow as holy men by sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!
Mon, 22 Mar 2021 - 1h 03min - 69 - Marriage: Part 1 (with Heather Khym and Andrea Powell)
This week, Jake and Brett have on the most special guests in the history of the show: their wives! They have a lovely conversation about how they met, how they’ve grown as a couple in their years of marriage and how they’ve handled and learned from their wounds and hardships of marriage. Both couples have a depth of knowledge and experience with the heights and depths of marriage and the conversation is rich with laughter, insight and love.
Mon, 08 Mar 2021 - 37min - 68 - Spiritual Growth (with Bishop Scott McCaig)
Jake and Brett are joined by Bishop McCaig: the Bishop of the Canadian Military and member of the Companions of the Cross. They discuss the five areas of self-knowledge that are key to spiritual growth and the four primary ways that God speaks to us. There is a treasure trove of insight to the spiritual life from the good Bishop that led to a lot of “ah-ha” moments for our hosts. This episode can help you prepare for Lent in some real and tangible ways.
Mon, 22 Feb 2021 - 58min - 67 - Be Yourself
This week, Jake and Brett discuss the true meaning of being yourself. God created us in a particular way and we need to live in that truth. There’s a balance to be had between thinking too little or too highly of ourselves. Men are often afraid to show how strong they really are because they’re afraid they will hurt someone, but we were sent to be representatives of a powerful God and so we need to carry ourselves accordingly. Holding all these things in balance can be difficult, but this conversation will help in achieving that goal.
Mon, 08 Feb 2021 - 41min - 66 - Word of the Year
Jake and Brett kick off the show with their highs and lows involving conversations about being a Grandparent, empathy, presence over productivity and big news for Life Restoration Ministries. The topic this week is the Word of the Year. This is a practice that has become popular in recent years. Many use a Word of the Year generator to find their word but Jake and Brett share how they prayerfully discern their word and invite you to use the same process.
Mon, 25 Jan 2021 - 33min - 65 - Man Husband Father (with Patrick Sullivan)
Lay evangelist and author Patrick Sullivan joins the show to share a key things that have been on his heart recently. The founder of Evango and father of nine talks with Jake and Brett about dealing with the stress of the pandemic, personal prayer and fatherhood from a breadth of experience. Each of the guys open up about a way they have been struggling as a man, husband or father. They share how they have tackled these issues while encouraging and challenging one another. If you’ve had a tough time over the last ten months and want to take the next step in being the man, husband or father you want to be, take a listen. Connect with Patrick Facebook: @evango(https://www.facebook.com/evango.net) Instagram: @Patrick_Evango(https://www.instagram.com/patrick_evango/) Twitter: @Patrick_Evango(https://twitter.com/Patrick_Evango) Evango Website:https://www.evango.net Connect with Way of the Heart: Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/wayoftheheartpodcast/) Instagram: @wayoftheheartpodcast(https://www.instagram.com/wayoftheheartpodcast/?hl=en) Website: https://www.wayoftheheartpodcast.com Subscribe/Rate Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow as holy men by sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!
Mon, 11 Jan 2021 - 1h 01min - 64 - Rest (with Fr. Simon Lobo, CC)
Fr. Simon Lobo, CC returns to share about his water polo achievements, but more importantly, joins the guys for a deep and thought-provoking conversation on rest. Many men struggle to rest because of stress, our many responsibilities & consistent desire to achieve our goals. This episode will help you enter into rest in a way that leaves you feeling restored physically, mentally and spiritually. We hope this conversation equips and challenges you to adapt how you are able to rest and be restored by the Lord.
Mon, 28 Dec 2020 - 1h 00min - 63 - Advent (Part 2)Mon, 14 Dec 2020 - 27min
- 62 - Advent (Part 1)Mon, 30 Nov 2020 - 27min
- 61 - Relearning Masculinity with Morgan SnyderMon, 16 Nov 2020 - 1h 01min
- 60 - Importance of CharacterMon, 02 Nov 2020 - 28min
- 59 - Men Who Shaped UsMon, 19 Oct 2020 - 37min
- 58 - Eulogy VirtuesMon, 05 Oct 2020 - 34min
- 57 - Masculinity (with Corey Robinson)
Jake and Brett are joined by Corey Robinson, a former Canadian Olympic wrestler, who speaks to young people about how to overcome adversity. After discussing Corey’s start in elite athletics, the three discuss numerous topics including masculinity, strength, addiction, mediocrity, marriage, and friendship.
Mon, 21 Sep 2020 - 1h 20min - 56 - Crucial Conversations (with Fr. Simon Lobo)
Jake and Brett are joined once again by their friend Fr. Simon Lobo, pastor at St. Benedict’s Parish in Halifax. They discuss the concept of crucial conversations. Our relationships develop one conversation at a time and growing in the ability to have crucial conversations is an important part of the masculine journey.
Mon, 07 Sep 2020 - 1h 00min - 55 - Leadership (with Fr. Simon Lobo)Mon, 24 Aug 2020 - 35min
- 54 - Digital Distraction
Jake and Brett are joined by their friend Jeff Graham, a businessman for over twenty years who has a passion for raising awareness about the impact of digital media and its capacity to distract us from what really matters. We discuss the alarming frequency of digital use as well as practical ways to return to what really matters both individually and as families.
Mon, 10 Aug 2020 - 47min - 53 - High Low: A Deeper CutMon, 27 Jul 2020 - 28min
- 52 - Fathered By God | Book Study Part 6: SageMon, 13 Jul 2020 - 24min
- 51 - Fathered By God | Book Study Part 5: KingMon, 29 Jun 2020 - 30min
- 50 - Fathered By God | Book Study Part 4: Warrior & LoverMon, 15 Jun 2020 - 36min
- 49 - Fathered By God | Book Study Part 3: Boyhood & CowboyMon, 01 Jun 2020 - 30min
- 48 - Fathered By God | Book Study Part 2: Father & SonMon, 18 May 2020 - 32min
- 47 - Fathered By God | Book Study Part 1: IntroductionMon, 04 May 2020 - 29min
- 46 - Living EasterMon, 20 Apr 2020 - 33min
- 45 - St. John Paul the Great (with special guest Archbishop J. Michael Miller, CSB)Mon, 06 Apr 2020 - 1h 04min
- 44 - Navigating COVID-19Wed, 25 Mar 2020 - 37min
- 43 - An Imperfect LentMon, 23 Mar 2020 - 21min
- 42 - How to do LentMon, 09 Mar 2020 - 32min
- 41 - Why Lent?Mon, 24 Feb 2020 - 27min
- 40 - Movies We LoveMon, 10 Feb 2020 - 31min
- 39 - ConversionMon, 27 Jan 2020 - 34min
- 38 - Resolutions that Stick
Summary Jake and Brett discuss how setting New Years resolutions is actually about growth in virtue. They share from their professional experience about how to make your resolutions become reality.
Guiding Scripture “When the days drew near for him to be received up, he set his face to go to Jerusalem.” (Luke 9:51)
Key points
Live as though when you wake up the enemy says, “Oh crap, she’s (he’s) awake.” Growing in benevolent detachment Is great for the way of the heart Discipline leads to freedom If you are working for and in the kingdom of God, you are under spiritual attack all the time “I was afraid, because I was naked, so I hid” (Gen 3:10) Resolve is seeing something through to the end Roughly 8% of people actually carry out their resolutions Good resolutions are where our intention actually becomes reality Resolutions are good if they keep us focused on what really matters Resolutions will be require steadfastness and the journey is often better than the end - the journey offers immense value “Many people want the results of commitment but few are willing to pay the price” Resolutions cannot be rooted in comparison Resolutions are more successful when done with others Bring our possible resolutions to the Father in prayer Tim Ferris says to forget New Years resolutions and evaluate the last year Four areas of reflection (formation): human, spiritual, intellectual, pastoral Trying to accomplish something over 365 days is very hard A what without a when is a never Usually resolutions are vague and that’s not good to accomplish a goal Create SMART goals (Specific/Simple, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Time sensitive) Resolutions require and develop virtue We need to stretch a bit when we have a resolution or goal Maturity isn’t indolence but interdependence Writing goals down is valuable Setting quarterly goals might help because annual goals can be easier to avoid or forget “Grace is not opposed to effort. Grace is opposed to earning.” Earning is an attitude in relationship. (Dallas Willard) Grace builds on natureDiscussion Questions
What struck you from this episode? When do you find your resolutions are most successful? In the past year, how was life humanly, spiritually, intellectually, and pastorally? What is a SMART resolution you might consider this year? Who can you share it with?Resources
Pause App Tim FerrisMon, 13 Jan 2020 - 33min - 37 - Word for the Year
Episode 37 - Word of the Year Summary: Jake and Brett discuss the practice of praying about a word for the year and how this practice is about having a prophetic vision from God for your year. Guiding Scripture: “Without prophetic vision, people abandon restraint, but those who obey the Law are happy.” (Proverbs 29:18) Key points: - Jake first heard about praying for a word for the year from his wife Heather and the Abiding Together Podcast - The word of the year is about hearing about a personal and specific focus God has for our lives during the year - it’s a thematic vision from God - The vision is given by God - Prophetic is often misunderstood to be predicting the future but it’s actually about listening to God and responding to Him - The word of the year is a theme that we hear from God that gives us focus for the year and it helps us navigate life - Using a word of the year generator defeats the main purpose of the word of the year - The purpose is to have relationship and listen to God to his word for us - We all ache to hear God’s voice - “Surely the Lord does nothing unless he reveals his hidden counsel to his servants” (Amos 3:7) - Brett’s word is hidden - “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter. The glory of kings is to search them out.” (Proverbs 25:2) - Jesus said in John 10:10, “My sheep will hear my voice.” - Once we have received a word of the year it can be good to then search the the Scriptures fo that word or look through our journal for that word Discussion Questions: - What struck you from this episode? - What is your experience with hearing God’s voice? - Will you pray about a word for the year? Why/Why not? - Consider sharing your word of the year with a friend. Resources: - The Giving Tree Book - Abiding Together Podcast - "If you knew the gift of God!" The wonder of prayer is revealed beside the well where we come seeking water: there, Christ comes to meet every human being. It is he who first seeks us and asks for a drink. Jesus thirsts; his asking arises from the depths of God's desire for us. Whether we realize it or not, prayer is the encounter of God's thirst with ours. God thirsts that we may thirst for him.” (CCC 2560)
Mon, 30 Dec 2019 - 31min - 36 - HolidaysMon, 16 Dec 2019 - 28min
- 35 - Men are Called (Part 3) - Burning BuildingsMon, 02 Dec 2019 - 34min
- 34 - Men are Called (Part 2) - Becoming the FatherMon, 18 Nov 2019 - 34min
- 33 - Men are Called (Part 1)Mon, 04 Nov 2019 - 45min
- 32 - Privilege or SacrificeMon, 21 Oct 2019 - 28min
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