Let’s Talk Hypergamy with Mina Jaja Podcast

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A walking red flag is a man who is upset that you want a generous man as a companion in a relationship. You must have the ability to decenter men in order to make the decisions that are best for you. Life is too beautiful to waste your years in fear and not living to see how beautiful it gets for you.

Nothing kills potential faster than doing drugs! It’s a false euphoric feeling and you deserve better than falsifying your life.

Let’s talk ways to improve your feminine like managing your emotions with self awareness and other interesting areas of our lives as women.

Refrain from the idea that you would quit your job after finding a wealthy and successful provider who supports you financially. It’ll be a decision filled with regret. Except he gives you a reason to quit like pays all your bills, and gives you a lump sum of money in addition to a monthly allowance, DO NOT QUIT YOUR JOB. Even if he does the things mentioned above, still keep your job or find another way to make or earn more money like start a business or invest in something. Human beings will change their minds about you whether or not you treat them well but you see money? Money loves whoever love it and treats well whoever treats it well. That’s why you should always make sure you ask him for money when you want and need it. You’re welcome.

Your self worth is not dependent on a man. Decenter men by prioritizing yourself. This heavily includes loving your body. You can change anything about yourself as it pleases you, if you can afford it. Your body is a sacred place, treat it as such by loving it first because this teaches others how to treat it. Remember, a generous man who willingly shares his resources with you is who you want.

Taking precautions in our lives is so important and cannot be ignored nor talked about enough. Anyone who says they want to be with you but cannot provide and protect you isn’t someone you should be with. So, have standards and stop putting yourself in harm’s way.

Decentralize that man today.

We’re here for good vibes only.

If he isn’t generous and overjoyed to share his resources with you, walk away.

Get busy. Learn a skill, handwork, hobby or something. Do something asides being at his every beck and call. Okay dress up if you must!

Vibe high

Do not allow people who probably have severe problems stop you from living your best life.

Don’t be too shy or ashamed to ask for what you want. If he doesn’t give it to you, someone else will. Don’t ask him for the things you know he doesn’t have to give.

I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed recording.

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