The Self Love Fix

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It's... been a while hasn't it bestie?!

Well I have an AMAZING episode for you ALL about why it's been so hard for you to "know your worth" and why you should focus on knowing your VALUE instead.

Your VALUE in general AND your VALUE in dating, relationships, marriage, work, your business etc,

Tell a friend to tell a friend that i'm back!!

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There's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating.

Listen in to this week's episode to find out more!

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If you've found yourself landing in situationship after situationship...

 Or if you've felt the need to SPEED the dating process up or have felt anxious about "where things are going" this episode is FOR YOU!

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Dating is NOT supposed to be hard.

It gets to be EASY.

Tune in to find out what 5 things I would be doing if I were single in 2024 and looking for a SERIOUS, committed relationship.

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What if feelings of unworthiness aren't really your problem when it comes to actually experiencing the kind of relationship you desire?

What if there's something TOTALLY different to consider instead?

Tune into this week's episode to find out what exactly that is...

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Yup, you read correctly! My boyfriend and I decided to be celibate until marriage 2 years into our relationship. Why you may ask? Tune into the episode to find out!

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If you've ever felt like something is wrong with YOU because you keep attracting the SAME types of men over and over again...

Men who are emotionally unavailable...

Men who are not interested in commitment...

Men who are unfaithful...

etc.

There's actually something DEEPER to the story. It's not that you're doomed. Or that something is wrong with you. It's that you may have an UNCONSCIOUS dating pattern running the show and you don't even know it. Tune into this episode to learn more.

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There is... a lot of immaturity in dating that shows up in the form of thinking EVERYTHING is a red flag.

Not everything is a red flag.

MATURITY in dating is understanding 1. That not everything is a red flag and 2. HOW to discern what IS from what ISN'T a red flag. 3. You'll have to listen to the rest of the episode to find out! ;)

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If you’re hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you’re “talking to” wants to be in a relationship with you…

He doesn’t.

I say this with so much love: if you have to do this, you aren’t actually confused at all about how he feels. You know he isn’t interested in having a relationship…you just don’t like that answer.

Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is CLEAR. Desire is BOLD. Desire doesn’t dither in the background waiting its turn.

When a man desires you, you’ll know. So let’s talk about what it actually means when you’re “confused” about what “he wants.”

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If you’ve given up on dating…this episode is for you.

I’m not talking about the people who truly do not desire a relationship. I’m talking to the people who have a soul-deep desire for a relationship, but have gotten so discouraged that they’re ready to throw in the towel entirely.

Listen to me–I don’t care what your situation is.

I don’t care if you’re in your late 20s, 30s, 40s, etc.

I don’t care if you’ve been divorced four times and can’t imagine a relationship ever working out.

I don’t care if you’ve never been in a healthy relationship and are struggling to believe they even exist.

A relationship IS possible for you–yes, YOU. And if you’re walking around with your head down, living in defeat, certain it’s never going to happen for you…let me give you some hope today.

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Ooooh, do I have a TREAT for you all today. I am absolutely giddy to welcome my boyfriend of two years, Osa, onto the podcast!

Osa’s more of a behind-the-scenes type of guy. But today, we’re sitting down for a conversation about how we met, our first impressions of each other, what we think about online dating, how we transitioned from dating to a long-term relationship, and so much more!

Not only that, but we’ve also slipped in a little teaser for something that we’re VERY excited about…something the two of us will be doing together!

Ready for a behind-the-scenes tour of how we started out? Grab your favorite tea, settle in, and enjoy the ride!

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If you believe it’s IMPOSSIBLE to attract the type of man that has ambition, makes plans, and takes charge in your relationship…I may have an idea why that is.

And you’re probably not going to like hearing it.

Once upon a time, I was in the same shoes as you: fed up with attracting men who wouldn’t so much as initiate a phone call, sick of having to do ALL the work in every relationship, and wondering where all the ambitious men were.

But you know what else I believed?

That men were dumb as rocks.

No, really. I genuinely, wholeheartedly believed that men were inferior to me, that they couldn’t do anything right, and they needed my guidance in everything…

But if that was true, well…why on earth would I want to have one of them leading me?

It doesn’t matter what you consciously say you want. If your unconscious mind believes men are inferior, the unconscious will win over the conscious every time. Let’s talk about why this superiority is actually sabotaging our dating lives.

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There’s one stage of new relationships that no one talks about.

We try to pretend it doesn’t happen. In fact, we do one better (or worse): we usually dip out of the relationship the second we enter this phase.

The first phase of any new relationship is the honeymoon phase…and it is POWERFUL.

That cocktail of hormones hits HARD. We’re floating on cloud nine. All we see in front of us is our perfect, amazing partner. Everything they do is so cute and sweet and amazing…

Until it isn’t.

Until one day, we wake up and notice every little thing about them that actually annoys us.

Welcome to the DOUBTING PHASE: the phase of relationships where we suddenly see the reality of our partner, not our hormone hopped-up perception of them. 

The comedown hits even harder than the high. And unfortunately, this is where most people decide it’s time to end the relationship, because “the magic” is gone. 

This phase is normal. Everyone has it. But we need to change the way we approach the doubting phase…because if we bide our time and make it to the other side, what’s waiting for us is a phase of love unlike any other.

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If you’re walking around telling yourself “I DESERVE a relationship…”

Sit down for a second. Let’s talk.

I say this because I love you: you do not “deserve” a relationship. 

You don’t deserve anything from another individual just because you want it. 

Imagine if you walked into a job interview. You did no prep. You did no research. You wore your sweats. And when they start asking you questions, you just go, “What do you mean? Why are you asking me this? I deserve this job. Just give it to me.”

They would look at you like you were FUCKING DELUSIONAL…because you’d have to be in order to act that way.

We all know we can’t act like that in most areas of our lives. But when it comes to dating…all that goes flying out the window, and suddenly we’re deep in our entitled princess energy, believing we deserve something we didn’t put in the work for.

If dating feels like it’s too hard, it’s probably because you’re approaching it with a heavy vibe of entitlement and need. But I promise you this: if you just shift this perspective, your dating life will be completely transformed.

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“God must be out to get me.”

“This must be some kind of cosmic joke.”

“You know what? Fine. I don’t want a relationship anyway.”

“I’m focusing on my career. I don’t need a man.”

If any of these sound familiar, then this episode is for you.

If you’re the kind of person who truly enjoys being single…good for you! But if you’re saying you’re fine with being single, then absolutely SEETHING with anger and bitterness every time you see a happy couple…

I don’t think you’re being honest with yourself.

If you say you don’t want a relationship when you actually do, you become the thing that’s sabotaging you. Because when you decide you don’t want something…God’s going to listen. And pretending you don’t care isn’t going to trick him into giving you what you want.

This might be a confronting episode for you, but as someone who’s been where you are…trust me. Once you come face to face with the truth of your desires, your dating life will NEVER be the same.

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I love delving into the shadowy parts of ourselves that no one likes to talk about…comparison being one of them.

We all compare ourselves to others. We all feel envious of someone else’s successes, both in business and in relationships…especially when they’re in the same industry as us. And I don’t think these experiences are wrong…but when we lie about it to ourselves and refuse to OWN what we’re thinking and feeling, that’s when it becomes a problem.

When we try to pretend we aren’t playing the comparison game, we actually end up unconsciously letting it steal it the driver’s seat…and before we know it, our businesses are being run by our perceptions of what others have achieved and what we think we’re doing “wrong.”

There are ways to quit the comparison game…and it starts with looking for places where we might be acting a liiittle entitled. Let’s examine this together.

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Let me ask you a question…

What is BRAND?

If you answered, “Colors, fonts, and logos”...no judgment here. There was a hot minute when I believed the very same.

In actuality, these things are brandING, not BRAND. But when so many people start out in entrepreneurship, they come in business-minded, not brand-minded…and when they look for steps to skip, brandING can take the place of actual brand.

If you’re just now learning you were wrong about brand, don’t panic–that’s why I’m having this conversation today. It’s not too late for you to go back to the basics…and once you know what brand really is, trust me, you’ll want to.

If you’re committed to LEGACY VIBES with your business, brand is your new best friend. Allow me to introduce you.

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Please join me in welcoming Tayla Bubeck, an INCREDIBLE business coach + mentor…in fact, she’s so incredible that she’s MY business coach + mentor!

Tayla specializes in the human behind the business, the execution of strategy for a scalable business, and leveraging personal brands to maximize opportunities and evolution. She helps powerful players in the online world unleash their unique gifts and full potential in business and helps them create a business space where money and success aren't their limits; instead, they become the makers of your limitless business legacy.

If you’re struggling to get your VISION straight, build a strong business foundation, and understand what you want your legacy to be…Tayla’s your girl. I can’t wait for you to hear what she has to share today.

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This week's episode we have an amazing guest and Self Trust Alchemy Alum, Taccarra Davenport. In this episode, we chat about how she transcended PERFECTIONISM, fear of using her voice, + imposter syndrome during Self Trust Alchemy and published her new book, A Letter To My Sister.

This is an incredible and INSPIRING episode you DON'T want to miss!

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So many people see themselves repeating a pattern they’ve already observed, and they believe it means that there is something they are doing “wrong.”

I don’t believe that’s true.

I’ve experienced myself repeating patterns after I’ve become aware of them, but I’ve never made myself wrong for it.

Instead, I got CURIOUS. I got EXCITED. Because I believe that awareness means I’m simply seeing myself more clearly, and I believe it for you, too.

If you’re sinking into shame over repeating old patterns, this is the episode for you.

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Today, I have a very special guest joining me on the podcast: Chelsi Reina, a former student in the Self Trust Alchemy program!

Chelsi is a fellow podcaster and self-love coach who is all about helping women stop waiting for the perfect moment to create a life that they actually enjoy living. 

She has come so far since her time in Self Trust Alchemy and I’m so proud of the way she has let go of shame, started protecting her energy by setting boundaries, and shaken off the imposter syndrome keeping her from being her authentic self!

Chelsi has such great wisdom to share, and I can’t wait for you all to hear it. Let’s dive right in, shall we?

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Tell me if this sounds familiar…

You’ve hit a high in your life, whether that’s a business high, a relationship high, a money high, or something else. It feels great…

Except that it doesn’t.

You can’t stop looking over your shoulder, checking both ways before you move, waiting for the other shoe to drop at any moment. Things have been going too good, so something bad has to be coming next, right?

I've heard almost every single student and client experience this in one form or another. They’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop when things start getting good. 

“But Beatrice, it’s true! Every time things get good, something bad comes along.”

Does it? Or do you think you might be playing into a bit of self-fulling prophecy?

Let’s explore where this sense of impending doom comes from…and how we unconsciously do everything we can to prove that sense right.

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Ready to experience growth like you never thought possible? My 1:1 containers are where we go DEEP– where your depth + expansion meet and merge. Where I both meet you in your deepest levels of vulnerability, and hold you to the potential I know you’re capable of. Apply now: https://beatricekamau.com/1-1-coaching 

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I believe that SHORT + SWEET messages still have the ability to be POWERFUL + TRANSFORMATIVE. So today, here’s a bite-sized lesson in setting boundaries:

It’s time to get reconnected to your VOICE.

When you use your voice to set boundaries with confidence, people FEEL that frequency. It inspires a response of respect. It calls people to listen.

But if you’re DISCONNECTED from your voice…if you don’t speak up because you think other people can pick up on your boundaries on their own, or if you feel the need to explain yourself over and over because you don’t believe you’ll be heard…

That’s a different frequency. And it doesn’t inspire others to listen and respect at all. Here’s how to set boundaries CONFIDENTLY.

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Join Self Trust Alchemy, a 16 week group program designed to help you alchemize self-doubt, overwhelm, and overthinking to NEXT-LEVEL self-trust in your ability to set boundaries, achieve your goals, and use your voice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/self-trust-alchemy/ 

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This week, I am thrilled to welcome Brittany Simmons, Self Trust Alchemy alumni and overall incredible woman, onto the podcast to chat about her experience in the program!

Brittany is here to share about the BEFORE and AFTER of Self Trust Alchemy, how different her approach to motherhood has been, all the ways she’s been able to break generational trauma, how she’s begun setting boundaries, and soooo much more.

This work is TRANSFORMATIVE. This work is POWERFUL. Not only can it change everything for you individually…but it can transform the people around you, as well.

Brittany’s an amazing example of the trickle-down effect of self-development work, and her story is wildly inspirational. Get ready to have your minds completely blown.

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Join Self Trust Alchemy, a 16 week group program designed to help you alchemize self-doubt, overwhelm, and overthinking to NEXT-LEVEL self-trust in your ability to set boundaries, achieve your goals, and use your voice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/self-trust-alchemy/ 

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I have waited a long, long time to have this conversation.

Not because it hasn’t been requested—it has. Not because I didn’t know how I felt about it—I do.

I held off for two reasons. One, because I wanted to talk about it when I felt led to do so, and two…

Honestly, I was nervous about how I would be received. But I’m not nervous anymore. So, let’s talk about body positivity.

My relationship with food and my body has been a bit of a rollercoaster—I was lucky enough to be raised in a home where I had a healthy view of food, and I’m also a registered dietician, so I “get” food. But when I was in college, things took a bit of a turn…and since then, I’ve learned a LOT about holding duality when it comes to body image, food restriction, and wanting to look a certain way.

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It's time to let go of the heavy energy surrounding personal development and embrace a new paradigm of growth. Discover how to infuse personal development with a sense of lightness, joy, and expansion. Join me today as we delve into practical strategies and insights that will empower you to shift your perspective and reclaim the true essence of personal development.

If you've been feeling weighed down by the personal development journey, this episode is a must-listen. Together, we will challenge the notion that personal growth must be a struggle, and instead, we will embrace personal development as a powerful catalyst for a more fulfilling and joyful life.

Get ready to embark on a transformative journey as we explore a new, enlightened approach to personal development. It's time to release the misery vibe and step into a realm of empowerment, growth, and limitless possibilities.

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I am so, so thrilled to announce that today, we have a very special guest rejoining us: Cynthia Davidson!

If you aren't already familiar with her, Cynthia is founder of Intuitive Essentials. She is your human design strategist and energy alchemist with a wealth of empowering tools to support you in realigning your life personally and professionally.

I’ve worked with Cynthia myself, and I will continue working with her for the foreseeable future, because her work is without compare. You have no idea of the transformation that’s waiting for you on the other side of doing human design work with Cynthia.

If you aren’t familiar with human design, consider it your Fast Pass to more ease + alignment in every area of your life. I’m so excited for you to hear what Cynthia has to share about it!

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Visit: http://ie-advocate.refr.cc/beatrice  to book an emotion decoding session with Cynthia!

(Disclaimer: Please note, I am an affiliate for Cynthia Davidson's services, meaning I do receive a commission if you book services with her through this link. However, I personally have paid for and continue to pay for Cynthia's services because they have been absolutely transformational for my life, and I would only ever recommend services I have vetted and 100% believe in.)

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Too many people associate MONEY with GREED.

To be wealthy is to be selfish. To want more resources is to be greedy. You can’t desire more than what you already have without it meaning something terrible about yourself…

And I believe that’s absolutely false.

To be wealthy is to have INFLUENCE. To have more resources is to create IMPACT. And whether that’s a positive or negative impact…

That is completely up to you.

If you believe having more money makes you bad or wrong–even if that belief is unconscious–you will never be able to have more than you have right now. Let’s explore the way we tend to project negative qualities and beliefs onto money.

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If manifestation doesn’t seem to be working for you…manifestation isn’t the problem. It’s the frequency behind it.

If you CONSCIOUSLY want to manifest more money, but your UNCONSCIOUS self says it’s not safe to have more…guess which one is going to win?

If your frequency is that of doubt and uneasiness around the idea of having more money, you won’t be able to manifest more. But if your frequency is that of confidence and ease…oh, honey, get ready. You’ll be manifesting money in no time.

There are some twisted views out there around manifestation, but we’re going to untwist them today. 

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When it comes to money, there are three things people normalize that I absolutely REFUSE to accept…

Firstly, that money is a limited resource, and there isn’t enough to go around…

Secondly, feeling shame and regret every time they spend money, even if they have the money to spend—and even if it purchased something that they greatly desired…

And thirdly, that we are limited from experiencing more by our circumstances.

I choose to live differently. I choose to experience a different reality. And today, I want to tell you why YOU should stop normalizing these frequencies around money, too.

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If you wanna tap into the limitless flow of money, you can purchase access to the MONEY BEYOND THE MATRIX masterclass, a matrix-shattering conversation on tapping into the LIMITLESS flow + abundance of money by becoming ONE with the frequency of money: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/money-beyond-the-matrix-masterclass/ 

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Here’s the truth about abundance mindset:

You can say all the right things as much as you want…but it’s the action you take alongside your mindset that proves the truth of how you feel about money and abundance.

Money is an unlimited resource. I deeply believe that. But if you act as though it’s a limited resource…don’t be surprised when it functions as one.

If you’re saying all the right things and committing to an abundance mindset, but you’re still having a panic attack when you spend your money on something other than the cheapest thing available…that tells you everything you need to know. Let’s dig deeper into the truth behind changing your mindset around money.

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If you wanna tap into the limitless flow of money, you can join the BEYOND THE MATRIX masterclass, a matrix-shattering conversation on tapping into the LIMITLESS flow + abundance of money by becoming ONE with the frequency of money: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/money-beyond-the-matrix-masterclass/ 

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I am so, soooo excited to introduce a longtime coaching client of mine to you all…please welcome fashion consultant and avid traveler, Sheena Katz!

Sheena has been in my world for quite a long time–she’s been listening to the podcast since right around when I started, and she’s been in various programs of mine since 2020!

Today, I asked Sheena come on to discuss the impact of group coaching on her life, what she’s been able to accomplish since, and how manifestation has allowed her to realize the dreams and goals that once seemed completely impossible.

Get ready to hear the story of this incredible journey. I can’t wait for you all to meet Sheena!

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

If you know you’ve been thinking, playing, and talking small when it comes to business, career, money and/or dating, and you’re ready to step into BIGGER conversations and a more EXPANSIVE way of living…you need to join EXPANDED group coaching with Beatrice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/expanded-group-coaching-with-beatrice/ 

If you wanna tap into the limitless flow of money, you can join the BEYOND THE MATRIX masterclass, a matrix-shattering conversation on tapping into the LIMITLESS flow + abundance of money by becoming ONE with the frequency of money: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/money-beyond-the-matrix-masterclass/ 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

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Instagram: @sheenakatz

When you’re surrounded by an environment filled with victim mindset and the normalization of limitation…good luck having a life that can transcend that environment.

When you live beside limitation, you will end up living in limitation. But when you plug into an environment where people prioritize expansion, firm standard-setting, and a life of limitlessness…

Your own potential to live without limits skyrockets.

I don’t believe in limitation. I simply don’t. I believe we can all shatter the limits we’ve placed on ourselves and our ability to live a different reality than we’re currently in…

But some things need to change before we can get there. And we’re the only ones who can DECIDE to make it happen.

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

If you know you’ve been thinking, playing, and talking small when it comes to business, career, money and/or dating, and you’re ready to step into BIGGER conversations and a more EXPANSIVE way of living…you need to join EXPANDED group coaching with Beatrice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/expanded-group-coaching-with-beatrice/ 

If you wanna tap into the limitless flow of money, you can join the BEYOND THE MATRIX masterclass, a matrix-shattering conversation on tapping into the LIMITLESS flow + abundance of money by becoming ONE with the frequency of money: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/money-beyond-the-matrix-masterclass/ 

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You’ve all heard plenty about my relationship with coaching and mentorship insofar as it applies to my own business…

But today, I want to talk about how coaching and mentorship has supported me throughout my own self-development journey!

If you’re anything like I was, you probably believe that coaching and mentorship is something you have to NEED before you seek it out. You probably believe that since things aren’t falling apart (yet) and you don’t have anything crisis-level to work through, you haven’t yet “earned” the right to support…

But this is absolutely untrue.

I no longer believe support is something you have to wait to invest in until you’re falling apart. I believe support is something you need and deserve at every point in your journey…and if you have it, that journey will actually get a thousand times easier. Let’s talk about it.

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

If you know you’ve been thinking, playing, and talking small when it comes to business, career, money and/or dating, and you’re ready to step into BIGGER conversations and a more EXPANSIVE way of living…you need to join EXPANDED group coaching with Beatrice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/expanded-group-coaching-with-beatrice/ 

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Did you miss the Hold the Standard masterclass? Good news—welcome to the replay!

When people talk about standards, I tend to notice one of three patterns: either someone is copying someone else’s standards because they sound good, without stopping to actually consider whether those standards match with what they’re looking for; someone doesn’t set ANY standards because they don’t know what they want, they just want SOMEONE; or they set conditional standards, which they drop the second someone who doesn’t meet those standards pays them any attention.

I don’t believe we ever drop standards; I believe we never had a hold of them in the first place. Let’s talk about how we can finally hold the standards we claim to have set.

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Too many people allow their EXTERNAL circumstances to determine their INTERNAL reality.

The way you feel is going to be one of the most important things you will ever tend to in your life, because your feelings influence every area of your life. It’s a powerful, powerful thing. So if you allow anything other than yourself to influence the way you feel…

You’re giving up your power. And that is NOT the vibe.

It’s time to take power back. It’s time that you put YOURSELF in charge of your feelings, the way you move throughout the world, and the beliefs you hold about yourself.

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When you walk into a designer store, you do it differently than you would walk into a Walmart.

You enter with a different price tag in mind. You probably already know what you want—or at least know that you’re there to make a purchase, not browse. You’re not wasting your own time or anyone else’s. 

Because of the way Louis Vuitton conducts itself through marketing, atmosphere, and treatment of their products, it calls you to a higher standard yourself, because the energy is different.

The same principle applies to dating. When you embody your standards and uplevel your frequency, people feel that and respond to it—you don’t even have to say it to them. They just know.

It’s time to dive past the surface level of standard-setting and start embodying the standards we’ve supposedly set for ourselves.

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How often have you immediately blurted out “You too!” when somebody compliments you?

“You have such pretty hair!” “You too!”

“You’re so smart!” “You too!”

“You’re so beautiful.” “You too!”

It’s like we can’t stand to just sit and HOLD attention when it’s given to us…we have to throw it back as fast as we can. Why?

Because we’ve trained ourselves to be uncomfortable holding it.

Because we don’t think of ourselves as “attention-seekers.”

Here’s the thing: attention-seeking is not the same as receiving attention. And until we learn that lesson, we’re never going to be comfortable holding attention from others…and we’re never going to be able to have the supportive relationship we dream about where we are known, loved, and seen for exactly who we are.

Let’s talk about VISIBILITY, VULNERABILITY, ATTENTION, and BEING SEEN…without feeling the need to get everyone’s eyes off of us as fast as possible.

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Last week, we had a chat about what it looks like when your standards are actually conditions, and you’re too wishy-washy about standing firm in the standards you’ve set…

This week, I want to talk about what happens when you’re TOO strict with your standard-setting, and it actually ends up narrowing your dating pool unnecessarily.

I’ve heard a lot of people asking whether their standards are “too high,” and honestly? I don’t believe this is even a thing. Standards aren’t high or low; they just are. They’re something that you’ve decided to set and stand behind…

But sometimes, we set them in places that aren’t actually aligned with what we’re truly seeking in a relationship.

Let’s talk about what happens when you set standards from a place of entitlement or outside pressure rather than what will ACTUALLY make you feel safe and secure in a relationship. Because I’m betting that your ego has started an unconscious game of peek-a-boo within your standards…and it’s actually starting to sabotage your dating life.

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I don’t actually believe in the idea of “lowering” your standards.

I don’t believe that STANDARDS can be lowered. A standard is something that just IS. It is the way things are, no unless, ifs, ands, or buts…

And if you disagree, I’m willing to bet you haven’t been setting standards. I think you’ve been setting conditions.

If your “standards” rely on outside factors and are constantly lowering and raising depending on what you’re experiencing, guess what? That’s not a standard. 

And if you want to actually attract what you SAY you truly want, we need to sit down and get solid about what your standards truly are…

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If you get a bad taste in your mouth when you hear the words “dating apps”...this is the episode for you.

Dating apps are NOT the problem. Odds are, it’s not the apps that need to be ditched…it’s likely your approach that needs some rethinking.

Luckily for you, I have gathered up my top five tips for navigating dating apps in a way that’s going to help you actually ENJOY the process of dating through your favorite dating app, instead of dreading the entire process.

Before you push that DELETE button on the app, hit the PAUSE button instead…then hit PLAY on this episode. I’m going to help you rework your mindset surrounding the dating app dance.

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I have a question for the entrepreneurs in the audience…

How do you react when someone misunderstands your meaning, your intentions, etcetera?

If you get panicky, feel the impulse to COMPLETELY overhaul your approach + personality, or get defensive in the comments of your IG post…you’re not gonna make it as an entrepreneur.

A lot of people in the entrepreneurial space think that if somebody misunderstands them, that's a sign that they need to change how they do things. They think they should never do that thing again, say that thing again, talk about that thing again for fear of someone else getting upset about it.

This. Isn’t. True.

If you can't hold that space between how you see yourself and how others see you, I'm telling you right now, you will crumble. Let’s talk about why.

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There are soooo many lessons that I’ve learned from being in a relationship for just over a year now. 

Firstly: if you think that once you get in a relationship, your triggers all pack up and head out the door…that’s just not it. It is NOT IT, friend.

Secondly: If you want trust at the core of your relationship, you want to consider getting REALLY honest with yourself and your partner.

Thirdly…well, you’ll just have to listen to the episode to find out the rest!

The work doesn’t stop when you get into a relationship…in fact, it’s only just beginning. Let’s go over the five biggest lessons I’ve learned from being in a year-long relationship.

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Let me know if this sounds familiar at all:

“Why am I STILL getting triggered by this? Why am I still responding this way? I DID this work already.”

Mmm…did you, though? Or did you just listen to a podcast episode about it and call it a day?

Inner work takes TIME and PATIENCE…and as uncomfortable as it can get, true elevation requires you to sit and hold yourself when things come up for you…even if it’s something you’d rather pretend isn’t there at all.

It’s time to get curious. It’s time to get patient. And it’s time to set the ego aside, because the truth is, we all have sides of us we’d rather ignore. It’s the people who can sit with those sides of themselves that actually hit that next level.

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Tune in to find out how Self Love Over Codependency (now called Self Trust Alchemy) alum Sara DEEPENED her connection to her intuition, built her confidence, and found self-love Self Trust Alchemy, my 16-week shadow work group program on how to step into your sovereignty as a POWERFUL leader over your life who makes decisions with clarity and DEEP levels of self-trust (formerly known as SLOC), begins THIS Wednesday, Feb 15!

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Tune in to find out how Self Love Over Codependency (now called Self Trust Alchemy) alum Jordyn went from OVERTHINKING, fear of the unknown, and doubt to deep levels of self-trust in being provided for money wise AND job wise as well as manifesting a contract position right after a job loss. Self Trust Alchemy, my 16-week shadow work group program on how to step into your sovereignty as a POWERFUL leader over your life who makes decisions with clarity and DEEP levels of self-trust (formerly known as SLOC), begins NEXT Wednesday, Feb 15!

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You may think you know the ego…but if there’s one thing I’ve learned over my journey through the self-development world, it’s this:

Just when I THINK I know everything, something I’ve never heard before comes along and turns my whole world upside down.

You’re never done learning. And if you can get into that mindset now, I promise you that you will experience expansion in a way you never thought possible.

Today, I’m going to tell you three things you absolutely NEED to know about the ego. And if you think you’re too advanced for this topic…well, hello to your ego.

I promise you, this discussion is like NOTHING you’ve ever heard before. Because even I, the Ego Whisperer, am always discovering new things about the ego…and I’m excited to share them with you today.

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The biggest lie avoidant attachment will tell you?

That you’re safer never showing anyone the REAL you.

People with avoidant attachment get squeamish AF when someone starts to open up to them. They can’t stand the idea of being vulnerable in front of someone else. Their avoidant attachment tells them that the only reason anyone would want to get to know them on a deeper level is so they can have something on them…so they can use that weakness to manipulate and hurt you.

Here’s the truth: most people who are romantically interested in you don’t have it out for you. And if that’s a mindblowing revelation, just wait until you hear what else I have to say…

This one’s short and sweet, but boy does it pack a PUNCH. Get ready to have those avoidantly attached lies turned on their head.

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Where are my people-pleasers at? 

Buckle up and get ready to sit with some hard truths today. I’m here to talk about all things people-pleasing…why we do it, why we can’t STOP doing it, and why…stay with me, here…we actually really enjoy it.

You heard me right. I said we actually ENJOY people-pleasing, no matter what we might say about wanting to stop.

The Ego Whisperer is in top form today, and I’m not afraid to raise my voice. Let’s talk about what’s keeping you trapped in your people-pleasing habits…and how we can shift this to start being a supportive habit instead of a sabotaging one.

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Brace yourself: this concept may just blow your minds.

Attachment styles aren’t just for romantic relationships.

OMG. WHAT?

This was a HUGE epiphany for me, and it definitely didn’t dawn on me until I started trying to figure out why making friends—something that used to be sooo easy as a kid—suddenly felt IMPOSSIBLE as an adult. It took shadow work, breaking down some limiting beliefs, and really delving into my mindset surrounding friendship to realize that it actually had everything to do with my attachment style.

Curious about how your attachment style—whether that’s anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant, or secure—affects the way you make friends in adulthood? Let me lay it all out for you.

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PAUSE. Before you go any further, let me start by saying this:

If you truly, deeply, in your heart of hearts, DO NOT WANT a relationship? That’s great. That is absolutely great for you.

But more often than not, when I come across people in my coaching and personal life who claim they don’t want anything to do with relationships…the truth is something very different.

If you’ve had to convince yourself of all the reasons why you don’t actually want a relationship, why they’re too much trouble, why it’s not worth it…guess what? It’s not that you don’t want a relationship…it’s that your ego can’t take another minute of wanting what it THINKS it can’t have.

Even if this feels better in the moment, this kind of denial and suppression…it’s not serving you, friends. Not even a little bit. Let me tell you why it’s actually okay to admit you want a relationship.

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WE MADE IT!

Can you believe it’s already the end of 2022? This will be the last episode of the year, and believe me, this Self Love Fix Finale does NOT disappoint!

While many other creators are doing a year-end wrap-up, I want to do something a little bit different. I want to share one particular part of my self-development journey where I have grown leaps and bounds this year: my mindset surrounding investing in myself.

Investing in yourself can FEEL like a scary, scary thing. It stretches you in ways you don’t always expect. But it’s never NOT paid off for me, and I’m here today to tell you why it’s so important to practice the right mindset around investing in yourself…not from a place of need, but from a place of desire.

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Here we gooo…

It’s time for an exciting episode I have been looking forward to for QUITE some time now.

New cover photo. New intro. New focus. New Instagram bio. New EVERYTHING.

Welcome to the new Self Love Fix. I’m your host, Beatrice Kamau, and you can call me the Ego Whisperer.

In this episode, I’m going to spill the tea on all things EVOLUTION—because just like my brand, just like me, YOU also get to evolve. I’m also going to give you a behind-the-scenes look at what’s changing, what’s staying the same, and who the person behind the mic REALLY is. Let’s dive right in.

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There are so, so many facets to developing self-love, self-confidence, and self-trust, and we’re going to talk about quite a few of them today…

That’s right, I said WE. I am so, so pleased to be able to welcome another SLOC alum, Natalie Ashton, onto the podcast to chat about her experience in the program!

Natalie is such an incredible person. I could talk about her for hours. She’s come so far since I first met her, and today she’s coming on to talk about building self-trust, learning how to set boundaries (even when it’s scary!), and all of the incredible new endeavors she’s taken on since graduating from the program. I can’t wait for you all to hear what she has to say!

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions involving sexual abuse. Please listen safely.

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Sometimes setting boundaries can take more energy than it’s worth…or at least, that’s what it feels like. But in actuality, it’s one of the most important things you can do to PROTECT your energy.

That’s a lesson, my wonderful guest this week, Essi Wognakou, learned in my program, SLC—Self-Love Over Codependency, now called Self-Trust Alchemy!

Essi’s here today to talk about her experience inside the program and all the things she learned about building her confidence, setting boundaries, and tackling motherhood. I can’t wait for you to hear all the wisdom coming from this amazing woman. 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

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Hi OMG! Happy Thanksgiving!

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Okay, friends. Take a moment and brace yourselves. Take a moment and check in with yourself about whether you’re in a good place to hear this, because it’s not an easy pill to swallow:

Today, I want to talk about accepting change. Not just in yourself, but in others.

If you get to change, other people do, too. And you’ll only be able to hold space for yourself to evolve inasmuch as you are able to hold space for others to do the same.

I’m going deep, difficult, and personal in this episode, so get ready to hear some hard things. I’m not holding back. But I firmly believe that this is going to land for many of you, so I’m excited to share. Let’s jump in.

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Does making friendships as an adult feel so impossibly out of reach, especially as a woman? Guess what: it’s not only possible, but I can tell you how to make it happen. 

I can’t do it alone, though…so I’ve invited Michelle Panning, host of the Unfuck Your Relationships podcast and expert on all things shadow work and embodiment—and my amazing friend—to hop on and talk with me about what you need to know in order to cultivate deep adult friendships!

Talk about an example of a bad bitch friendship! I’m so thrilled to have Michelle on for the third time, and I hope her insight inspires you in your pursuit of building deep connections and fulfilling, thriving friendships. 

This one is going to be gooood, friends. Don’t wait—listen now if you’re ready to transform your friendships, not just your relationships!

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“Dating is a waste of time.”

Have you ever said this before? I’ve been there too, but here’s the thing: it’s just not true.

You know why I know that? Because it’s a lesson I had to learn myself.

The truth is, dating is not the thing wasting your time. Because if you claim to not want to waste your time, but then make yourself available for situationships, emotionally unavailable partners, or any other thing that’s going absolutely nowhere…guess what?

Dating isn’t wasting your time. YOU are.

The tea is hot today, friends, and I’m spilling it just for you. Listen now if you’re ready to clear the air of all these dating delusions and leave “Amazon Prime” relationship energy behind.

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“We all have the same 24 hours in a day.”

The WORST, right? Nobody likes being told this when it comes to the discussion around time management. Here’s the thing: while this (admittedly annoying) statement is absolutely true, the conversation around time management isn’t actually about time…it’s about attention.

We all have the same amount of time, but we DON’T have the same amount of attention, and that’s where this “Same 24 Hours” theory breaks down.

I firmly believe that not being able to get things done—or burning yourself out from piling too much on your plate—is not actually a TIME management problem. The truth? This is actually a DISTRACTION and ATTENTION management problem. Here are my two best tips for utilizing attention and distraction management!

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Does it feel like you’ve become a magnet to every emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobic person in the dating pool? Have you been blaming it on this generation’s idea of dating, the fickleness of dating apps, or just about any other excuse you can come up with?

Bad news: it’s none of those things. It’s you.

Ultimately, it’s not that we’re attracting emotionally unavailable partners…it’s that we’re making ourselves available to them. We’re looking for the first thing that crosses our path, whether that person is truly in alignment with what we consciously desire or not, because our unconscious desires are actually the ones running the show.

How do you escape this cycle? Good news: as always, I’m here to tell you what you need to hear, even if it’s not what you want to hear. Listen now to find out how to find the partnership you truly want.

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Shadow work: it’s a term you’ve probably heard before. But what is it, and why does everyone seem to be talking about it?

Take out your flashlight, friends, because today I’m taking you on a journey into all the shadowy, invisible parts of your personality. Shadow work is all about turning the unconscious conscious, which means taking a look at some things you might’ve shoved so far down that you’ve forgotten they even existed…or maybe you’re hoping they’ll disappear if you don’t look too closely at them.

Shadow work isn’t scary; in fact, it’s an amazing, AMAZING tool for improving your self-image, your relationships, and your patience with yourself. But it can be emotional…and it can actually be harmful if done without the right guidance. Let me tell you what shadow work actually is, and what you need to do to get started.

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I could talk about money all day long, and let me tell you—you’re getting a masterclass about money manifestation all packed into one episode today.

Manifesting abundance in your life isn’t complicated…in fact, half of it is about recognizing the abundance already present in your life. We experience abundance in a hundred beautiful ways every single day, but without a shift in perspective, we might miss it altogether.

Today, I have four powerful tips for how you can manifest more abundance in your life. Be warned—a couple of them aren’t easy to swallow, but discomfort can be necessary in order to help us grow. 

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Last week, I talked about managing your energy and your other resources. This week, I want to talk about the management of one of those resources, and what can happen when you don't manage it: money.

There are four signs that you might have a yo-yo relationship with money:

A yo-yo relationship means there's no real consistency and balance in your relationship with money, and when you're going through this type of scarcity surrounding money, it's impossible to manage it properly. Let me tell you how to start turning this relationship around for the better.

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Last week, I talked about how mismanagement of your energy and resources can lead to severe burnout. This week, I want to talk about four signs you can watch out for to identify whether you're struggling with energy mismanagement:

Struggles with self-control around money Struggles with energy management Struggles with time management Struggles with self-control around food

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Anxious attachment is tricky, and it can definitely get you into some relationship trouble if you don’t know how to deal with it. It can leave you scared of true intimacy even though it’s also what you want above all else.

Talk about a hell of your own anxious making. That’s why in this episode of the Self Love Fix Podcast we’ll talk more about:

When you feel complete and whole and loved by yourself, you know that a partner isn’t the end all be all. You can see things clearly, and accept what’s for you…and what isn’t with grace and dignity that you’ve had inside you all along. 

Get clear before you start dating, remember that dating is a process of gathering information and that as long as you give the relationship time to evolve, even if it doesn’t work out in the end, at least you were brave enough to try and grow. 

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There you are, hoping, wishing, praying for real and lasting love- an honest-to-goodness relationship…so why the heck are you continually settling for a situationship? You know what I’m talking about, right?

The situationship- the kind of dating when the guy says stuff like “seeing where it’s going, keeping it casual, just hanging out” and you pretend to be cool with it as your soul dies a little more and your doubt climbs, because can you actually change his mind? No, probably not. So on this episode, let’s figure out:

You might feel powerless right now- after all how much control do you have over all the terrible men out there just waiting to screw you over…but the thing is, most of them aren’t. And you have a lot more control than you think you do because a lot of this work needs to come from you. Let me help you get started.

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For most of us love is (or at least was) an elusive mystery we could only dream of. That’s why today I’m so excited to welcome my guest Crystal Irom, a Love Coach specifically for successful women. As if women didn’t have it hard enough these days, amiright?

Why is it that especially women who are successful in every other aspect of their lives struggle to find someone to love? Is it because men are intimidated? Are these women (possibly you) doomed to roam the world biding your time in between horrible dates and dead-end relationships? We examine all of this and more in the latest episode of The Self-Love Fix Podcast along with:

Men and women are different, and that includes what’s important to men in terms of a relationship. The key is knowing the parts of yourself that pave the way for connection, and understanding that to be in love means to be vulnerable. It also means appreciating yourself for who you are, and being unapologetically you. 

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I’m beyond thrilled to welcome Elisa Liu onto the podcast today to talk about body image, diet culture, and ways to begin to trust our own hunger again. 

For most of us, indulging in what our bodies may be asking for often comes with a hefty dose of guilt. Really intense restriction can mean that your overall control is absolutely shot. Diet culture is everywhere and it tells us that no matter what we do, it’s never enough. It’s no wonder that we feel the need to deny ourselves at every opportunity; we’re taught to equate self-discipline with goodness and eating anything less than the perfect diet as bad or failure. In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast we’ll talk more with Elisa about:

Your worth is who you are and how you connect to yourself and others- it’s how you show up in your life. You are so much bigger and brighter than any number on a scale, or a size stitched in some pants. One day you’ll believe that.

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Today we’re going to talk about something that most people would deny- the fact that we all get jealous. But what if instead of shoving it down in a well of shame, we instead took a moment to process it?

Chances are when you feel jealousy rear its ugly head, it’s not even really about whatever you’re envious of. You probably grew up in a household where you were constantly compared to others: a sibling, a classmate, whoever it might have been. This taught you never to truly see yourself or focus on your own needs, but only to view yourself as you related to others. Your path was defined by theirs, or at least, you thought it should have been.  In this episode we’ll talk more about:

Jealousy isn’t even really about what the other person has or is doing; I’d argue it’s actually a signal that you’re searching for love and acceptance. It’s a warning sign flagging you down that maybe just maybe you’re not on a path that will lead you to the happy life you deserve. 

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Oh, comparison. It’s the thief of joy or something like that, right? Well, I’d argue that social media has definitely proven that concept correct.

Now more than ever it’s important for us to redefine our personal journey and goals along the way, or we risk being swept up in unattainable expectations from relative strangers on the internet. On this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast we’ll chat more on:

Once you stop measuring your life based on what you lack, an entirely new world opens up to you. A world where you get to choose what you value, and where you want to go. 

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Chances are you’ve likely heard about the new trend in parenting- gentle parenting. While it may sound permissive or ineffective, if you really look into it, it’s the natural response to the inherent violence that has been culturally accepted in previous generations.

In the latest episode of The Self-Love Fix Podcast I have a chance to talk with Leslie of LatinX parenting and go over:

Blind obedience through fear is not helping our children learn how to process difficult emotions, and it is a breeding ground for future emotional issues and resentments. It can be hard to find other ways when we were most likely brought up by parents who never modeled apologizing for the sake of repair or connection- the emphasis was on obedience at all costs. Our parents wanted to win, no matter how it ultimately affected us as people, and our relationship with them.

We don’t need to be perfect all the time to raise thoughtful and compassionate children; we simply have to always try and honor the person they are becoming while understanding that when we “lose it”, it’s actually a wonderful opportunity to show them accountability. 

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Today we’re going to talk about burnout; you probably know the feeling. There you are, trucking along in your business when suddenly, seemingly out of the blue, you go from boundless enthusiasm to fatigue and cynicism. How? Why? And what the heck do you do? I’m glad you asked. Burnout is essentially stress, but it’s the stress we feel after we have consistently taken on too much responsibility at work. In the latest episode of the podcast I talk more about:

You don’t have to feel guilty because you want to take a break now and then. Nor do you have to be ashamed to admit that sometimes you need help. Doing it all is a myth, and you’re allowed to do what you need to do in order to feel fulfilled, happy and carefree.

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I am so excited for this empowering episode! Today, three incredible women joined the podcast, each of them having gone through my Self Love Over Codependency program. They were kind and brave enough to share their journeys to self-discovery, what they learned from the program, and how it’s changed them for good.

I’m so inspired by each of their stories because it really shows the connections and differences between each person’s experience with SLOC. I’m so glad that their lives have been enhanced by the program, and I can’t wait for you to hear their accounts.

Here’s a rundown of the episode:

From changes in how they perceive themselves to the way they interact with others to changes in their physical beings, SLOC has touched their lives in irreversible ways! I’m so happy for them and greatly appreciate their willingness to share.

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Ashley M: https://instagram.com/asshleeyyy

Ashley S: https://instagram.com/ashleyliliana_

Samantha: https://instagram.com/sammyliebs 

Do you have an easy time trusting yourself when it comes to putting your trust in others? What about deciphering what resonates with you and what doesn’t? If these areas feel a little shaky for you, then you’ll find a lot of value in this episode! I’m talking all things self-trust, and it’s definitely a juicy topic that is not to be missed.

When it comes to self-trust, it can be easy to fall back into old patterns associated with trauma or codependency. I know because I’ve been there myself! But hear me when I tell you that your needs are important, and they deserve to be met. We’re all wired for human connection and emotional intimacy, so allow yourself to have that!

Here’s what I talk about in this episode:

Finding trust in yourself when it comes to opening up emotionally, trusting others, and remaining confident in what you believe really comes down to your ability to connect with your body and intuition. This is the guiding light that helps us overcome so many fears and obstacles, and the same can be said for that important ability to self-trust.

If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories, and tag me, @theselflovefix.

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Do you ever feel like people don’t value what you have to offer or like things are SO easy for other people but so difficult for you, particularly in regards to your career? Then this is the episode for you. Today, I’m talking about how you can navigate feeling undervalued, unappreciated, and unseen - at work or in your love life. 

We frequently take setbacks and assume they mean something about ourselves, but what if a little shift in energy could really change the way that you feel AND how you show up for your work? It’s possible, and I want to help you get there and ensure that you are questioning whether you’re doing things out of obligation or desire.

Here’s what I talk about in this episode:

I’ve been in the place of feeling unworthy, lacking confidence, and completely numbing myself to the day-to-day of my job just to tolerate it. I know how demoralizing that is, so it’s important to me that you escape that place if that’s where you find yourself. Tuning into this episode is step one in that process. 

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Today, I want to talk about something that plagues many people, especially in the context of their careers. Anxiousness, self-doubt, and a fear of being seen may come up a lot, and these feelings prevent people from showing up authentically as themselves. I don’t want you to experience this, so I dive fully into the topic on this episode.

There are so many different facets that come into play when you experience self-doubt within your career specifically. You may question your skills and start feeling like an imposter, not knowing how to showcase your soft skills, or may really struggle to show up for yourself authentically as a business owner. Does this sound like something you suffer with

Here’s what I discuss in detail on this episode:

I really hope that this episode makes it easier for you to tune out your self-doubt and shift into both self-trust and your desires. Once you do that, you’ll be able to show up authentically as you and it will feel so much better - believe me, I’ve been there, too!

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Stemming from the episode last week about codependency, this week I wanted to talk about a related topic. Especially for those concerned with codependency, it can be really easy to go to the other side of the spectrum and become hyper-independent. So, that’s what I’m discussing in this episode.

It’s really important to me that I communicate that it’s okay to lean on your loved ones for support and help. Doing so doesn’t equate to codependency, and I know that sometimes it can be confusing to navigate that. It’s really easy to demonize dependency in general when you’re in this position, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

Here’s what I dig into on this episode:

It’s my hope that this episode reframes the way that you look at independence, dependence on others, and how they relate to codependency. Striking the right balance can feel impossible, but I promise you that there’s a nice in-between where you can settle in and get amazing support at the same time.

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Codependency is a big topic, but I want to clue you in on something about the topic that people tend not to talk about. That’s what this episode centers around, and once you gain this understanding, there’s no going back! 

There’s a lot to unpack when it comes to codependency, and it completely takes away your ability to make decisions for yourself. The reason I’m ready to uncover this topic and break down the codependency barriers is because I’ve been there! So please know that I feel your pain if you’re currently working through your own struggles with codependency. 

Here’s exactly what I discuss in this episode:

I hope that this episode allows you to think about codependency in a new light. And with that, I also hope it inspires you to approach codependency issues differently in order to gain back a sense of independence as well as confidence in your intuition and body. They know best!

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Boundaries are one of those concepts that get a lot of air time, but do you actually know how to effectively set them for yourself? That’s the topic of this informative episode! Boundaries can really help you align your relationships to what you want to get out of them. Furthermore, setting healthy boundaries allows you to create better energy in your life rather than being plagued by bad energy.

The truth is that you have the power to take ownership over the energy in your life. That’s an exciting prospect, right?  Being proactive rather than reactive and setting those boundaries is the best way to step into that power and to be happier with the energy you surround yourself with. 

Here are the topics surrounding boundaries that I bring up in this episode:

I hope that this post has given you a blueprint of how to think about instilling boundaries in your own life so that you can begin taking control of the energy you surround yourself with. Believe me, doing so will make ALL the difference!

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The idea of being fully healed is something I’ve heard referenced time and time again, and it’s what I want to talk about on today’s episode. It’s about time the mere notion of being “fully healed” is debunked, and I’m not only doing that today, but I’m also sharing three mini myths around the topic that I want to help you shy away from.

There’s a common misconception that people need to resolve things within themselves and be “perfect enough” to be worthy of love. This is a subconscious thing that people tend to think, so today I’m going to address the mini myths that exist under the larger myth around being fully healed. 

Here are the mini myths I discuss:

It’s my hope that talking about these will help shift your perspective on this topic, as I want you to stop focusing on being fully healed and start focusing on radical self-acceptance.

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Another week, another podcast guest! I’m so excited that Gina DeVee joined this episode to talk about her book, The Audacity to be Queen, as well as several other topics relating to zeroing in on the queen energy that lives inside all of us as strong women.

Gina’s perspective is so interesting, as she has lived an interesting life that has brought her where she is now. Gina went from being a broke psychologist to a multi-million dollar women’s empowerment and lifestyle brand with Divine Living. She has dedicated her career to helping women connect spiritually, start profitable businesses, and create wealth from a feminine perspective. She and I had a LOT to talk about, and I can’t wait for you to hear it all.

Here are the specifics that Gina and I discuss:

It’s my hope that this episode inspires you to tap into your power as a queen, since I know it lives within you! So go ahead, put on that crown with pride! 

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I’m so excited to be joined by a repeat guest in this episode! Michelle Panning, also known as the Intimacy Alchemist, joins me for an intriguing conversation about breaking up, heartbreak, intense feelings, healthy relationships, and finding love.

Michelle has so much amazing insight into these topics and really prompts me to look at things from a different perspective in the love department. I believe this conversation will do the same for you, and I’m excited for you to hear it!

Here are the specifics that Michelle and I discuss:

It’s my hope that whether you’re going through a recent breakup, looking for a healthy relationship, or just looking to improve the relationship you’re already in, this conversation speaks to you and helps you evolve in some way. Help yourself heal, grow, and thrive so you can be ready to manifest the man of your dreams!

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Getting ghosted by a man is all too common in today’s world. And I’m going to be honest: when this happens, it hurts. But it doesn’t have to cause an emotional spiral! Because I’ve been there before and I understand the range of emotions you’re feeling, I’m using this episode to talk about how to handle being ghosted.

We all have a tendency to psycho-analyze a situation when we’re ghosted and to really attach meaning to why it happened. To make it mean something about us. But that’s not the way to look at the situation, and that certainly won’t help you learn anything!

Here are the specifics that I cover on this episode:

Use this episode to aid you in navigating the emotions that come along with getting ghosted. I hope it gives you a whole new outlook on this unfortunate part of dating.

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2021 has come and gone, and as we work our way through the beginning of 2022, I’m taking some time to reflect on the lessons life has brought my way. This episode is all about things I’ve learned regarding friendship, business, money, and love.  

It’s really important to take time to reflect and look back at where you are now versus where you once were. As humans, we’re always evolving, and it’s actually really fun to look back on what we know now about ourselves that we haven’t always had a grip on.

For each of the following topics, I share two lessons I’ve learned:

It’s my hope that this episode will inspire you to examine the lessons you’ve learned recently and how they apply to your life today.

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Emotional availability gets talked about a lot, but do you have a true understanding of it? This episode of the Self Love Fix podcast serves to provide you with that definition and to let you know how you can find it in a partner. 

Through the definition of emotional availability that truly resonates with me and some personal examples, this episode is key in my dating series. This is because emotional availability is a must-have feature of any relationship - for both yourself and your partner.

Here are the specifics that I cover on this episode:

This topic is SO important when it comes to cultivating a happy and healthy relationship, and the time to learn about emotional availability is now. There’s no time like the present!

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