Sex Upgraded

These could use some refinement:
00:00 - Intro
01:29 - Opening
02:08 - Ricky’s Background
02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues
05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness 
09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy
17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today
22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Generations
27:00 - Social Media and It’s Negative Effect on Relationships
31:12 - The Illusion of Social Media and How It Divides Us As A Society
35:45 - The Importance of Resolving Relationship Issues as A Team
38:08 - Shifting The Focus From The Individual to The Partnership’s Needs 
41:44 - Identifying What You Need & Deciding If You Should Stay in A Relationship
48:10 - What Makes Us Happy
54:58 - The Consequences of Being Too Comfortable
57:59 - Final Words
01:00:34 - How to Find and Connect With Dr Ricky Arenson

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My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.

In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.

*NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.

ABOUT NAEMA
Naema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:45 - Opening
06:15 - Theme’s Naema has learned about penetration working with women
08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too)
15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience
19:20 - What to do before sex
23:15 - Technique to help her open
24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched?
26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit?
32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris
34:00 - Waiting for the ask
36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration
40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain
45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma
47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex
50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner
54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes
56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way
1:01:30 - Outro

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🔱  CONNECT WITH NAEMA

🔸 Instagram

🔸 Naema’s YouTube

🔸Naema’s Links & Pussy Workshop 

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:

🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/ 

🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/ 

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:

🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge 

🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training 

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast 

🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson 

🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/ 

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Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid dynamics of dominance and submission, the role of 'brat energy' in BDSM, and how these practices can lead to personal growth and deeper self-understanding.

As we peel away societal taboos, our guests share their transformative journeys from mere participants to passionate educators within the kink community. They illuminate the joys of helping others safely unearth their desires, pushing past conventional boundaries to a place of profound erotic expression. We also dissect the critical role of consent and the Wheel of Consent, emphasizing how these frameworks can foster a safe and fulfilling exploration of one's sexual landscape.

Join us for this thought-provoking session where we embrace our primal instincts and redefine what it means to engage in role-playing, objectification, and the pursuit of pleasure. With practical advice and shared vulnerabilities, this episode promises a welcoming space for the curious, the seasoned, and everyone in between who seeks to understand the profound impact of kink on personal transformation and sexual empowerment. Ashley and Kyle guide us through this rich tapestry, leaving us with a deeper appreciation for the nuanced world of kink and the liberation that comes with embracing our true desires.

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Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll show you how.

🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

MICROCOSMIC ORBIT VIDEOS:
💫 Microcosmic Orbit Diagram
💫 Microcosmic Orbit Partner Practice
*(I forgot to add these graphics in the Youtube version of this interview, so I'm adding them here).

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:

0:00 Sex Transmutation Intro

2:44 What is Sex Transmutation?

3:40 Practical Examples

5:24 Transmutation of Ejaculation During Sex

7:08 Porn: Transmuting the Desire

9:15 Sex Transmutation at Work

12:13 Sexual Desire is Healthy (Don't Ignore It)

12:54 Somatics & Transmutation Example

16:52 When Someone Is NOT Attracted to You

17:45 The REACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation

29:01 Taylor's Personal Sex Example

33:44 The PROACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation

37:39 Intro to Sexual Energy Integration Exercise

38:36 Exercise: Sexual Energy Integration

43:41 How to End Sex Without Ejaculation

45:25 Sexual Energy Conservation VS Cultivation

49:28 The Most Important Technique of All...

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ORGASMIC MASTERY COURSE:
🔱 Master this practice in the bedroom, learn to last as long as you want, have strong erections, and experience full body orgasmic pleasure with my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that begins on February 8th.

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Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels.

Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental clarity, and conquering life's challenges. Check out my personal testosterone journey in this video.

And...

🔴 Get Your Testosterone Levels Tested Here
And use this code: TAYLORNEWYEAR for a big discount


In this episode, you'll:
• Learn about the science behind lab tests, stress's impact on hormones, and strategies to combat age-related changes. 
• Gain wisdom on decoding your body's signals through advanced diagnostics and lifestyle adjustments. 
• Discover tools for a revolutionized existence, including mastering metabolism with continuous glucose monitoring and employing heart rate variability in stress management. 
• Better understand how you can have longevity, energy, strength, and enduring zest for life.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Opening
02:15 - Dr. Tracy Gapin's Background
05:44 - Common Underlying Causes of Hormonal Problems 
07:09 - What Is Low Testosterone 
11:04 - Stress and The Link Between Testosterone and Cortisol 
16:13 - The Effects of Low Testosterone on the Mind & Body
18:52 - Ways to Improve Testosterone Levels
20:08 - Impact of Low Testosterone on Society 
21:52 - Minimizing Exposure to the Toxins in Our Environment 
25:19 - Lifestyle & Time Frame To Improve Hormonal Levels
34:22 - Living With Suboptimal Levels of Testosterone Without Realizing
35:56 - The Natural Process of Aging and Finding Balance with Performance
39:30 - The Feeling and Experience of Optimal Hormonal Levels
41:47 - Healthy, Normal Sex Drive After 40 Years
44:38 - Advances in Men's Medicine Space 
51:14 - Living With Intention, Sleep & Diet
56:35 - Final Advice 
58:19 - How To Find and Connect With Dr. Tracy Gapin

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🔱  CONNECT WITH DR. GAPIN:
🔸  Gapin Institute
🔸 Dr. Gapin's Website
🔸 High Performance Handbook

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Website

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#testosterone #menshealth #lifeoptimization #hormones

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This episode is a look into my personal life - because I want to be transparent with you around my professional & life development as a teacher. You'll hear about the 3 big trainings I'm personally enrolled in for 2024 (and why)... and you'll also hear my 3 main personal growth areas I want to work on too.

🔴🎥 You can watch this episode on Youtube here.

The best way to ask me anything about this episode would be to comment on the youtube version I linked to above. And if you have BDSM recommendations, please feel free to DM me on Instagram. I'm all ears.

MY 2024 PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL EDUCATION PLAN

Somatic Experiencing Practitioner TrainingEmbodied Men's Leadership Training (with John Wineland)Somatic Coach Training Program (with Strozzi Institute)

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

My Testosterone Video (On Youtube)Sex Upgraded Podcast (On Youtube)

🔱 UPCOMING TRAINING FOR MEN:
🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course begins on February 8th, 2024. This is a 10-week training for any man who wants to become the best lover they can be - the kind of lover who blows his partner's mind - AND feels 100% confident and sexually alive in the process. Check out the course page for more info.


EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Why I Made This Episode
2:30 The 3 Big Trainings I'm Taking in 2024
3:01 1 - Somatic Experiencing Practitioner Training
5:52 2 - Embodied Men's Leadership Training
8:28 3 - Strozzi Somatic Coaching Training
10:23 BDSM Training? (I Need Your Advice...)
11:21 Male Hormone Optimization
13:17 ADHD & Sex
16:16 Living a Balanced Life...
18:11 Request: I Need Your Help...

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Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men?

In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'll hear how we both got to be where we are today.

You'll also learn about his new sex coach certification training (with tons of great guest instructors) for people who want to become professional sex coaches that specifically work with men.

I've looked through the syllabus, and it looks pretty awesome. I'm going to actually take one part of the training too: the SAR (described in the episode).

If you're interested, check out the links below:

🔱 MEN'S SEX COACH TRAINING:
🔸 Check out the sex coaching certification program here.
🔸 And join here: https://bit.ly/Mens-Sex-Coaching-Program
*If you join throughthis link, I'll receive a small commission as a thank you for connecting you to this program. That commission will help me continue to create this podcast. Thank you! :)


EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
08:53 Cam's Journey to Becoming a Sex Coach for Men
20:26 Benefits of Working With a Sex Coach
33:02 Understanding Masculinity and Sexological Approaches
47:12 Importance of Anti-Racism Education in Coaching
53:39 Exploring Tantra Communities and Sexuality
59:49 Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR) and Training Program

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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If you're a Christian, or if you've ever been impacted by Christianity in any way, this episode should be next on your list. Dr. Kevin Jenson believes that it's possible for Christians to have amazing, sacred sex - and that these experiences are also supported by the bible. Kind of mind blowing stuff...

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

Some topics we cover:

Join Dr. Kevin Jenson and I to explore the cultural divide between sex and spirituality, while examining Christianity, epistemology, and ancient texts, to create an entirely new perspective of healthy sexuality that's possible for Christians - without losing their faith.

Kevin Jenson is a distinguished author and scholar, who shares insights from his life path, bridging the gap between his Christian faith and sexual desires. 

And for the record, I don't see myself as a Christian... though as I write this on Christmas Eve, I'm about to head into a church service with my family. I grew up in a Christian household, and was heavily influenced by this faith. That's why I thought it'd be interesting to do this episode.

I've also worked with a LOT of Christian men, who want to have great sex and NOT let go of their faith. I want to support them in their desires for that, and so whatever positive content I can create to help these men and their partners, the better.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:28 - Opening
03:34 - Kevin's Background
09:17 - The Conflict Between Sexuality and Spirituality
12:22 - Epistemology & the Ways of Knowing
19:20 - Christian Views on Sex & Masturbation
23:17 - Sex Positive View within Christianity
31:45 - The Original Intent about Sexuality in the Bible
36:59 - The Church & The Dichotomy of Healthy Sexuality
41:48 - The Myth of Onan & Is Masturbation Sinful
48:07 - The Christian View of Male/Female Dynamic in Society
53:24 - "Porneia"  
59:17 - Prayerful Sex
1:05:41 - Kevin's Journey of Sharing His Work in The (Christian) World
1:12:02 - In & Out Group in the Christian Community
1:15:31 - How to Connect with Kevin
1:16:46 - Christian Trauma

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🔱  CONNECT WITH KEVIN:
🔸 Special page for Sex Upgraded podcast listeners
🔸 Kevin’s Website
🔸 Kevin's Instagram: @drkevinjenson

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
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This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves.

There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro
01:28 Opening
03:02 Papillon's Professional Background
03:58 Sexual Assault & Crossing Boundaries
09:35 Self-Reflection on Causing Sexual Harm
14:47 Finding a Therapist to Talk with
17:40 Other Options to Help with Self-Reflection
21:28 Healing Without Contacting the Person You've Sexually Assaulted
29:21 Recognizing When We Have Harmed Another Person
35:56 Finding Space to Share And Reflect
38:25 What to Do If You Realize You Have Assaulted Someone
47:40 Centering The Survivor's Needs
52:56 Facing the Pain of the Realization
54:55 Can a Changed Person Be Seen in a New Light
57:02 Restorative Justice
58:54 Accountability and Developing Self-Awareness
1:05:33 Resources and Materials to Look Up


GENERATED EPISODE DESCRIPTION:
In this episode, Taylor explores how we can prioritize survivors' needs in sexual assault cases, with insights from returning guest, Papillon, a licensed clinical mental health counselor specializing in sexual trauma.

Discover scenarios where boundaries are crossed, emphasizing humility, growth, and understanding survivors' needs before personal desires. Delve into the challenges survivors face, the impact of public disclosure, and the potential for restorative justice processes.

Listen now, as Taylor and Papillon reflect on their past actions, and discuss learning from mistakes with empathy and accountability. The conversation touches on sociopathic tendencies, self-reflection, and finding support in affinity groups, offering condensed insights into the complexities of addressing sexual harm and promoting healing.


🔱  PAPILLON’S WEBSITE & RECOMMENDATIONS
🔸 Papillon's Website
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon for Kids
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon (Clean Version)
🔸 Feel free to send us more resources on this that you recommend.

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Website

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What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives?
 
 In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions. 

Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societal norms, and can guide you beyond better sexual experiences and into deeper spiritual growth.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:

00:00 Intro & Welcome

02:36 Hema’s Story

05:03 Neo Tantra & Classical Tantra Explained

10:21 What is the history of Tantra?

19:10 Why Tantra is considered the “left hand path” in India

21:46 Tantra as a practice of deconstructing the ego

28:47 Sexuality as the primordial force where we get our power

33:53 Tantra for Common Householders

37:13 How we can be overly attached to sex

39:14 Meditation practices for deep states of bliss

43:00 How Taylor first found deep presence & bliss

45:25 Enlightenment through Tantra

50:11 “Spiritual Psychopaths” in Tantra

57:48 Practices Hema Recommends

1:01:42 Closing

🔱  CONNECT WITH HEMA:

🔸 Work with Hema: https://talk2hema.youcanbook.me/ 

🔸 Hema’s Website: https://hemaholisticmystic.com/ 

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:

🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/

🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:

🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge

🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast

🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson

🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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#neotantra #tantra #tantricsexuality

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Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life.

Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejaculation mastery and semen retention from the Tantric perspective, non-ejaculatory orgasms (Kria Vati), how to increase your capacity to hold more sexual pleasure and much more...

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
02:13 Why Tantra is Important for Men
08:37 Common Questions (What is a Tantra Chair? Is Tantra Dangerous?)
10:22 Tantric Sex Positions & Kamasutra
13:56 Ejaculation Mastery
16:09 Alternatives to Ejaculatory Orgasm
19:16 Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms (Kriya Vati - Multiple Orgasms for Men)
30:35 Shawn's Experiences with Ejaculation Growing Up
33:05 Taylor's Most Amazing Sexual Experiences
36:15 Want to Last Longer in Bed? (Most Women Won't Like It)
41:50 Is Tantra Dangerous?
44:00 Redefining the Concept of Sex
53:37 Emotional Intelligence is KEY to Sexual Mastery
1:00:15 Build Your Capacity for Sexual Energy

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🔱  CONNECT WITH SHAWN:
🔸 Shawn's Upcoming Workshop (Discount Code: "Taylor"):
🔸 Shawn's Website "Tantra Quest"

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins February 8th, 2024)
🔸Semen Retention Mastery (Self-Study Enrollment is Open Now)

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Taylor's Website

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Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn.

Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it!

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro
03:31 Working With Porn Addiction
06:57 The Formation of Addictive Pattern with Porn
08:43 The Reality of the Porn Industry
12:57 Porn Stays in Our Energetic Field Some Time After Watching
15:35 Psychedelics & Porn, and Porn in Virtual Reality
21:27 Alternatives to Watching Porn
23:46 Is There Healthy Masturbation While Watching Porn?
26:52 The 11 Porn Users Archetypes
44:47 How You Masturbate is Important
55:16 How to Treat Your Penis
1:00:54 Circumcision


🔱  CONNECT WITH TYSON:
🔸 Tyson's Facebook
🔸 Tyson's Website

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.

⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS
00:00 Welcome
03:01 Why Would Someone Hire a Dating Coach
09:57 The Difficulties in Online Dating
12:53 How to Optimize Your Dating Profile
19:32 Authenticity vs Marketing Yourself
24:01 Profile Photo Optimization
29:20 Improve Your Life BEFORE Online Dating 
34:29 Profile Description Optimization
43:26 Clarify Your Desires
51:24 Online Dating vs Real Life Meeting People
54:19 Thoughts on Pick-up Artistry
1:02:59 How to Start Conversations After Matching

🔱  CONNECT WITH KOEN:
🔸 Koen's Website

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

IN THIS EPISODE
00:00 Welcome
02:07 Yuval Introduced
04:04 Traditional Sexual Polarity Questioned
07:46 Embracing Authenticity
09:11 Living a Life of Authenticity
11:30 Societal Myths & Masculinity / Femininity
19:53 The Human Experience is Complex
23:38 Sexual Polarity, Fluidity and Tension in Sexual Dynamics
37:35 Sexual Polarity IS Valuable
44:59 How to Create Sexual Polarity
51:41 Embrace Newness and Mystery


⚠️ IF YOU'RE LACKING SEXUAL CHARGE...
Yuval suggests looking at your own inner experience and figuring out if YOU are excited about life. There is a strong correlation between overall lust for life and sexual experiences... There's also a need for mystery, newness, and distance in long-term relationships to maintain erotic aliveness. Yuval encourages playfulness as a way to connect with life and explore different aspects of sexuality too

⚠️ ABOUT POLARITY...
Yuval challenges the concept of feminine and masculine energy. He believes that relying on these binary definitions limits people's potential for authentic expression. Yuval encourages people to explore their own qualities and desires rather than conforming to societal expectations. 

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🔱  CONNECT WITH YUVAL:
🔸 Yuval's TikTok
🔸 Yuval's Instagram
🔸 Yuval's Website

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why?

What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's  the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships.

🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

 EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Intro
2:25 "Conscious Men" as F*ckboys
6:29 Do Women Like New Age Guys?
14:10 Balancing Spirituality with Practical Living
23:10 Developing the Inner Feminine as a Man
27:40 The Inner Masculine & Feminine...
33:12 We Need to Talk About Healthy Masculinity
38:48 Victim Mindset Problems...
42:28 Restoring Trust & Safety with Women
48:41 Understanding Conflict & Communication
56:30 Learn How to Deal with our Urges/Addictions

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🔱  CONNECT WITH JASPER:
🔸 Jasper's Instagram
🔸 Jasper's Youtube
🔸 Jasper's Legendary Lover Program

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

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Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people?

These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human.

We can't become our best selves just by learning techniques... we also have to look at the systems and contexts we're part of, and how we relate to and interact with those systems. It's rich content, and it can be confronting... but it's work we need to do, and I'm excited to do this work WITH you.

In addition to the episodes in season 3, I also recommend checking out the podcast and article below, because they dive into this topic beautifully. You may not agree with everything, but it will certainly inspire some deep & critical thinking, which I believe is necessary for where we are today.

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
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Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective).

In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time if you ever want to have a monogamous relationship.

🔸 You can also watch this episode on youtube.

One of my favorite parts of this episode is hearing Jonathan talk about the difference between what he learned in medical school and what is actually useful for helping patients live healthy thriving lives. It's thought-provoking to say the least.

Hope you enjoy!

And if you have any requests for future episodes, please let me know!

*NOTE: In this episode we mentioned Jonathan's interview on the Sacred Sons Podcast. (Click the link in this note to listen to that episode).


🔱  CONNECT WITH JONATHAN
🔸Dr. Brajtbord's Fortitude Retreat
🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Instagram
🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Website

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 27th, 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Few men have realized the true power of masturbation, and this episode will help you become one of those men. If you DO want to learn the best masturbation techniques possible, and how to masturbate in a way that will blow your mind, improve your sex life AND improve your entire life, this episode is for you.

🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

When most guys masturbate, they just sit still, without breathing deeply, with their hand moving up and down, usually staring at porn on a screen... That's a disembodied recipe for disaster - at least in terms of how that will impact your entire sex life.

And PLEASE realize that the way you masturbate will have a massive impact on the overall quality of your sex life AND entire life.

So... if you want to avoid a mediocre sex life...

You need to first listen to this episode...

And then practice.

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🔱 CONNECT WITH SIMON:
🔸 Simon's Website
🔸 Simon's Instagram

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Words are powerful, and the right words during SEX can massively improve the experience. In this episode you'll hear how YOU can use the power of words during sex to exponentially increase pleasure and connection for all.

We also talk about porn, and whether or not friends should watch each other have sex (instead of watching porn). IF YOU HAVE EVER WATCHED PORN,you should listen to this episode!

*The youtube version of this episode will be released this week.

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🔱 CONNECT WITH RAMBO:
🔸 Rambo's Instagram

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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After 3.5 years of NoFap, without porn, masturbation, sex or ejaculation, a man reached out to me last week after he realized NoFap was hurting him. He had been experiencing what is called the NoFap Flatline for years...

🔶 You can also watch this episode on Youtube here.

Nofap flatline is a term used to describe when a man is feeling low, dull, lackluster, lethargic, bored and unmotivated - INSTEAD of experiencing all of the benefits that are supposed to happen while practicing NoFap.

In this episode you'll hear a couple of my theories about what causes NoFap flatline, and what I suggest instead of NoFap. 


🔱 RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔸 The Complete Semen Retention Guide (How to have a restorative ejaculatory orgasm).
🔸 My First Tantric Orgasm (Podcast Episode)

 🔱  SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Most men limit their sex lives without knowing it... I've done this too... But the good news is that it IS possible to change, and if you change the 5 things mentioned in today's episode, your sex life will improve in massive ways.

 🔱  SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

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Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Andre recently taught a BDSM 101 class in Asheville (where I live), and I wanted to attend but couldn't because I was out of town. Some of my friends went though, and their feedback was great, so bringing Andre on the podcast seemed like the next best thing.

🔸 You can watch this episode on Youtube too.

IN THIS EPISODE:

To read more about the different aspects of BDSM, check out the more in-depth BDSM intro page.

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🔱 CONNECT WITH ANDRE:
🔸 Andre's Website
🔸 Andre's Instagram

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🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

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Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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In this episode you'll hear Juno's personal story of going from monogamy into polyamory.  We talk about the very real struggles of doing this (jealousy and lack of societal support), AND the benefits of this kind of relationship structure too.

This episode is unique because Juno isn't a sex or relationship coach. She's not trying to "sell" you a concept or lifestyle. She just wants to share her authentic experience so others can benefit. THANK YOU Juno! You'll even hear some personal stories from my own life in this episode too.

🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
1:15 - Episode Begins
3:21 - Juno's Polyamorous Lifestyle
7:38 - Why Polyamory?
11:55 - Research on Marriage Statistics
22:27 - "Polyfuckery" PROBLEMS
30:38 - Does Juno Get Jealous? (And how she deals with this)
35:08 - The Impact of Having Sex with Other People
41:12 - Expect Challenge When Opening Your Relationship
44:03 - TIP: Be Careful How You Talk About This
54:26 - Boundaries in Polyamorous Relationships

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RESOURCES:
🔸 The Better Sex Conversation (Guide on how to talk about sex & relationships - including your desires, fears, needs and boundaries).

🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH ME:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma.

You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help heal trauma too. We even talk about circumcision trauma. You can find the topics & times below:

🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
04:25 - Trauma Defined
06:53 - Trauma happens on a spectrum.
09:10 - My Personal Trauma Stories
16:56 - Does Trauma Ever Go Away?
23:58 - How Trauma Affects Men...
30:29 - Healing Trauma While in Relationship
35:01 - Working With Trauma in Sexual Contexts
41:25 - Healing Trauma By Ourselves
47:04 - Why Trauma Exists...
48:44 - Suffering is Inevitable
51:07 - What is Generational Trauma?
52:53 - Circumcision Trauma
57:52 - Resources for Healing Sexual trauma

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CONNECT WITH PAPILLON:
🔸 Papillon's Website
🔸 Papillon's Survivor Stories Podcast


🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH ME:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:
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Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you...

🔸 Watch this episode on Youtube here.
🔸 Watch the FIRST Sex Party episode here.
🎙️ View All Podcast Episodes Here

👇 (Free guides & resources below)

THOUGHTS ON MDMA:
Just to be clear - I'm not saying that everyone should go out and take MDMA to have a therapeutic experience. There are lots of risks to consider. One of the biggest dangers of MDMA is the fact that the vast majority of "MDMA" being sold is cut or laced with another substance. This can be dangerous, and in many cases deadly when laced with fentanyl.

IF you are going to try MDMA in a recreational way, please please please at least get a fentanyl test kit and test whatever you get before you take it. Also remember that I'm not a doctor or health care provider of any kind. This episode is just about me sharing my own personal experience.

Also, MDMA is being used in therapeutic contexts around the country, and there is lots of academic research happening around it right now too. The potential of this substance - when used with intention - is massive.

Personally, I don't like to take any substance to the point where I feel unable to function. I am open to OCCASIONALLY exploring micro amounts of substances in very specific experiences, but drugs & alcohol taken in the stereotypical party context are not interesting to me.


🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH ME:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:
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Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for.

People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a big lesson or takeaway from this episode other than pure fascination and entertainment... which is definitely a worthy reason to listen to a podcast. And... I was actually paid to go! And that makes for a good story. :) 

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This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't...

I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic and sexual relationships  (and even my business, friendship and family relationships too).

Almost all of my close friends have studied with him, and some of my family has too. These tools are invaluable, and I'm excited for you to learn them.

IN THIS EPISODE:

🔱 LEARN WITH STEVE:

*Steve has an older website, but the practices are up to date and invaluable. 

🔱 LEARN WITH TAYLOR:

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I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up.

Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can find links to his work below.

And on the note of pivoting the conversation, if you're part of the organization I named in this episode, please know that I chose not to edit your name out because part of what your organization talks about is bringing light to shadow... and owning the more challenging aspects that require growth. I see you doing the work, and I'm happy about it.

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I just got back from an awesome workshop that changed my perspective on how to practice semen retention as a lifestyle. And in this video I'll first share some important key points about semen retention, and then you'll hear my own personal transformation story from the workshop.

*My personal story begins at 13:12 in this episode.

The workshop I went to was called Embodied Transformation, and it was put on by the Strozzi Institute - out in Petaluma, California, USA. The workshop itself was not sexual in nature at all. Most people there were business executives and/or professional coaches in some capacity. It was specifically geared towards personal transformation through working with somatic awareness and somatic practices.

And yes this relates to sex, because all of our sexual choices impact how we inhabit our bodies, and how we intentionally (or not) inhabit our bodies impacts how we have sex.

You can watch the video for this episodehere on Youtube.

And you can go deeper with the resources below:

🔱 SEMEN RETENTION MASTERY COURSE BEGINS APRIL 16
https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/

🔱 Or take my Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge:
https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge

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Today we're going to hear how semen retention helped Jeremy create a multi-million dollar business, and how this practice helps him get closer to the magic of life too.

We explore:

You'll find links to the upcoming events mentioned in this episode below...

And or a quick overview of the Celtic Wheel of the Year, where these mysteries come from, check out this Wikipedia article. Within the next month I'll have a blog post up specifically about this. For now, the wiki is a good first step!

🔱 JEREMY'S UPCOMING EVENTS:

🔱 CONNECT WITH JEREMY:

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This episode is for ANYONE who wants a successful relationship (monogamous or polyamorous). I've personally hired Kenya as a coach back when I was experiencing growth pains in a non-monogamous relationship. She's an expert in helping with that, AND she also helps anyone in any relationship style too...

Kenya has multiple husbands, and her husbands have multiple partners too. They live together, and they're all staring in a new TV show called "Seeking Brother Husband" that just premiered last night (March 26th, 2023) on TLC.

In this interview you'll learn  the main things that create disconnection in long-term relationship, and the key things needed to keep passion, connection and love alive. 

IN THIS EPISODE:

🔱CONNECT WITH KENYA:

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If you've ever looked into Semen Retention, you've probably come across videos from both Johnathan and I. We both teach semen retention as a lifestyle, we both teach sexual mastery for men, and now we both even live in the same city! (Asheville, NC, USA).

So when we decided to make this episode, we wanted to make something unique for you. Not just another "how-to" guide... But something fresh. Something personal.

And I think you'll really enjoy it.

We explore:

🎙️ THE BACKSTORY:

A few months ago we met up for the first time, and ended up talking about sex & energy for hours. Everything from non-ejaculatory orgasms and qigong, to porn, viagra, prostate orgasms, aliens and everything in between.

During that conversation in a hot tub, while drinking Gynostemma tea and overlooking the Asheville mountains, we decided we wanted to collaborate. Last week recorded a Youtube Live together, and today we have this podcast to share with you!

If you enjoy it, please share it with a friend!

Thank you!

- Taylor


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One of the most important and underrated aspects of sexual mastery is COMMUNICATION. This is something you should focus on IF you want a thriving sex life and relationship.

So in today's episode we're going to explore some very practical and powerful communication skills you can start using TODAY, to create the intimate reality you want.

We're joined by David Chambers, who's an intimacy, communication and relationship coach for men. Multiple people requested that I interview him for this podcast, and I'm very glad I did because the conversation was awesome.

IN THIS EPISODE:

🔱  CONNECT WITH DAVID:

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Do you believe it's possible to keep sexual charge alive in long term relationships? Do you believe that sex gets better with age? Turns out both things are possible, and in this episode with Laurie Handlers, you'll learn some great ways to do this.

Laurie is an international sex educator, retreat leader, and overall badass woman who helps couples create and sustain thriving romantic & sexual relationships over the long term. 

She's in her 70s, and she says her sex life keeps getting better with age... which blows my mind (and I think it should blow yours too). 

In this episode you'll learn some transformational concepts you can applying to your relationship(s) starting today, so you can thrive in the long term too.

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ANNOUNCEMENT: The name of this podcast will change next week. It started off as "Eros Rising," and I do like that name because it's representative of my intentions for this podcast... But the problem is most people have no idea what "Eros Rising" actually means. From a marketing perspective, that's no good.

The new name will be simple and clear, so whenever anyone sees it in the podcast directory, they'll know exactly what the podcast is about. For the name change I decided to upgrade my wardrobe too, and create a new podcast cover with me in a suit jacket & collared shirt.

Why?

Because appearances do matter on some level. I found afascinating article about what makes a good portrait, and decided to try making the "perfect" portrait (according to their metrics). 
 
It also feels like it's time for me to refine things a bit. This year I'm enrolling in two major professional trainings & certification programs, and I want to start embodying layers of that professionalism in a deeper way (while still remaining down to earth and casual). Experimenting with my wardrobe is a fun way to do it.


STARTING NEXT WEEK:
You can expect regular episodes from again. I hired a production team to take care of all the pieces that held me back from creating regular episodes in the past, and I'm very excited to share the next season with you. SIX interviews have already been recorded, and a bunch more episodes are planned.

Please let me know if you have any topic requests for the future!

-Taylor

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Today we're going to talk about sex and money! Specifically, how semen retention helped me make more money in my previous business (before I started teaching about sex and retention).

In this episode you'll hear how I went from:

To creating success in my business, and experiencing financial abundance for the first time in my life. Sexual energy transmutation and semen retention were the foundational practices I used to make this happen. That included Qigong, Yoga, breathwork, meditation, journaling and other practical exercises too.

And the most important thing?

These practices can work for you too!

If you want to experience the benefits for yourself, take my FREE 7-DAY SEMEN RETENTION CHALLENGE. Thousands of men have done this and experienced great results.

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My girlfriend and I have successfully prevented pregnancy using the Fertility Awareness Method and Semen Retention for almost three years now. We're both fertile (just confirmed with my own sperm analysis test), and I do occasionally ejaculate inside her.

🔱  IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:

And check out…

🔱   NAEMA’S CHART EXAMPLES:
In this episode we talked about including some cycle tracking chart examples. At this link you’ll see an actual chart Naema used to confirm her ovulation by tracking her basal body temperature. I’ve overlaid some graphics on top of the chart just to make things crystal clear.

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This is a followup conversation to episode 16, where Banks and I got real about his struggle with premature ejaculation - BEFORE he took my Orgasmic Mastery Course.

Today you'll hear what his life is like now, after taking my course and after being in sex therapy too. If you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation, this episode should give you some hope and inspiration.

It may feel hopeless for you right now, but I promise you it isn't. I used to feel that way too, and so have many millions of other men.

Check out my FREE Ejaculation Control Guide if you want to overcome premature ejaculation and feel free and powerful in bed. It IS possible for you. You just have to put in the effort.

-Taylor

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About 5 years ago, I went to an anal sex party in Asheville. It was a wild experience that broke my brain, left me speechless and opened my eyes to things that I had never seen before.

I think you'll like this story. :D

After listening, check out my new anal sex course that'll give you everything you need to master the art of anal sex (both giving and receiving), including:

If you like this episode, please share it with a friend.

Cheers to your success & pleasure!

-Taylor


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Millions of women want to receive anal sex from a man, but most men make substantial mistakes with anal that result in pain, disconnection and a complete lack of pleasure. There's good news though. With the help of this episode, you can easily learn how to avoid these mistakes so you can have amazing, orgasmic, pain-free and deeply pleasurable anal sex with your lover.

Check out my new anal sex course called Unlocking the Root - IF you want to master the art of anal. It'll give you everything you need to have amazing anal with complete confidence (giving or receiving).

*NOTE: The majority of content in this episode will apply to all bodies, but extra focus has been given to heterosexual anal sex where the woman is penetrated by the man. This is intentional, because there are some extra dynamics going on here that are important to talk about.

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Millions of men struggle with premature ejaculation, but we RARELY talk about the reality of the struggle, and that's a problem. The impact on our lives and relationships can be massive and debilitating...

For example, men who regularly struggle with premature ejaculation might also experience:

IN THIS EPISODE...
I'm joined by my friend Banks, who is currently struggling with premature ejaculation. We decided to have a raw and vulnerable conversation about this specifically for the podcast - because we thought it could be a great service to men and their partners around the world.

It's extremely rare to hear two men talk openly about struggles like this... and you'll hear the vulnerability and tenderness when you listen.

Thank you Banks for doing this. I'm grateful, and I can't fully imagine the potential fear and/or discomfort that might be present when choosing to speak openly and publicly about an active challenge like this. THANK YOU!

OUR FOLLOW-UP INTERVIEW WILL HAPPEN IN 10-12 WEEKS
As an exchange for having these conversations, I've given Banks enrollment in the current round of my Orgasmic Mastery Course. It's a 10-week journey for men to completely overcome premature ejaculation, master their sexual energy and thrive - so they can create the sex lives (and entire lives) that they want.

In 10-12 weeks, after Banks goes through this course, we're going to have an honest follow-up conversation to see how (and if) anything has changed. My belief and hope is that things will massively change for him over these next 10 weeks - IF he does the practices and exercises in the course. It's always up to the man to create the change he wants.

Time will tell... :D

Banksis one if the Co-Founders of the New Moon Brotherhood: a community of men that gather on the new moon to honor the darkest night of the month, and the darkness within. They provide a brave space for men to open their hearts in the spirit of brotherhood, helping  men turn inward to open to their power rather than enforcing power over others.

In our conversation, Banks referenced a TEDx video that talked about the power of self-pleasuring in front of a mirror. The talk was given by Emily Nagoski, and you can check it out here: Confidence and Joy are the Keys to a Great Sex Life. 

IT IS POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME PREMATURE EJACULATION!
Just a quick note of encouragement - it is 100% possible to cure premature ejaculation naturally and have the sex life you want. It just takes consistent effort over time. Reach out if you need help.

-Taylor

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It takes 66 days to form a habit...  and you'll need strong self-discipline and willpower to do it. The problem is most of us are killing our ability to have strong willpower. How? Willpower is a FINITE resource, and if we don't take good care of our physical, emotional and spiritual health, our willpower reserves disappear.

*Your life right now is the result of the thousands of tiny decisions and habits you've made up until this point. Your life 1 year from now will be the direct result of all the habits and decisions you make between now and then. CHOOSE WISELY!

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THIS EPISODE IS THE END OF SEASON 1!
And I want to say thank you to everyone who has tuned in so far. This has been an awesome journey, and to be real, it has taken a lot more time and energy than I thought it would. I've needed to take some time to reflect on the previous episodes - to figure out how I want to move forward.

Happy to say that this podcast will continue, but I'm only going to create new episodes when true inspiration hits. I'm not going to share episodes weekly just for the sake of being on a production schedule. And that being said...

The next episode is pretty wild (at least I bet you've never heard anything like it before).

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THE NEXT EPISODE...
The first episode of season 2 will be VERY unique & raw. It's a vulnerable conversation with a friend of mine who's currently struggling with premature ejaculation (and all the shame, pain and identity issues that come with it).

Most men feel alone with this... but the truth is millions of men are silently struggling. And when we don't talk about it, when we push things down, we're actually hurting ourselves - and hurting our ability to create and have the sex lives we want.

It's incredibly rare to hear two men having a real, down to earth conversation about challenges in the sexual realms...

We decided to record our conversation to shine light on the reality of the struggle, and I think we all need to hear this.  Check out the next episode, and let me know what you think.

Thank you!

-Taylor

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What is semen retention and is it healthy? In today’s episode I’m joined by Jah Sun, founder of the 30-day Tantra Challenge, and we have a really down to earth conversation about semen retention, sex, and men’s sexual health in general.

We talk about the benefits of semen retention, the dangers of semen retention, the power of intentional ejaculation, non-ejaculatory orgasms and prostate pleasure too. For a quick read about semen retention, check out my benefits of not ejaculating for 7 days article after you listen to this episode. The benefits are real, but you won’t get them if you simply stop ejaculating. You have to practice semen retention in an intelligent way, and that’s what Jah Sun and I talk about in today’s episode.

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How do pornstars last so long?  Just how fake is porn? What happens behind the scenes? Join male pornstar Erik Everhard and I in a fascinating discussion about all things porn vs reality.

Erik Everhard is a male porn star turned men’s coach, who has over 20 years of professional experience in the porn industry. He estimates that he has had sex with over 5000 women, which is absolutely mind-blowing to me. He brings a super unique perspective to sex and life that we can all learn something from. How to last longer, how to overcome performance anxiety, and how to get an erection on command are just a few of the topics we go into.

This is my favorite episode of the podcast so far. If you like it too, please share this with a friend! We all need to be having the porn vs reality discussion.

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If you’re curious about Conscious Kink & BDSM, and you want a simple set of tools to help you explore this with your partner, this episode is for you. Kimi Inch is a somatic therapist, professional Kink & BDSM expert, and professional dominatrix, who loves helping people explore and heal their sexuality. I first met Kimi at a Tantra festival last year where she taught a workshop on Conscious Kink. I went, and had my mind blown by some of the exercises we did. Thanks for that Kimi. :)

If you’re someone who wants to explore kinky things with your partner, this episode is for you. You’ll learn some easy conversation tools & techniques to make it easy for you to explore these realms. (And remember, the main thing that makes something kinky is your own subjective feelings around the act itself). One person’s kink is another person’s vanilla. I hope you enjoy! And as always, if you like the episode, please share it with a friend.

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Mushrooms and plants can be our allies to help us thrive in a society that doesn’t support optimal health. The philosophy and magic of Daoist tonic herbalism is here to help - with herbs for better sex, and herbs for a better life in general. 

This conversation is more of a casual hang out and discussion of life and sex, and I want to give you that heads up in case you’re coming here in search of a clearly outlined educational lecture on the topic of herbs for better sex. It’s not that… even though we do hit that topic really well in the last quarter of the episode. :)

Mason Taylor is the founder of Superfeast, an international company (with a branch in the USA) that helps bring high-quality tonic herbs to people around the world. I personally take theJing mixture almost every morning as part of my morning ritual, and you’ll hear me talk about why in the episode. If you visit the Superfeast store, use the code EROSRISING for a discount on everything.

Episode Times & Topics:

Mason Interviews Me on the Superfeast Podcast:

Semen Retention, Premature Ejaculation & Self-LoveMen’s Sexual & Mental Health

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As always, if you like this episode please share it with a friend. Thank you! I hope you have a beautiful rest of your day.

-Taylor

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If you want to understand male pelvic floor health, you’ll get a LOT out of this interview. It’s deeply informative and thought provoking, and I learned a lot during the interview too. Dr. Susie Gronski is a pelvic floor physical therapist who specializes in helping men overcome pelvic pain and other pelvic problems like erectile dysfunction, pelvic tightness, prostate inflammation, premature ejaculation and more. (Episode times & topics below).

So if you’ve ever wondered if you can break your penis, or if you can do too many Kegels, this episode is for you.

We even talked about how emotions get stuck in the pelvic floor, anal pleasure, anal healing and prostate inflammation from the practice of semen retention. Dr. Gronski recommends the use of anal toys for pleasure & healing too, and if you want to explore those I put together a guide of the best anal toys for men. Side note, if you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation and last longer in bed, check out my article & podcast about what causes premature ejaculation. It'll give you a good understanding of why PE happens, and will give you some great techniques to fix it too

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As always, if this episode has been helpful for you, please leave a review and share it with a friend. Thank you!

-Taylor

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This episode is a truly wild personal story that’s still hard to believe it actually happened. I chose sexual abundance over scarcity/anger, and it changed the entire outcome of my night. 

This story really is one of the wildest dating experiences I’ve had. One night in Asheville, I had to decide how I would respond to a stimulus that was potentially very challenging/triggering. Part of my system wanted to get angry, but I took a breath, paused, centered myself, and chose a different option.

The saying “freedom comes in the moment between stimulus and response” refers to the fact that you can always be at choice with how you respond to external stimuli. Instead of reacting with autopilot behavior, you can give yourself freedom by taking a pause after a challenging thing happens. In that pause, you can CHOOSE how to react. Anger might not always be your best option. In this story, I chose something different…

And my choice turned into one of the most surprisingly delightful evenings I’ve had while being a single guy in the dating world. It’s still one of my favorite stories to tell too. I hope it’s thoroughly entertaining for you. :)

As always, if you like this episode, please share it with a friend!

Thank you.

-Taylor

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This is the story of how I had my first amazing threesome. (I had many bad ones before this). In this episode you’ll learn how to have a threesome, how to avoid bad threesomes, how to talk about threesomes, AND you’ll get an awesome technique to actually begin a threesome too.

YOU CAN HAVE AN AMAZING THREESOME TOO!

You might think that because I’m a sex coach, I’ve had the most amazing sex life for many years. A sex life full of all kinds of threesomes, while getting all of my fantasies met. Not true. Remember that people often go into a profession that they desperately needed to improve in themselves. That was me. I used to be a sexual mess. (I’ve done a lot of work since then).

In this episode you’ll hear a mix of personal story with practical action steps you can take if you want to have a threesome too. One of those important steps is communication. You have to talk about it. Use this framework: The Better Sex Conversation. (FYI There are images on that page that are not safe for work. In fact, I don’t recommend looking at any of my content on any work-related device).

If this episode is helpful for you, please share it with a friend!

Thank you.

-Taylor

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:

01:50 Are there bad threesomes?

04:02 Threesomes are a very common fantasy

07:09 Is it toxic for men to want a threesome with two women?

08:55 Threesome VS Play Party (Sex Party)

11:09 How I initiated this threesome

15:25 Should you drink alcohol to take the edge off?

16:30 The helpful conversation framework (how to avoid landmines)

23:50 Why it’s important to have this conversation

26:24 How to begin a threesome (we played rotational dom)

33:57 What’s the first step to having a threesome?

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In this episode we’ll explore how to start, structure and maintain a successful men’s group (even if you’ve never been in one before). I’ve personally been in men’s groups for over 10 years, and they’ve improved literally every area of my life.

In addition to learning how to start a group of your own, you'll also hear personal stories from my experiences in men's groups, and you'll hear from a good friend of mine named Nathan who’s actually in my personal men’s group too. Nathan just started a second men's group, and his story is helpful and inspiring because it shows just how easy it can be to start one.

This episode is a recording of the “How to Start a Men’s Group” workshop I led a month ago over Zoom. The recording turned out so well I decided to turn it into a full podcast episode. There's a lot in this episode, so if you're someone who likes to see things written out in nicely structured ways, check out the guide I created below:

GUIDE: HOW TO START A MEN’S GROUP
To get the structured outline of what we talked about in this episode, you can visit my website here: Guide to Starting a Men's Group

Thank you friend! I hope this episode deeply serves your life.

-Taylor


EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
08:30 Why just having male friends is not enough
11:01 Problematic views of masculinity & men’s groups
18:15 Story: the first time Taylor went to a men’s group
26:00 How to start & structure a men’s group
29:19 The structure of Taylors men’s group
34:58 Taylor welcomes guest: Nathan Morrison
41:49 Nathan seeing a man cry in a men’s group
46:41 How men’s groups can help your romantic relationship
52:51 Without men’s groups, what problems arise?
55:00 The power of physical contact with men
1:01:41 Emotions don’t need to be “fixed”
1:07:28 Q&A


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Have you ever thought someone was hot, and then realized there was zero chemistry between you? In this episode we’ll explore the difference between sexual attraction and energetic attraction, how to notice energetic attraction, and why it’s important to pay attention to it. Energetic attraction can be your “radar” that you can use to improve all areas of your life, including business, family, romantic, etc…

There is a huge difference between sexual attraction and energetic attraction, and it's important to understand this difference. In this personal story episode, you’ll hear about the time I went to a sexual energy dance workshop in Thailand, and how I learned this difference in a first-hand, surprising way. (I was most attracted to a woman who could have been my grandmother, and ended up having a super erotic dance with her. It was a trip… and a HUGE learning experience for me about the difference between energetic attraction and sexual attraction.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
02:37 – Sexual Attraction without Energetic Attraction?
03:10 – Living on Koh Phangan, Thailand
06:07 – The sexual energy dance workshop
11:07 – Noticing where your energetic body goes
12:40 – Energetic attraction & sexy dance with an elderly woman
17:39 – Energetic attraction & dance with another man
21:25 – How to begin exploring energetic attraction
23:55 – How to explore energetic sex with your partner(s).

The workshop I talked about in this episode was led by Lion Galban, and after you listen, I recommend checking out the previous episode where I interviewed Lion about: How to Unlock Your Wild, Primal, Sexual Self

To check out the full episode show notes, click here: Sexual Attraction vs Energetic Attraction

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In this episode, Lion and I explore how to be fully embodied, and why this is THE key to unlocking your wild, primal, sexual self. Unlocking this part of yourself allows you to create the kinds of relationships and sexual experiences you truly desire, in a safe way that builds connection and trust. You can’t just think your way into sexual and relationship success though, and this is where most people get stuck. You have to practice embodying it, and understand what that actually means.

IN THIS EPISODE…

INTRODUCING LION GALBAN

I met Lion Galban in Thailand a few years ago, and was immediately inspired and triggered by him at the same time. The way he moved on the dance floor with multiple women blew my mind, and I realized that I was actually jealous of the freedom he appeared to have. On that dance floor, he was embodied in a way that I’ve RARELY seen in any other man.

Without putting him on a pedestal, I decided I wanted to learn about this aspect of being alive from him… So I went to one of his embodiment/dance workshops back when we were both living in Thailand. It was kind of like a dance-oriented play party. And if you’ve never heard of the term play party before, it usually refers to a kind of gathering where different people can explore being sensual and sexual with each other, within the context of a certain set of agreements to make the space as safe as possible. (If you want me to make a podcast episode about play parties, let me know).

If you look at Lion’s Instagram, you’ll see lots of videos of him moving in wild ways, and you might even see some things that trigger you. It’s worth looking at - pun intended. If you have any questions about today’s episode, please feel free to reach out to Lion and/or myself. We’re both here in service of your life.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS

7:00 – My first impression of Lion (when I got triggered)

13:57 – What does embodiment mean?

26:09 – Energetic attraction vs sexual attraction

30:57 – What does “allow her to feel your heart” mean?

37:40 – How to work with your emotions in an intelligent way

40:49 – Why feeling your feelings can improve your entire life

43:57 – How to honor and be your unique, primal, sexual self

46:30 – How to navigate sexual shame around desires

54:53 – Why learning to have an orgasm without ejaculation can save a relationship

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This episode will give you an in-depth understanding of what causes premature ejaculation, plus how to fix it. We'll explore: 

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3:33: Quick Overview: 13 Causes of Premature Ejaculation
12:48: In-Depth: Evolutionary Advantages of Premature Ejaculation
16:34: 13 Causes of Premature Ejaculation
16:51: 1 - Poor Masturbation Habits
18:52: 2 - Porn and Premature Ejaculation
21:56: 3 - Too Much Focus on Ejaculation
25:36: 4 - Hyperfocus on Sensations in Your Penis
26:19: 5 - Too Many Kegels Can Cause Premature Ejaculation
30:43: 6 - Too Much Tension in Your Body
32:54: 7 - Too Much Stress in Your Life
34:51: 8 - Performance Anxiety
37:44: 9 - You're Not Breathing Deeply Enough
40:54: 10 - You're Thrusting Too Quickly
43:24: 11 - You Need to Develop Mental Resolve
46:32: 12 - You Have a Fear of Deep Intimacy
53:48: 13 - You're In the Wrong Relationship
57:11: Free Ejaculation Control Guide
57:40: The Orgasmic Mastery Course


HOW TO OVERCOME PREMATURE EJACULATION
I’ve helped thousands of men go from only lasting 30 seconds to well over 20 minutes, and you can do it too. Check out my Free Ejaculation Control Guide, or go through a comprehensive journey to completely reprogram and upgrade your sexual response system: The Orgasmic Mastery Course.

For the record, I used to massively struggle with premature ejaculation, to the point where I would even avoid women I was attracted to because I was afraid of one day having sex with them and cumming too soon. (Because that’s what happened). I was that guy - I used to ejaculate in 30 seconds on the regular, and it destroyed my confidence and identity as a man. I get it.

Today, on the other side of this journey, it's my mission to help you. I'm happy to say that it's 100% possible for you to overcome premature ejaculation and have the sex life you want.


WE ALL HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO BE EPIC LOVERS
That means YOU. Underneath the conditioning of society, underneath the impact of porn and masturbation habits, underneath whatever you have experienced that’s holding you back, is the magnificent, epic lover that you are. There's an incredible, mind-expanding, heart-opening and multi-orgasmic world of lovemaking that's available to you. Here's a personal story from my life of what's possible: The First Time I had a Tantric Orgasm


IT'S A JOURNEY - HAVE COMPASSION FOR YOURSELF
If you’ve experienced premature ejaculation, you’re not alone. It can feel frustrating, sad, annoying, confidence-destroying and hopeless... but remember, it is 100% possible for you to overcome premature ejaculation and have the sex life you want! I'm here to help you.


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Grief can be tricky to notice because we don’t talk about it much as a society.... For the most part, we don’t even acknowledge it exists. Grief is different from the sadness you might experience when watching a movie, and you can even have unresolved grief and not know it...

Unresolved grief can impact your romantic and sexual relationships, your family relationships, your work life, and how you feel as you go through your day… which in turn has a subtle impact on every single decision you make. It’s a big deal… And this is part of the reason Josh Fox devotes a substantial amount of his health care practice to helping people work through their grief. 


RESOLVING YOUR GRIEF MAKES LIFE (AND SEX) AMAZING!

How do you resolve your grief? Actually allowing yourself to FEEL emotions can be a good place to begin. This can be tricky though, because almost every message we've gotten from society says to NOT feel your feelings. It’s so important to actually allow your feelings to move, so they don’t get stuck in your body. (Techniques in the episode).

WHAT IS A GRIEF CEREMONY? 

In this episode, Fox describes the grief ceremonies he facilitates as day-long events that start with authentic connection exercises and embodiment practices to get you really present and in your body. Then the grief ceremony moves into a more emotive phase where the process of grieving (actually crying, yelling and screaming) can happen in community. There is an ancestor/grief altar where you can place images of any deceased loved ones, and you’re invited to visit this altar throughout the ritual whenever you feel called.

Grieving in community is an important part of this ceremony, because it normalizes the process of grief, and it provides support for everyone to see and actually feel in their bodies that they are not alone. Grief is a shared experience with all other humans, and on the other side of grieving is great release and the potential for more joy and pleasure than you’ve possibly imagined.

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IN THIS EPISODE…

WHAT IS A TANTRIC ORGASM?
There is no universally agreed-upon meaning for this term, but in the context of this story, I’m referring to a certain kind of orgasm where orgasmic pleasure is felt throughout the entire body (not just localized in the penis and genitals), and this orgasm can be experienced for many minutes at a time - without any ejaculation of semen or refractory period. Tantric Orgasms are non-ejaculatory orgasms, but non-ejaculatory orgasms are not necessarily “Tantric.”

What’s the difference then?  “Tantric” in this context refers to what is happening in your internal state, feelings of connection (with self, lover and all), and awareness (of self, lover and all) while you are experiencing this orgasm. In contrast to just experiencing non-ejaculatory orgasmic pleasure in your entire body, a “Tantric” orgasm occurs when the extended non-ejaculatory orgasm is accompanied with experiences of altered/heightened states of consciousness where you might feel more expansive and connected to things than you normally would.

It can actually feel psychedelic, and in this episode I talk about how this experience actually did become psychedelic for me (and for context, my partner and I were totally sober). I went to the bathroom to pee after making love for a long time and experiencing an extended non-ejaculatory orgasm, and when I got into the bathroom, the walls moved and sparked as if I was on psychedelics!

HOW TO HAVE A TANTRIC ORGASM
In this episode I’ll share some surprising tips and insights that will help you get there. Think about this for contrast: the ejaculatory orgasms we’re familiar with are relatively simple to force, but extended, full body non-ejaculatory orgasms can’t be forced. You can’t “stroke harder” to get there. It’s an allowing process… It’s an unfolding process… like ocean waves of orgasmic pleasure rolling and crashing through your body, over and over and over again.

NON-EJACULATORY ORGASM TRAINING
If you want to experience this kind of sex - having sex for hours and getting into the incredible realms of non-ejaculatory orgasmic bliss, check out my Orgasmic Mastery Course. It’s an in-depth training that will guide you through a clearly outlined, step-by-step journey to help you experience this kind of sexual magic and upgrade your intimate life forever. 

If you’d like to start with simply overcoming premature ejaculation, check out my free ejaculation control guide. It’ll start you off in a good direction. One of the next podcast episodes will help you in this department too - it’ll be about 13 common causes of premature ejaculation. Stay tuned!

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This podcast will explore everything from non-ejaculatory orgasms and semen retention to threesomes, anal sex, breath work, energetic sex, play parties, sexual energy transmutation and more. You can sign up here to be notified when new episodes come out. 

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THERE WILL BE THREE KINDS OF EPISODES:

Interviewswith guest sex experts from around the world"How-To" Episodeslike "What Causes Premature Ejaculation" and "Intro to Semen Retention"Personal Storiesfrom my journey exploring sex around the world, like the time I went to an anal sex party in Asheville, to the time I had my first Tantric orgasm, and then the time I had my first amazing threesome.

You can search through these episodes by category on my podcast website.

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WHAT IS "EROS RISING"?

Eros- refers to sexual attraction, sexual desire, sexual love, etc. Eros is also the name of the ancient Greek god of Love, who is the son of Aphrodite.

Rising -literally means rising, to raise up, and figuratively it means to improve and make better.

Eros Rising:

Raising sex (and shame, anxieties and negative beliefs around sex) up from under the rug that society has swept it under, into the world of awareness, integrity and shame-free pleasure.The process men need to go through in order to experience non-ejaculatory orgasms and full-body pleasure. We need to literally raise our sexual pleasure up from our genitals into the rest of our body - into our bellies, hearts, and the entire rest of our bodies. 

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THE FIRST SEASON WILL BE 12 EPISODES
They're already planned out, and they're going to be awesome. When the first 12 episodes are complete, I (Taylor) will evaluate how things have gone, and consider what direction to go in for the future of this podcast.

If you like this podcast and want it to continue,please leave a thoughtful review wherever you're listening. It really helps, and it'll let me know you care.

Thank you friend!

-Taylor


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Song: "Pink Dolphins" (Numatic Remix)
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Remixed by: Numatic

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