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Mr and Mrs Therapy | Trauma, PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, EMDR, Marriage, Mental Health

Mr and Mrs Therapy | Trauma, PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, EMDR, Marriage, Mental Health

Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown and Mel Robbins

***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/

172 - Ep 172 - Habit Mastery: 4 Tips to Creating New Habits and Healthy Behaviors
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  • 172 - Ep 172 - Habit Mastery: 4 Tips to Creating New Habits and Healthy Behaviors

    Episode Description: In this transformative episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the science and strategy of building lasting habits that can significantly enhance your personal and professional life. We break down the process into four actionable steps, providing a blueprint for anyone looking to develop new, positive routines. Whether you're striving to be more active, wanting to manage your time better, or looking to adopt a healthier lifestyle, this episode is your guide to making those aspirations a reality. What We Cover: Setting Clear and Specific Goals: Learn how to define your habits with precision, moving from vague intentions like "get healthier" to specific actions such as "walk 30 minutes every day." We discuss the importance of breaking down these goals into small, achievable steps that fit seamlessly into your daily life. Creating a Conducive Environment: Explore practical tips for removing barriers to success and setting up environmental cues that support your new habits. From laying out your jogging clothes the night before to using technology for reminders, we show you how to make your environment work in favor of your goals. Using the Power of Repetition: Understand why consistency is the cornerstone of habit formation. We discuss strategies for maintaining regularity in your actions and how tracking your progress can motivate and guide you along the way. Reinforcing Habits with Rewards: Discover how immediate rewards can boost your motivation and how social support plays a critical role in sustaining your efforts. We share ideas for rewarding yourself in meaningful ways that reinforce your commitment and celebrate your progress. Join us on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" as we unpack these foundational elements with expert advice, psychological insights, and real-life examples. This episode not only teaches you how to build new habits but also helps you understand the underlying mechanisms that make these habits stick. Tune in to start your journey towards a more disciplined and fulfilling life, one habit at a time.   Join us on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for a practical and empowering discussion on how to overcome these common barriers. By understanding and addressing these hurdles, you can turn intentions into actions and make lasting positive changes in your life. Tune in for expert advice, real-life examples, and actionable tips to help you navigate the path to personal growth and well-being. 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Thu, 16 May 2024 - 18min
  • 171 - Ep 171 - Overcoming Barriers: Mastering the Art of Positive Change

    Episode Description: Welcome to another insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." Today, we tackle the common barriers that prevent us from starting and maintaining beneficial behaviors. While we often know what’s good for us, implementing these positive changes can be surprisingly challenging. We’ll explore the psychological and practical hurdles of delayed rewards, the initial effort and energy required, the fear of failure, and the ambiguity of results. In This Episode, You Will Learn: Delayed Rewards: Understand why beneficial behaviors, which often lack immediate tangible outcomes, can be less appealing. Learn how to set short-term goals that lead to small, quick rewards, and discover the power of celebrating these small victories to maintain motivation and build momentum. Effort and Energy: Recognize the high initial investment in starting new, beneficial routines, which can often seem daunting. We provide practical solutions to start small with manageable changes, ensuring consistency without overwhelming yourself. Discover how to gradually increase the intensity or duration of the activity to make the process more sustainable. Fear of Failure: Explore how anxiety over potential negative outcomes can paralyze action and discourage you from starting. Learn to focus on process-based goals instead of outcome-based goals, emphasizing personal growth and learning that are within your control rather than external results. This shift in perspective can significantly reduce the fear of failure. Ambiguity in Results: Address the challenge of uncertain outcomes, especially with activities like meditation or dietary changes that may have slow or hard-to-measure results. We offer strategies to educate yourself on typical timelines and benefits, and the importance of tracking progress in a journal or app to visualize even small improvements. Join us on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for a practical and empowering discussion on how to overcome these common barriers. By understanding and addressing these hurdles, you can turn intentions into actions and make lasting positive changes in your life. Tune in for expert advice, real-life examples, and actionable tips to help you navigate the path to personal growth and well-being. 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Mon, 13 May 2024 - 21min
  • 170 - Ep 170 - Breaking Free: Overcoming Habitual Behaviors and Their Hold

    Welcome to a compelling episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we delve into the psychological complexities behind why certain behaviors are so hard to break, and how we can effectively overcome them. In today’s discussion, we uncover the four key factors that often anchor us to unwanted habits: habituation, instant gratification, fear of withdrawal, and the lack of alternative coping strategies. Habituation: We explore how repeated behaviors become automatic responses, deeply ingrained in our neural pathways. Discover how these habits are triggered by specific cues or environments and why this makes them particularly challenging to change. Instant Gratification: Delve into the allure of immediate rewards that unwanted behaviors provide, such as pleasure, relief, or a temporary escape from stress. We discuss why these short-term gains are so compelling, even when they lead to negative long-term consequences. Fear of Withdrawal/Discomfort: Understand the daunting aspect of physical and psychological withdrawal symptoms that can follow the cessation of a behavior, especially addictive ones like smoking or excessive caffeine consumption. We'll discuss the nature of these symptoms and strategies to manage them. Lack of Alternative Coping Strategies: Learn why replacing a harmful habit with a healthier one is not merely about stopping an old behavior but about addressing the underlying needs it served. We'll provide insights into developing new, more adaptive coping mechanisms to handle stress, anxiety, or other triggers. This episode is not just an exploration of challenges but a guide filled with practical advice, expert insights, and supportive strategies to help you break free from the cycle of harmful habits. Whether you’re struggling to quit smoking, curb excessive screen time, or any other ingrained behavior, "Breaking Free" offers the tools you need to start a new chapter. Tune in to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" as we equip you with the knowledge to understand these complex dynamics and the empowerment to overcome them. This is your step towards liberation from habits that no longer serve you, paving the way for healthier, more fulfilling behaviors. 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] Related Episodes: Ep. 6 - Do I have Trauma? Introducing the Basics of Trauma Ep. 7 - (Pt. 1) What is EMDR? Can It Really Heal My Trauma and Improve My Relationships? Ep. 8 - (Pt. 2) What is EMDR? Can It Really Heal My Trauma and Improve My Relationships? Ep. 9 - (Pt. 3) - What is EMDR? Can It Really Heal My Trauma and Improve My Relationships?

    Thu, 09 May 2024 - 21min
  • 169 - Ep 169 - Sweeping Styles: Diverse Approaches to Cleaning - Part 2

    Welcome back to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for Part 2 of our deep dive into the varied world of cleaning styles. In this episode, we explore three more unique approaches to cleaning: Routine Cleaners, Spot Cleaners, and Social Cleaners. Each style comes with its own set of benefits and challenges, influencing not only the cleanliness of our spaces but also our personal habits and interactions with others. Explore with us: Routine Cleaners: Discover the structured world of Routine Cleaners who adhere to a strict cleaning schedule. We'll discuss how this method provides a sense of control and predictability, and delve into the potential downsides, such as the monotony that may set in or the neglect of areas not included in the routine. Learn tips on how to keep the routine flexible and engaging. Spot Cleaners: Next, we look at Spot Cleaners, who tackle messes as they notice them. This segment will cover the benefits of their flexible, on-the-spot approach and how it allows for immediate problem-solving. However, we'll also consider the drawbacks, such as the potential for inconsistency in cleanliness and the accumulation of unnoticed clutter. Gain insights on how to integrate more comprehensive cleaning strategies without sacrificing flexibility. Social Cleaners: Finally, we celebrate Social Cleaners, for whom cleaning is a communal, social event. This section highlights how cleaning together can strengthen relationships and transform chores into enjoyable activities. We'll address the challenges of coordinating group cleaning efforts and maintaining consistency, and provide strategies for successful collaborative cleaning events. This episode is not just about keeping your living space tidy; it's about finding a cleaning style that fits your lifestyle and enhances your environment. Whether you're looking to overhaul your cleaning routine or incorporate new techniques, "Sweeping Styles: Diverse Approaches to Cleaning - Part 2" offers valuable insights and practical advice for everyone. Join us on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" as we conclude our exploration of cleaning styles, providing you with the knowledge to choose or blend methods that best suit your needs, while also considering the dynamics of household harmony and personal well-being. Tune in and transform your approach to cleaning into one that truly cleanses! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Mon, 06 May 2024 - 16min
  • 168 - Ep 168 - Sweeping Differences: Exploring the Spectrum of Cleaning Styles - Part 1

    Welcome to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where today we're diving into the fascinating world of cleaning styles in the first installment of our two-part series. Cleaning is a universal task, yet how we approach it can vary widely, influenced by personality, culture, upbringing, and personal preferences. In this episode, we explore three distinct cleaning styles: Meticulous Cleaners, Speed Cleaners, and Minimalist Cleaners. Join us as we break down each style: Meticulous Cleaners: Discover the world of those who leave no corner untouched and no surface unpolished. We delve into the characteristics of cleaners who maintain high standards and the routines they follow to keep their spaces immaculate. We'll also discuss the psychological impact of this style, including how it can lead to perfectionism and the stress of maintaining such high standards. Speed Cleaners: Learn about the fast and efficient methods employed by those who prioritize speed over depth. We examine their strategies for maximizing efficiency, the types of products they prefer, and the potential pitfalls of this approach, such as missing less obvious dirt and clutter. Minimalist Cleaners: Enter the minimalist mindset, where less is more, and simplicity reigns. We explore how minimalists manage to maintain clean spaces with fewer possessions and a relaxed approach, and the challenges they may face when their environment accumulates clutter. This episode isn't just about how we clean but why we clean the way we do and what it says about us. Whether you're looking to refine your own cleaning habits or understand the diverse approaches others may take, tune in to gain insights into the psychological and practical aspects of cleaning styles. Stay tuned for Part 2, where we'll explore more unique cleaning personalities and how these preferences impact relationships and daily life. Join "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for a discussion that's sure to leave you contemplating your broom and dustpan in a whole new light. 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Thu, 02 May 2024 - 17min
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