Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Throwing back to an episode with dating coach Dan Bacon who's going to share with us the formula for ULTIMATE success with women and it's something EVERY guy can do. He'll also be sharing the top 3 secrets he's learned about women that even Marni didn't know about.

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In this week's episode, we have author of the great book 'Money Grows on Trees' Jerremy Alexander Newsome on to talk about how your views and relationship with money is a direction reflection of your relationship with and views of women. In this episode, learn how to have and get MORE of BOTH.

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This week, we're going to give you so many great tips from female dating coach Jonathon Aslay on how to get comfortable being intimate and just as importantly, get her to talk dirty ;) We also have Playboy Bunny Maya Jordan with us who gets in on all the conversation action to give her advice as a hot, desired woman.

In today’s world, masculinity has been been criticized and even shamed. But, we need masculinity more than ever. So, this week, we have Keith Yackey and Jesse Marquez from the Married Game on to discuss how to be a man and maintain your masculine energy from the early phases of dating all the way into years and years of marriage.

Blaine is one of the best dating coaches out there and she's here to talk about how to approach women, and the BEST places to approach. She's also going to give us her tips on how to keep the conversation going after you've made the approach and so much more.

This week, we get into PE (premature ejaculation). We talk about WHY it happens, MYTHS about it and HOW to FIX it. We also cover how to express yourself to women and how to be your natural authentic self when dating.

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Life is unpredictable and so is dating, so in this throw back episode we break down what scenarios you may come across and how to deal with them on the fly so you'll be smooth no matter what.

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Approaching women is only hard if you make it hard. And, in this week's throwback episode, Marni along with comedian Dan Cummins of Playboy Radio share the number 1 way to approach women and it's a lot easier than you think.

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First dates are make or break moments. Sometimes we think they went well only to never hear from her again. This can get frustrating when it happens time and time again. On this week's episode, we have on comedian Amir K, who is smooth with the ladies, to talk to us about how he kills it at first dates so you can get to the 2nd, 3rd 4th date and beyond.

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This week we have Zach and Sally from Max-Well Coaching on to give us the nitty gritty on how to go from pleasure with one person to two. The good news, it's not as intimidating as you think!

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There are more than 5.4 million adults in the U.S. on the Autism Spectrum. That's a lot of people dating in a world that may not be the easiest to navigate. So, this week we have Thomas McCoy on, someone who has spent his life with Autism and figured out how to date successfully without his diagnosis getting in the way. The insights he shares on this episode are helpful for not only those on the Spectrum, but those off the Spectrum as well.

If you'd like help from Thomas, get in touch with him at Thomas-McCoy.com

Some men are resistant to upping their style game to attract a woman. But, we promise, you're shooting yourself in the foot by not just giving in and trying something new - sharp clothing! This episode, we have Marni's Winggirl stylist, Carol on to discuss not just why it's important to wear clothes that make you feel and look your best but WHAT clothes will help you look and feel your best.

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Do women actually enjoy rejecting you? Do they want to make you feel bad? Why does it feel like some women can be "bitches" to you and how do you make it stop? We discuss this with guest Christine Blackburn as well as do women prefer texting or talking.

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This week we have dating Dale Valor from Modern Flirting on with us to talk all about assertiveness, something many people are afraid to be with the opposite sex. We also talk about setting boundaries and how to both of those things with tact so your intentions are well received.

The phrase "toxic relationship" is all abuzz right now. And, it's for good reason. It seems like social media has shined a light on relationships like this and how to end them and recover from them. "Codependency" is also a hot topic because people seem to be getting more in touch with their attachment styles thanks to all the dating help available online. So, this week, we have Sherry Gaba, a holistic psychotherapist and Carla Romo, a relationship coach and author are here to talk about how to avoid these types of relationships as well as how to tell if you're the toxic or codependent one (eek, sorry!) and how to begin to change your behavior so you can form long lasting, healthy relationships.

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Have you ever wondered what it's like dating women from another country? Should you worry about different cultural norms, languages barriers, if they have different romantic preferences? Eve Lyons, wife of dating expert Adam Lyons and also Russian, is here to talk about that and more.

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In this week's throwback episode, we have listener Kurt on who did TONS of research into women and dating and on his journey, he discovered the 7 THINGS he wish he knew sooner and he's here to share them with us.

Who are you? What is your purpose? How do you find your purpose? If you don't know your purpose, dating will be harder because you won't have that to guide you. So, this week, we have Jade Simmons on to talk about how to find your purpose and how to use it to make you shine.

Max Tripp Kramer, dating coach is back to talk about how to talk to women. We talk about everything from the best methods to start a conversation online to how to keep her interested as you go. If you're looking for an episode that dives deep into the best, most successful ways to chat a woman up, this episode is for you.

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This week, we're joined by the founder of the dating app Marshmallo, Andrew Hendel, who created the safest online dating platform. He's here to tell us how to stay safe while dating online, how to spot scammers and what to do if you get taken advantage by one.

This week we're throwing back to when we did our 'Help A Brother Out' episodes where we help a listener with a specific roadblock they're coming up against. This time around, we have Justin on who has a hard time asking for what he wants. Join us as Marni coaches him into a more confident mindset so he can start stating his needs, wants and desires.

In this week's Thanksgiving-break throwback episode, we have Mighty Ducks and Heavyweights actor Aaron Schwartz on to help us talk about how to date when also dealing with depression. It's that time of year where most of us lose an hour of daylight and we get down on our Vitamin D, so no better time to talk about how to juggle your mental health and dating than now.

Certified health coach and 15 year NBA scout Jared Ralsky joins the show this week to talk about how to get your body back to a place that supports a better dating life. We also talk about how difficult dating can be and what we can do to make it not so difficult so you can enjoy your experience while looking for your partner.

This week we have sex coach for men, Sterling Cooper on to tell us what you're doing wrong, what to do that's right and how to do it better in the bedroom. We also talk about how to position yourself as a sexual man, not just a friend.

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Your profile pictures are CRUCIAL to beating out your competition on dating apps and this episode is bursting at the seams with advice on what photos are best. The very talented profile picture photographer Joe Buchoff joined us a while back to give us pointers on how to get the look that will optimize your profile. Now he's back to tell us even more and give us the pro-tips you need in order to stand out and look your best. Kristen has a fewww things to say about this make-or-break subject, as well.

This week we dive deep with Dr. Reina Malik into the science behind the penis. We talk about how your penis actually works, what nerve endings are stimulated the most and dispelling some commonly held myths. We also talk lady parts - what parts of the vagina you should try to touch and how to stimulate her.

This week, joining us is Hunter Ceroy. Hunter is a sales coach that has sold multiple businesses all due to his master skill of persuasion. Now he helps entrepreneurs across the nation learn sales and master persuasion. Use these skills to master the art of persuasion and the art of “selling yourself” to the opposite sex.

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Zach Maxwell from Max-Well Coaching.com is passionate about keeping, or making your relationship... passionate. And, a lot of that starts in the bedroom. This week we talk about how to keep sex exciting or how to make it exciting. Whether you're looking to enhance things with your partner or MORE THAN ONE partner, we're talking about it on this week's episode.

Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist and we're bringing this episode back to highlight the most important step of dating... first impressions and flirting!

We cover a WIDE range of so many relevant topics like how to create a great first impression, the art of flirting, how to build sexual tension and how to know when to move things forward both online and in-person.

This is the tip of the iceberg and Kimmy has a co-ed dating retreat program called Dating REimagined with women coming up soon that begins online and culminates into a LIVE retreat.

If interested, go to askkimmy.com to inquire more or to https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ for more details.

This week we're asking women (and a man) about whether or not you should lower your standards when dating. But more importantly, we're talking about how to be GREAT on a first date so you won't have to lower your standards at all!

Robbie Kramer, host of The Inner Confidence Podcast is here to tell us why social media, no matter what your age will help you up your dating game. He'll also tell us HOW to use it and make it something that you can to attract women and even how to get them not to ghost.

This week, Alex Grendi is a certified Men’s Sex Coach and he's here to help you become better in the bedroom so you can make things great for her but for YOU too. If you'd like to learn more go to: https://go.superiorlovers.com/lp1?el=MarniAWP

In this episode, we have Matt Ritter and Aaron Karo, the host of Man of the Year podcast, are here to talk about why friends enhance not only your life but your dating life. They'll tell us how to make friends at no matter what age to help attract women into your lives.

Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend-zone. We've all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. It feels like it's impossible to get out of. But, don't fret. In this throwback episode, we will how to escape it and escape it for good.

In this week's throwback episode, we talk about the differences between men and women. And, although many of them may be obvious, we give you the tools to handle these differences so you and the women in your life can get on the same page. It's not that she's crazy, it's that you don't understand how to handle her emotions. But, you will after listening to this episode!

We'll be back with new episodes very soon, but until then, please enjoy this episode where we discuss the habits of people who light up a room and hold the attention of others. We also talk about why women are so attracted to "alpha" energy and how to bring that energy out in yourself.

You've been chatting with her. You've been building up a good rapport. She seems to be responding to you in a positive way. That's all GREAT. But, that means, the next step is to... dun dun dun... ASK HER OUT. In this throwback episode we give you all the tips and tricks you need to get the courage up to ask her out and ask her out in a way she can't say no.

Short guys MAY think they have it harder in the dating pool. In some ways they do. But in MANY ways they don't. In this throwback episode, we go in-depth about why and HOW short guys get the girl.

Sometimes it's hard to see things clearly when our emotions are involved. So, this week during our summer hiatus, we're running an episode that will help you decipher when you're in the friend-zone and how to get the heck out of it, ASAP.

Dating can be challenging, especially when you're freshly out of a divorce and trying to navigate this unfamiliar territory. In this week's episode, we give you all the tools you need to get back out there confidently as the new (and improved) you.

Have you ever been scared to become more sexual with a woman? 

On today’s podcast we talk with Hannah Spanke, Clinical Sexologist and relationship coach discusses sexual pleasure from the female POV…AND how to heal her body and yours from past trauma! 
This episode is Jam packed (we talk fast, ha) and will give you tons of insights into sex, sexuality and women.  

Prepare to gain new perspective you’ve never heard before, powerful tools AND a new sense of empowerment. 
Guest: Hannah Spanke

Robert Grover and Gary Logan are here to tell us all about microdosing and all the benefits it will provide include changing your percpetion about yourself and the way you see the world to refresh your mental health and in-turn, your dating life.

This week's guest, Alexa Eden, supports human evolution alongside AI. She's here to keep us up to speed on the future of dating with AI and to help us get to know ourselves better so we can date as a "whole" person - she'll help us discover what our values are, learn to have a strong sense of self, discover what you want out of life and the kind of partner you're looking for. Those things have to be in place so you can date from a place with solid ground.

Feeling inadequate in the bedroom can KILL the vibe and make a woman lose interest. So, on this week's throwback episode, we have author of "Sex Outside the Lines", host of Loveline and doctor of Clinical Sexology, Dr. Chris Donaghue and comedian Jerry Rocha on to gives us all the tips and tricks to make you confident in the bedroom so you can keep her coming back for more.

It can be challenging to date at any age. But, certain ages can make things extra challenging. In this episode, Cam and Karen Lee, a mother and son, from the podcast Sex Talk With My Mom are on the show to talk about how to date women of all ages and all the wonderful benefits to dating “older” women. 

This week, Nick Soulias, fitness specialist and the creator of the Insulin Resistance Blueprint is here to talk all about testosterone levels and how it may be effecting you, your love life and all aspects of your health. He tells us exactly how to get them to where they should be and how his work has helped so many men get their bodies and emotions back on track.

Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist and she's back on the show to cover a WIDE range of so many relevant topics like how to create a great first impression, the art of flirting, how to build sexual tension and how to know when to move things forward both online and in-person.

This week's episode is all about pursuing - in this throwback episode, we're going to talk about how to do it, when to push harder, when to slow down, when to take a hint and when and how to get back in the game.

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Why do women flake, how do you spot it before it happens and how can you make it happen less often? Dominey Drew, a soul-based advisor to high performers joins the show this week to talk about just that. She also gets into authenticity and why it's such a turn on for women.

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Dr. Bradley Nelson, author of The Emotion Code and now, The Body Code, is here to talk about healing your body and how healing it will heal other aspects of your life. Past pain can be effecting your life in ways you're not aware of. Becoming aware of what's going on in your body so you can be in control of what's going on in your life is a crucial part of dating successfully.

We all have different perception styles which determine how we interact with the world and see ourselves. Lynda Ross-Vega, author of Unlock the Power of Your Perception is here to discuss the 6 different styles of perception and how we can use them to enhance our lives and more specifically, our dating lives.

Jeff, a specialist-of-sorts in storytelling, is here to teach us how to be a captivating storyteller and how to invoke feelings from women when taking them on a journey of words. 

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Psychologist Dr. Orion Taraban from PsychHacks is here to take a deep dive into rejecting women and how to build the skillset to do it properly so you can grow from and optimize the experience.

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Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, tells us how he helps men understand how to spot the women who are interested in them.

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Jealousy can be a relationship/dating killer BUT it can also catapult chemistry to the next level if used the right way. In this throwback episode, Master P and beautiful Sarah from Equinox Gym are here to discuss jealousy - how to handle it, whats appropriate and not appropriate and the female perspective on it.

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Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share with us the keys to being masculine. But, once you've established yourself as masculine, you have to keep it up in your relationship. She's here to talk to us about how to keep it a through-line in your life and in your relationships.  

Women's #1 requested trait in a man is a SENSE OF HUMOR. So, this week, we are joined by comedian Brendan Fitzgibbons to give us all the tips and tricks you need to make her laugh. You'll learn not only how to make her laugh, but how to find your own version of "funny".

Darius, a professional in the sciences, is here to talk about why there is a rise of sexless men. He also is here to help us break down the differences between the male and female brain so you can understand the opposite sex and use that knowledge to enhance your sex and dating life.  

Matchmaking - to do or not to do? This week, founder and president of matchmaking service The Three Day Rule, Talia Goldstein, gives us more than just a glimpse behind the curtain of how match making works, what to expect when working with a matchmaker and if you should be using one. We also explore how how to ask your date for feedback and so much more.  

Balancing your professional success with building a happy and fulfilling relationship is a real struggle. You deserve to have professional success and love at the same time.

The good news is that you can have them both, and author Glenn Sandifer, author of The Middle Ground, is here to tell us how. 

In this throwback episode, dating expert and a king at being bold, Adam Gilad talks about what being bold in dating means and how to be bold. We also talk about why it’s so attractive and effective to the opposite sex.

In this week's throwback episode, we have Tinder Expert Michael Buthby on the show to tell us the ins and outs of online dating.

IF you are not using an online app or site for dating you are seriously missing out on countless options of amazing women. AND if you are not using these apps correctly, meaning have a kick ass profile, you are digging yourself into an even deeper hole.

On this weeks episode we discuss;

1. How to set up a great profile that makes you look good

2. How to talk to women online

3. How to get offline and into real life

AND so much more!

In this week's throwback episode, we have Jordan Harbinger on. Jordan talks about enhancing your lifestyle, charm and how to be so darn appealing to women (and everyone, really). We also have Liz Rave from The Art of Flirting who gives us the how to's on how to flirt and be playful. 

The amazing Cristy Taylor joins us to discuss dating in your later years.  She tells what women 55 and up are looking for from men, how to handle the first date, how to eliminate first date jitters AND how to save a situation where a bad first impression was made. 

This week, we're taking another listen to an episode with Relationship Palmist and Heart Harmonizer Cynthia Clark that talks all about hands. How to use them, how to her to use hers but also how you can tell if you or a woman is blocked from receiving love, intimacy and affection through a peek at your or her hands. And, if you're blocked or she's blocked, how you get through those blocks to connect on a deep romantic level. 

In this steamy throwback episode, Dr. Susan Cambell, author of "Everything Great Sex Book" talks to us about all this sex. How to talk about it, how to do it well, how to get her into things you'd like to try, kink and so much more. 

Whether it's anxiety around women, low self-esteem, bad past experiences, all of these things can have a tremendous impact on your dating life. And, until you address those issues, you may stay stuck in a cycle of dating failures. On this week's episode, Marni's friend Meaghan Bose, a past nurse now working outside of Western medicine, is here to talk about how to transform the way you see the world and your life through Bio-Tuning, which is a technique to heal and bring forth one’s abilities and capabilities to get your heart, mind and spirit in the right place for a fulfilling dating life. 

This week we have on Rob Roseman, the founder of WTFDivorce.com, a resource for those finding their way after breaking the knot. We talk about when you're ready to start dating, HOW to start dating, building up your confidence after exiting a marriage, how and when to talk about your marriage with a potential partner, clubs that are great to join so you don't feel like you're in this alone and so many more things that will help you find your footing in this new single world, FULL of opportunities. 

In this week's episode, we talk to Daniel Kilburn, disaster management planner. His expertise in this area can help significantly in relationships and dating. He talks to us about how to be a congruent communicator, how to be an effective leader and having vulnerability as a man.

*Please note, this episode was taped several weeks before Hurricane Ian. Our thoughts and prayers go out to those effected by this disaster. To donate, please go to https://www.redcross.org/donate/hurricane-ian-donations.html/

Shane, the founder of JoyMode, a sexual performance enhancer supplement is here to talk about your the benefits your "member" will experience by adding Joymode into your repertoire. We also talk about why supplements over pills may be a better option for you, especially if you're younger. 

Everyone thinks of jealousy as a bad thing. But, this week, we have return guest Mali Apple, co-author of The Soulmate Experience on to talk about how jealousy can be used to turn up the heat in your relationship and bring out more passion. We also discuss all the other ways jealousy can be used to help you in your dating life - whether single, dating or in the friend-zone. 

This week, we talk about how to select a partner that is going to be right for you in the long run, which often includes seeking out similar values and knowing what yours are first. We also talk with our guest Jen, a school psychologist, about how using the psychology of children can be helpful when communicating with your partner - because deep down, we're all still just kids. 

Founder of The School of Attraction and The Dangerous Man, Damien Diecke is on this week to talk about why the hottest woman in the room isn't always the one you want to talk to and how in turn, that could make you more intriguing to her, even though that's not the goal. That would just be an added benefit.. We also talk about having confidence WITH integrity and what to do when you've been working on yourself and you're just not seeing the results you're looking for. 

This week's episode is jam-packed with GREAT information on how to stop chasing women and start choosing them instead. Our guest, Dating Coach Elsa Moreck is going to give you all you need to know to flip from the seeker to the sought. She's also going to talk to us about getting rid of that "nice guy label" and pick up the "bad boy" label instead. 

Are you full of inhibitions in the bedroom? Well, stop. Let yourself be free to express what you want. Caitlyn V is here to tell us to open up to your partner so you can get everything you want out of love making. But, she's also going to tell us how to make your partner just as comfortable to open up as you so you BOTH can have a mind blowing experience. 

In this throwback episode, we talk all about how to set boundaries with women. As a nice or caring guy, this may be something that you struggle doing. That's why Karen Brody is going to tell us how to not to get walked over, yet still be an inviting guy that women want to be around. 

In this classic episode, the successful lifestyle guru, Alpha M is on to share with us how he got where he is today, how he met his wife, how being bold lead him to her and so much more. 

This week, we have Amber Sweetheart on who is not only known for her amazing body, but also for her sexting abilities. She's going to tell us all the do's and don'ts and how to's on escalating in text. 

This week, Kristen and guest and Dating App Photographer Joe Buchoff go DEEP on what makes great dating profile photos. They talk about facial expressions, angles, clothing, how to try hard WITHOUT looking like you're trying hard, how to get these photos, using photos to filter out the wrong women and so much more. Even if you're not the most handsome guy on the planet, the right photos of you WILL get you matches, and more importantly, the matches you're looking for. 

This week's episode is PACKED with data and information about why things are or aren't going great in the bedroom and how to fix it when it isn't. Melanie B Curtin, a Sex and Relationship coach shares tons of the facts she's gathered over the years of what doesn't please a woman and what does. She teaches us how to make sex great for her and how to talk about it so a woman feels comfortable communicating with you about what she wants and doesn't want. 

Head of marketing at OK Cupid, Melissa Hobley, is here to give us the inside scoop on all the "techy" things you need to know about dating apps so you can get the MOST out of them. She talks algorithms, how to get seen by more women, tricks to do with your photos and bio to get more exposure and so many more things that will help you get to the proverbial front of the line, online.  

The hosts of the podcast "This is Dating", Jessie Baker and Hiwote Getaneh join the show to talk about their fascinating podcast that follows 4 DATERS through all the swiping, the dinners, the disappointments, the techniques, the kisses and the misses and everything in between to find the loves of their lives. They give great advice on do's and do not's and how to navigate your way through this modern dating world as best as possible. 

Want approach anxiety GONE? Want the fear of rejection GONE? This week, one of Marni's Winggirls, Traci Bermingham, is here to talk about those magic tools that will help you avoid your "triggering points" that send you straight back into your shell. It's all about getting your brain running on "new software" rather than the old, outdated brain "software" that is no longer serving you, or was never serving you to begin with, so you can get out of your head and into hers.