The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick offers compassionate advice on family healing, forgiveness, and the power of prayer. 

Patrick explores the power of public speeches and the reactions they provoke, highlighting NFL kicker Harrison Butker's bold commencement address on family values. You’ll hear how it sparks a national conversation about diversity, inclusion, and societal values. Plus, listen in on an emotional caller's personal story that underscores the importance of family. Get ready to rethink what success truly means.

Patrick delves into NFL player Harrison Butker's commencement address, sparking a rich discussion on modern societal values and women's roles. He shares powerful excerpts from the speech, tackles audience reactions, and clarifies misconceptions about women's education. Patrick explores the balance between personal fulfillment and traditional family roles, and stresses the importance of raising both men and women to uphold respect and dignity.

Patrick uncovers how the culture of indecision, immaturity, and the pervasive issue of online pornography are wreaking havoc on finding meaningful connections. He also points out the absurdities of AI dating apps and the importance of putting down our phones to build genuine human relationships.

This hour showcases heartfelt listener interactions, starting with an array of emails both criticizing and praising the show. Patrick and Cyrus discuss critical parenting challenges related to children's smartphone addiction and offer practical advice on managing and restricting phone usage. We hear moving stories from listeners like Sam, who reflects on the rewards of his 60-year marriage, and Gene, who shares his transformative journey from disagreeing with Patrick to embracing the show's values.

Patrick tackles a critical topic for Catholic parents – the growing influence of public school ideologies on our kids. He discusses alternatives like homeschooling, Catholic schools, and even summer camps to help maintain strong faith foundations.

Patrick has an inspiring conversation with 21-year-old Isaac from Wisconsin. Isaac shares his journey navigating the challenges of remaining virtuous in a public high school, the importance of community, and finding strength in his faith. He also talks about his path to adulthood, including a new relationship and an exciting apprenticeship. It's a testament to the power of strong values and support systems.

This hour covers some negative listener feedback, the power of confession after years away, the origins of terms like Jehovah-Rapha, and top Catholic colleges to consider.

Imagine, after 15 years of leading a Protestant community, Brian has embraced the Catholic faith with open arms, describing it as feeling like he's finally come home. 🏠

Welcome Home, Brian!

In his conversation with Patrick Madrid, Brian shares the deep spiritual reflections and practical concerns of converting to Catholicism. One of his pressing questions was about the validity of his marriage. He and his wife were married in a Protestant ceremony, and as he navigates his new faith, he’s concerned about how the Catholic Church views their union.

Marital Blessings and Assurance

Patrick quickly reassures Brian, affirming that his marriage is indeed recognized as valid and sacramental by the Catholic Church. This is great news and certainly lifts a weight off Brian’s shoulders!

Family and Faith Journey

Brian is also navigating this spiritual journey with his family. His wife is considering joining the Catholic Church, which adds another layer of shared spiritual growth and discovery to their relationship. It’s a beautiful example of how faith can grow within a family, drawing them closer together. Please pray for her on her journey!

A Bold Step Forward

Brian discusses his decision to reverse a previous sterilization—a courageous choice reflecting his new commitment to Catholic teachings on life and openness to God’s gifts, no matter his age.

Patrick's Warm Encouragement

Patrick commends Brian for his sincerity and courage in following God's call, even when it leads to unexpected paths. He assures Brian that his previous life choices, confessed and forgiven, don’t need to keep him from fully embracing the joys of marital life as he waits for his procedure. Patrick tells Brian that he's welcome to abstain for the sake of reparation, but it's certainly not a requirement. 

Brian’s journey is a powerful reminder of the grace and peace that come from walking with God, even through the most profound changes. 🕊️

Please pray for him and his family!

Patrick clarifies misconceptions about receiving communion in a state of mortal sin and emphasizes the vital role of sacramental confession before partaking in the Eucharist. Patrick also explores how to approach family members who may be unknowingly disrespecting church teachings. Remember, confessions and genuine adherence to faith aren't just religious acts; they are profound expressions of our relationship with Christ.

Patrick shines a light on the role of evil forces in ancient and modern persecution and discusses the mysterious, recurring pattern of anti-Semitism throughout history. Patrick explores these complexities, touching on scriptural interpretations and the persistent enigma surrounding the persecution of Jews through history.

Patrick explores the challenging decisions facing hospice care workers, particularly around administering pain management and its ethical implications. Patrick clarifies the Catholic Church's teaching on end-of-life care, distinguishing between permissible palliative care and morally unacceptable euthanasia. Patrick discusses real-life scenarios with medical professionals, offering guidance and resources to navigate these complex situations ethically.

Patrick delves into the complexities of confession within the Catholic Church, focusing on the challenges of confessing to a priest who is also a close family friend. Patrick discusses the importance of the internal forum—your private, spiritual dialogue with God—and how knowing your confessor personally can impact this experience. Patrick explores practical advice on seeking confession with a sense of anonymity to avoid any discomfort and preserve the sanctity of this sacrament.

Patrick has a profound conversation with Diane about the importance of regular confession in maintaining spiritual health. Diane shares her realization about neglecting confession while still participating in Holy Communion, prompting a discussion on the necessity of a clean conscience to fully benefit from the sacraments. Patrick explores how confession serves as a powerful tool to renew one's spiritual life, ensuring peace and a strengthened relationship with God. If you’ve been away from confession and feel unsure, remember, it’s never too late to reconcile and seek peace through this beautiful sacrament.

Patrick welcomes Brian, a former Protestant who has recently embraced the Catholic faith. Brian shares his journey and the complexities of leading his family through his spiritual transformation. Brian's commitment to his faith and family shines through as he plans to renew his vows and even reverse a past medical decision, showing his dedication to living fully in accordance with his new beliefs. His story is a powerful testament to personal transformation and spiritual leadership.

"How do we know the Assumption of Mary actually happened? Why is it not mentioned?"

Patrick Madrid engages with Eric, a Protestant pastor from Helena, Montana, who grapples with understanding Marian doctrines, particularly the Assumption of Mary.

Eric's Journey:

Eric is exploring Catholicism but finds the Assumption of Mary challenging due to its sparse mention in early Church writings

He questions why significant doctrines like the Assumption aren’t explicitly detailed in early Church Father writings, similar to his concerns about infant baptism and Church hierarchy.

Patrick's Insightful Response:

Historical Parallels: Patrick compares the development of the Assumption doctrine to the Trinity doctrine, noting:

Trinity: Not explicitly named until Tertullian in the 3rd century, yet fundamental.

Assumption: Similar trajectory; less overt early mention but recognized over time.

Persecution Impact:

Early Christians focused on survival rather than doctrinal writings.

Post-persecution, there was an explosion in theological literature, including Marian doctrines.

Resource Recommendations:

T.L. Frazer’s Article: Assumptions About Mary – Highlights patristic references to the Assumption.

Tim Staples' Book: Behold Your Mother– Provides a biblical defense of Marian doctrines.

Jurgens' Collection: The Faith of the Early Fathers – Indexed quotes on various doctrines, including the Assumption.

Biblical and Traditional Foundations:

Patrick emphasizes that Catholicism relies on Scripture and Tradition.

He mentions Acts 2:38-39 as a biblical basis for infant baptism.

 Personal Reflections:

Eric shares his family's transition to Catholicism, with three out of four children converting.

Patrick encourages Eric to keep exploring and offers further resources, including his book Surprised by Truth.

Patrick reassures Eric about the legitimacy of Marian doctrines, highlighting the importance of Tradition alongside Scripture.

Takeaway: For those curious about Catholic doctrines, especially the Assumption of Mary, examining Church history, patristic writings, and biblical references can provide clarity and deepen faith understanding.

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Patrick Madrid has a candid conversation with Jorge, a 27-year-old who’s rekindling his Catholic faith after a 17-year hiatus. Jorge’s struggle? Overcoming the grip of porn addiction and other bad habits formed during his years away from the Church.

🌟 Key Points from the Conversation:

Rediscovering Faith: Jorge shares his journey back to Catholicism, filled with love for his newfound spiritual path, but he’s battling long-standing bad habits, particularly porn addiction.

Taking Radical Steps:

Be Ruthless: Patrick emphasizes a no-nonsense approach, referencing Jesus' teaching about plucking out the eye if it causes you to sin (metaphorically, of course).

Eliminate Triggers:

If the smartphone is the problem, ditch it for a simpler device.

Load up accountability software on necessary devices to prevent access to inappropriate sites.

Building Accountability:

Patrick encourages Jorge to find an accountability partner, someone whose knowledge of his struggle would motivate him to stay clean.

Cultivating Virtue:

Replace lust with purity and chastity. This involves practical steps like custody of the eyes—training oneself to look away from potential temptations.

Community Support:

Patrick recommends Catholic in Recovery, a 12-step program that’s Jesus-centered and parish-based, helping individuals overcome addictions.

Spiritual Weapons:

Pray the Rosary daily.

Stay close to Jesus through the sacraments.

Avoid giving any “slack” to bad habits; even a small allowance can lead to a major setback, akin to an alcoholic taking a sip.

Practical Analogy:

Patrick likens the fight against porn addiction to lifting weights: initially hard and painful, but persistence builds strength and resilience.

Moral Imagination:

Visualize the most embarrassing person knowing about the porn habit and use that as a deterrent and accountability check.

Jorge’s resolve to overcome his addiction through faith and rigorous discipline serves as an inspiring testament to the power of spiritual commitment and community support. Never give up! Victory over vice is possible. 

Triple-Match Hour!

Patrick dives into the principle of subsidiarity and its application in government policy. Patrick unpacks the idea that problems should be handled at the most local level possible, avoiding unnecessary federal intervention. He discusses examples ranging from local disputes to federal overreach during crises like COVID-19.

Patrick explores the incredible ways generosity can come full circle. Patrick hears an inspiring story from a listener who makes a donation and is surprised by an unexpected financial return, truly a testament to the belief that generosity breeds generosity. Patrick also navigates the sensitive topic of encouraging religious practices within families, offering compassionate advice on gifting educational religious materials to gently foster faith without being overbearing.

Patrick explores how the gospel isn't just a simple catchphrase; it's a vast, unfolding narrative. From the divinity and humanity of Jesus to His teachings of faith and repentance, and the establishment of His church with its sacraments, every element tells a story. Patrick also connects the dots back to the Old Testament heroes, highlighting the continuity of faith and grace throughout scripture.

Patrick has a heart-to-heart discussion with Jorge, who is battling a pornography addiction. Patrick emphasizes the importance of ruthlessness in breaking free from sinful patterns, utilizing both modern tools like basic phones or anti-pornography software, and fostering spiritual strength by engaging in daily prayer and the sacraments. Patrick also touches on the power of accountability and recommends checking out resources like Catholic in Recovery to support Jorge's path toward purity and chastity.

Patrick tackles some thought-provoking topics that blend spirituality, ethics, and technology. First, Patrick dives into the ethical considerations of charitable donations and whether opting out of tax deductions aligns more closely with altruistic giving, seeking purity in intentions. Patrick discusses how tax deductions impact motives and the spiritual perspective on giving with pure love for God.

Patrick explores the rich nuances of Eucharistic prayer, the significance of prayers for those in purgatory, and answers engaging listener questions about the roles of deacons and the concept of forgiveness and purification in Christianity. Patrick also hears an inspiring testimony from a listener touched by grace, who now leads a life dedicated to charity. Join Patrick for these insightful conversations meant to enlighten and guide through the complexities of religious belief and practice.

Patrick discusses the importance of humility and service to God with insights from Scripture and literature like "The Imitation of Christ" by Thomas à Kempis. Patrick tackles issues on sacramental preparation for children and discusses the significant benefits of participating in the sacraments at the right age. Plus, Patrick dives into shifts in Hollywood's portrayal of content and wraps up by hearing a powerful conversion story.

Patrick unpacks the confusion surrounding Psalm numbers in different Bible versions, highlighting the difference between the Douay-Reims and newer translations. He also explores misconceptions about biblical sinlessness and tackles misconceptions around the inclusion of certain texts in historical Bible editions. Plus, he emphasizes how personal biases can shape our spiritual interpretive lens, reminding us of the timeless truth that what we seek influences what we find.

Patrick hears from Joe, who discusses the challenges of pursuing holiness and the concept of acedia, or spiritual burnout, and how gratitude can be a transformative tool in both recovery and spiritual life. Following that, John from San Diego brings up an interesting point on the confusion around religious denominations in North America, highlighting the historical and cultural distinctions between Protestantism and Catholicism.

Patrick delves into the controversies and misunderstandings surrounding religious figures and teachings, emphasizing why it often doesn't serve him to engage with every provocative claim he encounters. Patrick highlights how focusing on personal spirituality and the core tenets of faith, rather than getting caught up in external disputes and conspiracy theories, allows for a more serene and centered life. It’s important to choose your battles wisely and concentrate on what truly advances understanding and personal growth.

Patrick explores several heartfelt inquiries from listeners, ranging from spiritual guidance for teenagers struggling to sense God’s presence, to advice for religious educators on appropriate post-confirmation practices. Patrick also tackles questions about how faith intersects with politics, especially in divisive times. Whether offering book recommendations, encouraging persistent prayer without seeking constant spiritual consolations, or discussing the historical context of political divisions, Patrick aims to provide thoughtful, actionable advice for living a faith-filled life.

Patrick gives heartfelt advice to listeners grappling with complex personal and family issues rooted in faith and morality. He discusses the tremendous power of forgiveness, the importance of prayer and reparation, and the comfort found in scripture and God’s promises. Patrick also tackles how to maintain personal beliefs while navigating challenging family dynamics.

Sometimes, what's going on in our world can bring out the worst in people. How can we as Catholics be people of peace and hope?

A listener named Christine from Detroit shares her deep feelings of sympathy and distress over the suffering of innocent Palestinians amidst the conflicts in Israel. She questions whether it’s wrong as a Catholic to feel anger and sympathy towards these injustices, particularly the impact on children.

Patrick Madrid reassures Christine that feeling sympathy towards innocent Palestinians is not only appropriate but a reflection of our Christian duty to empathize with the suffering. He emphasizes that such feelings align perfectly with our values, particularly the call to recognize the dignity and worth of every human life, irrespective of one’s background or nationality.

Patrick also shares his personal experiences, which have led him to form a significant connection with Palestinian communities, noting his interactions have primarily been with Palestinians, both Christian and Muslim. It's not black and white all the time. He highlights the complexity of the situation—condemning the actions of Hamas and other extremists while also criticizing any actions by the Israeli Defense Forces (IDF) that harm innocent lives.

Importantly, Patrick navigates the delicate balance of supporting Israel’s right to exist and defend itself, while also advocating for the fundamental rights and protections of Palestinian civilians caught in the crossfire. He calls out the misguided activism of some, particularly on college campuses, who may not fully grasp the complexities of the conflict or may be driven by extremist ideologies rather than a genuine concern for human rights.

What can Catholics do? Reflecting on Patrick's insights, Catholics are encouraged to maintain a balanced perspective, informed by a commitment to peace and justice. This includes praying for all affected, advocating for peaceful solutions, and educating oneself on the realities of the conflict to avoid being swayed by biased narratives. It’s about holding fast to a hope for peace, supporting efforts that respect the dignity of all involved, and prayerfully standing in solidarity with those who suffer, all while seeking wisdom and guidance on how to effectively contribute to a resolution.

Christine's heartfelt concern and Patrick Madrid’s thoughtful response show a powerful message: In the face of conflict, Catholics are called to a profound empathy that transcends borders, informed by a deep faith and commitment to the teachings of Jesus Christ. Let us carry this message in our hearts and let it guide our actions towards peace and justice.

Patrick Madrid tackled a listener's heartfelt concern about receiving the Holy Eucharist, specifically questioning whether it's necessary to partake in both species—body and blood—to fully receive Jesus. 

Here’s the gist of Patrick’s answer:

No Need for Both: You don’t have to consume both Jesus' body and blood to receive Jesus fully. Each species, by itself, contains Jesus' body, blood, soul, and divinity, thanks to the miracle of transubstantiation that occurs during Mass. So, whether you receive just the host or just the blood, you are wholly receiving Jesus.

Understanding Utraquism: The concern about needing both forms to fully partake in Jesus is rooted in an old heresy called utraquism. The Church has clarified that receiving in either species is complete in itself.

Practical and Historical Context: Historically, the Church restricted the laity from receiving both His body and blood to combat the heresy and due to practical reasons. However, post-Vatican II reforms have allowed laypeople to receive Jesus under both species.

When to Refrain: The only time you should consider refraining from Holy Communion is if you're in a state of mortal sin. Otherwise, the Eucharist is meant to be a means of grace and a profound connection with Christ.

Patrick encourages the listener (and all of us) to partake with faith in the profound mystery and not to be swayed by misconceptions or feelings that suggest a need to consume both species to fully participate in the sacrament.

Approach Jesus in the Eucharist with reverence and love, assuring that no matter the species, we receive all of Him wholly and completely. 

Patrick gets into the challenges of parenting, specifically dealing with strong-willed children. He discusses the importance of setting firm boundaries and consistent consequences to guide children towards respectful and responsible behavior. Patrick emphasizes the role of fathers in discipline, the value of escalating consequences, and the impact of structured family dynamics.

Patrick tackles big theological questions about baptism and communion. He explores the biblical foundation of being baptized by water and the Spirit, emphasizing its necessity to receive the Holy Spirit as described in the scriptures. Patrick also delves into the significance of the Holy Eucharist in the Catholic faith, comparing it to other beliefs while highlighting the importance of truth in doctrine as taught from the times of the apostles.

Patrick engages in a heartfelt conversation with Christine from Detroit, who shares her complex emotions regarding the ongoing conflict in Palestine. As a Middle Eastern Catholic, Christine grapples with feelings of anger and sympathy for the affected innocent civilians. Together, they explore the intricacies of expressing solidarity amidst geopolitical and religious narratives. Patrick listens and responds with insights on navigating such conversations with empathy, understanding diverse historical contexts, and emphasizing the human aspects often overshadowed in political dialogues.

Patrick discusses the topic of Mary's Immaculate Conception and her freedom from original sin. Patrick explores whether Mary was tempted to sin and how her immaculate state influences her ability to exercise free will, juxtaposed with scriptural narratives and traditional church teachings.

Patrick addresses a listener's concern about whether venerating St. Jude's relic could be considered sacrilegious, emphasizing the sacred respect and honor such acts convey in the Christian faith. He also explores a range of listener queries from the correct choice of Bible translations to the rich tapestry of the Old Testament, and the return of a caller to his Catholic roots. Amidst these personal and theological explorations, the conversation shifts towards more contentious terrain, as Patrick navigates the turbulent waters of political opinions tied to religious and moral viewpoints. The hour wraps up with a compelling clip of Ronald Reagan addressing the role of law, order, and freedom in society, offering insights into the historical echoes of today's debates.

Patrick discusses the intricacies of Natural Family Planning, the impact and intentional choices of young couples regarding procreation, and how technology intersects with modern parenting. Patrick also tackles the unique challenges of maintaining religious obligations while traveling.

Patrick shares the adventure he was called to in the very early morning hours, where he rescued his dog Charlie from a muddy hole that was filling up with water. This story beautifully transitions into a deeper reflection on the unexpected demands of life and the spiritual insights they can bring, reminding us that sometimes, our responsibilities require immediate attention, no matter our own plans. Patrick also opens the lines to listeners, offering guidance on everything from first holy communions to career dilemmas, always connecting back to how faith can inform and guide daily decisions.

Patrick tackles whether humanity would be assured heaven if Adam and Eve hadn't sinned, with insights drawn from St. Thomas Aquinas, highlighting the loss of supernatural gifts due to original sin and the individual moral journeys we each would face.

Patrick clarifies common misconceptions about the term "Roman Catholic" and explores the rich tapestry of cultural and liturgical expressions within the Church. Patrick also tackles how architecture and art can sometimes spark controversy and misunderstandings. Plus, a deep dive into challenging topics like the assumption of Mary and ecclesiastical authority, providing insights and resources for those puzzled by these doctrines.

Christina finds herself in a challenging family dynamic where her sister, formerly Catholic, has now embraced an evangelical megachurch, focusing on concepts like generational curses and personal relationships with God over traditional religious practices. During their discussion on the show, Patrick Madrid offers Christina some sage advice steeped in Scripture and Catholic teaching to help guide her sister back to the fold.

Patrick encourages Christina to emphasize the importance of the sacraments, particularly the Eucharist, in nurturing a true relationship with Christ. He points out that merely calling oneself a "child of God" without adhering to Christ's teachings, such as participating in the sacraments, doesn't align with the depth of commitment that Jesus outlined for His followers. Using verses like John 6:53-56, where Jesus talks about the necessity of eating His flesh and drinking His blood, Patrick highlights the uniqueness of Catholicism’s devotion to the Eucharist.

He further suggests that Christina remind her sister of the biblical foundation of the Catholic Church, citing Matthew 16:18, where Jesus declares, "On this rock I will build my Church," to underline that the Church founded by the apostles continues through the succession of Catholic hierarchy.

Lastly, Patrick advises that Christina confront her sister gently but firmly with questions about whether her current spiritual practices truly align with what Jesus commanded, encouraging her to consider if her megachurch can offer the same continuity and depth as the Church established by Christ Himself.

If you have left the Catholic faith, consider this podcast a loving invitation to come back home. 🕊️✨

Do you love a good romantic comedy? It might help you escape from the stress of life.

Liz from Northern California brings up a concern about whether indulging in romantic comedies is akin to men watching pornography. This comparison had previously made her upset, especially as a fan of the genre. Patrick Madrid addresses this concern by distinguishing the inherent nature of romantic comedies from the explicit immorality found in pornography. He suggests that while "rom-coms" generally do not equate to the evils of pornography, there is an analogy to be considered about emotional versus visual stimulation.

Patrick explains the cultural trope that men are visually stimulated and thus drawn to pornography, whereas women might be emotionally moved by the narratives in "rom-coms," hinting at an emotional form of indulgence. However, he clarifies that a typical romantic comedy without objectionable content does not pose the same moral issues as pornography.

Liz expresses her sentimentality towards the hope of 'happily ever after' that "rom-coms" often portray, contrasting with the reality that not every story ends so perfectly. Patrick reassures her by highlighting that even Biblical stories, like that of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel, reflect themes of unrequited love and romantic misadventures, akin to those found in "rom-coms."

He also shares the cautionary tale of St. Teresa of Avila, who found herself overly attached to romance novels in her youth, which she later saw as a distraction from her spiritual fervor. This serves as a reminder of the importance of balance and not allowing such entertainments to interfere with one’s spiritual goals.

Patrick Madrid encourages discernment in entertainment choices, asking whether they align with our ultimate goals—like striving for heaven and living a virtuous life. He leaves Liz (and you) with a thoughtful perspective: enjoy "rom-coms" if they are innocent, but always reflect on whether such pastimes help or hinder one’s spiritual journey.

So, next time you're queued up for a romantic comedy binge, maybe pray a rosary or two! After all, all things in moderation, right? 😄✨

Patrick delves into the profound and deeply spiritual matter of administering sacraments to the ailing and elderly, especially those who may not have been baptized. Patrick discusses the Church's approach to baptism as a prerequisite for receiving other sacraments, explaining how, in emergency situations, a quick baptism can be performed to allow for the anointing of the sick. This enlightening session underscores the Church's flexibility in urgent times and its commitment to spiritual care, reaffirming the doctrine that baptism is essential, yet also touching upon God's mercy for those who desire baptism but cannot receive it physically.

Patrick dives into the heartfelt inquiry about the impact of romantic comedies on single women, comparing it to how pornography affects men. Patrick Madrid thoughtfully addresses this concern, discussing the differences and potential emotional effects of such media. He elaborates on why romantic comedies, generally speaking, do not equate to the moral weight of pornography. Additionally, Patrick touches upon biblical narratives that resonate with themes of romantic pursuit and the personal experience of St. Teresa of Avila with romance novels.

Patrick delves deep into the significance of intercessory prayer within the Catholic faith, especially addressing common concerns about praying to Mary and the saints. Patrick discusses how the Bible supports this practice through the concept of the communion of saints, paralleling it with foundational Christian doctrines not explicitly outlined in the Scriptures, such as the Trinity. Patrick clarifies that asking the saints to intercede for us mirrors asking for prayers from our fellow believers here on Earth—supported by scriptural insights from 1 Timothy and Romans.

Patrick Madrid talks to a caller named Bill from Tampa, who questions the obligatory nature of attending Mass every Sunday. Bill expresses his concern that making Mass compulsory might strip away the heartfelt desire to attend, turning it into a routine task rather than a genuine connection with Christ. 

Patrick responds with a comparison to a family dinner, suggesting that just as families gather regularly to strengthen bonds, Mass is a gathering of the spiritual family to connect more deeply with God and one another. He emphasizes that Mass is not just a meal but a participation in the holy sacrifice of Jesus, being present at the Last Supper and at Calvary.

Patrick addresses Bill's concerns by reframing them: attending Mass should be viewed not as a burdensome rule but as a minimal expression of gratitude for Jesus’ sacrifice. He points out that it's less about feeling compelled and more about recognizing the significance of what is celebrated during Mass. Essentially, Patrick invites you to see weekly Mass attendance not as a mere obligation but as an opportunity to participate in the ultimate act of love—Jesus’ sacrifice.

So, next time you think of skipping Mass, remember: it's not just a box to tick; it's an invitation to celebrate the most epic love story ever told, with the best company imaginable – Jesus Himself! 🙏💖

Patrick explores deep and intriguing topics about the spiritual realm and whether it's possible to be possessed by multiple demons at the same time, the dangers of dabbling with the idea of selling one's soul, and the impact of modern technology, particularly smartphones, on young minds. Patrick is joined by a courageous young caller, Michael, who decides to give up his smartphone to avoid negative influences. Patrick then touches upon the importance of making wise choices and seeking true happiness that extends beyond the material world.

Young Carol from Bakersfield shares her thoughts on a Bible verse, Luke 17:21, seeking clarity on what it means when it says "the Kingdom of God is within you." Patrick discusses how Jesus's message is more about an internal spiritual kingdom rather than a physical earthly one. Later, we hear from Young Landon in Florida, contemplating a call to the priesthood amid growing concerns over a shortage of priests. Patrick navigates the distinctions between diocesan and religious life, stressing the importance of discerning God's call.

Bill from Tampa questions and disagrees with the church’s Sunday obligation, suggesting it turns a potentially profound experience into mere routine, overshadowing the spiritual connection with feelings of guilt. Patrick responds by emphasizing the profound significance of Mass, likening it to a family meal, vital for nurturing our spiritual bond with Christ's sacrifice for humanity. Patrick debates whether obligation diminishes the sincerity of worship, while also touching on how the Church's guidelines help maintain our commitment to faith, much as societal laws guide civic behavior.

Patrick hears from a second-grade teacher at a Catholic school who is struggling with parental support over how she disciplines her students. Patrick discusses maintaining classroom respect and reinforcing school values through better communication with parents.

Patrick explores questions from Madison from Utah, who is transitioning from Mormonism to Catholicism. She brings up an engaging theological inquiry concerning the supposed siblings of Jesus, sparking a detailed explanation by Patrick on the Catholic interpretation of these scriptural passages.

Patrick does not shy away from the sensitive topics of conflict in the Middle East and the global response to humanitarian crises. Patrick explores whether Jesus supports modern geopolitical tactics, addresses the allegations of media bias, and confronts the disparity in global activism and awareness in conflicts involving Muslim casualties. Patrick passionately debates and challenges the inconsistencies in media narratives, and shines a light on larger, often overlooked tragedies in nearby regions like Syria, questioning the motives behind selective outrage.

Patrick tackles the complex issue of generational curses with insights from Catholic exorcists, discussing that not all family troubles are linked to curses, yet acknowledging that spiritual disturbances can indeed run through generations. He also dives into the essence of religious identity, highlighting the importance of actions over labels and reminding listeners about the foundational structures and commands that Jesus sets for His followers. Patrick emphasizes the value of being a doer of the word, not just a hearer, and encourages a return to the roots of one's faith.

Patrick navigates the intricate relationship between faith and mental health and delves into how seeking professional help for mental health challenges is compatible with one's spiritual journey, highlighting the importance of combining prayer with capable, reputable psychological and psychiatric aid. He also examines the power of understanding our distinct personality types through the church's age-old wisdom, providing an extra layer for self-awareness and improvement.

Today on The Patrick Madrid Show, we dove deep into the heart of scripture and truth with listener Tom from Tennessee. We wrestled with the effects of the Reformation, the authority of scripture versus private interpretation, and the catholic tradition in understanding the Bible. A fascinating discussion unfolded around the essential question, 'Who determines truth?' Together, we explored the profound implications of scripture alone and the need for a solid interpretative key through apostolic tradition. If you've ever grappled with scripture's meaning or the pursuit of truth, stay tuned for a conversation that brings 2000 years of wisdom to the table.

Patrick tackles the gripping issue of sin and redemption with Gary from Denver. Gary opens up about his lifelong struggle with petty theft and his belief that he's destined for hell, driven by the sinister calculation that he can sin until his final hour. Patrick discusses the dangerous delusion of presuming God's forgiveness and the urgency to change one's path. Through candid conversation and tough love, Patrick offers advice, including seeking help through catholicinrecovery.com, and practical steps like avoiding the temptations of retail stores altogether.

Patrick unwraps the beauty and mystery of the Eucharist with insights from new converts. He tackles queries about why Catholics may receive only the body or the blood during Mass and explores historical practices like intinction. Shifting focus, a lively discussion unfolds with Dorothy about the Catholic Church's stance on pro-life issues and the evolution of political allegiances over time. Patrick uncovers how historical figures have shaped perceptions and dives into the importance of educating our communities on core Catholic teachings.

Mary from Phoenix bravely opens up about her personal struggle with her pro-choice stance despite her opposition to abortion due to her own painful experience. Patrick discusses the importance of recognizing the humanity of the unborn and dispelling the 'clump of cells' myth. Inspired by history's misdeeds, he compares abortion to the moral failings of slave ownership, underlining the moral, not just religious, imperative to protect life. Mary's journey of reconnecting with faith leads to a powerful conversation about healing, forgiveness, and the relentless love God has for all.

Patrick navigates through listener Pam's query about pew manners — where societal norms meet personal preference in sacred spaces. Patrick touches upon how simple acts of kindness, like a husband holding a door for his wife, can foster affection and respect in a relationship. Then, Mary from Austin shares a poignant story of her daughter's return to the Catholic Church, facing a setback when her children are denied entry into Catholic school due to past behavior. Patrick discusses the power of compassion over judgment and the importance of encouragement in our spiritual communities. It's about building bridges, not walls, in our journey of faith.

A caller brings up a poignant debate on the geopolitical tensions surrounding Israel, where Patrick corrects common misconceptions and highlights the need for prayer and peace for all affected parties.

Patrick helps a caller navigate the choice between a Catholic versus secular psychologist. He touches on the significance of aligning one's values with their therapist, highlighting catholictherapists.com as a resource. The conversation takes a deeper turn as he tackles misunderstandings of the prodigal son parable, emphasizing its universal lessons for all, not just wayward children. Patrick wraps up the hour sharing some useful tips on finding religious artifacts like holy cards on Etsy. Join him where faith meets life, and explore how to harmonize spiritual beliefs with everyday decisions.

Patrick engages with a heartfelt inquiry from John in Milwaukee, who is caught in the conundrum of whether to keep crosses displayed on his walls while selling his home. Patrick addresses the spiritual implications of this decision, drawing wisdom from Romans 1:16-17, and encourages standing firm in one's faith by not being ashamed of the Gospel - even in the realm of real estate.

Patrick tackles the profound questions of faith, belonging, and salvation. He discusses how true belief and membership in the Catholic Church are viewed through the lens of tradition and scripture and how it's necessary for salvation according to the Church. But no matter where your journey of faith has taken you, remember, it's never too late to find your way back home. With a heartfelt invitation to return to the fold and the promise of help to overcome life's hurdles, the dialogue reminds us that behind the doctrine, it's compassion and community that truly reflect the spirit of the Church.

What does the Catholic Church and biker clubs have in common? Hint, it’s not a love for sentimental tunes of Air Supply. Patrick also takes on more serious topics such as the Kingdom of the Divine Will movement and the complex legacy of Louisa Piccaretta. Patrick shares his concerns about the theological issues within the movement and speaks about the aggressive reactions he's observed from its fervent followers when faced with criticism.

Today on The Patrick Madrid Show, Patrick answers the perplexing topic of the mark of the beast, unpacking its biblical roots and significance for our faith. Plus, Patrick tackles a tough question about the annulment process and marriage within the Church, offering heartfelt advice to those facing these challenges.

Patrick has the pleasure of engaging with Charles, a wise-beyond-his-years 10-year-old from California, who brings up the topic of abortion and its moral implications for those involved in the process. Patrick navigates the complexities of participation in actions against one's moral beliefs and the courage it takes to stand for one’s convictions. They also get into the sensitive realm of marriage within the Church, discussing the intricacies of gender identity and validity in sacramental unions.

Patrick examines the nuances of faith, takes a close look at the key differences between Catholic and Protestant Bibles, and the significance of traditions in scripture. He also teaches the true meaning of Good Friday and dissects misunderstandings surrounding the doctrines of salvation by faith. Plus, Patrick addresses a parent's concern about protecting their child's innocence when faced with societal challenges. If you're seeking to preserve traditional values and tackle tough religious questions with grace, join Patrick for conversations that enlighten and empower. Stay faithful, stay informed, and let's navigate this journey together.

Father Matthew Spencer dives deep into the intersection of faith and societal responsibilities, exploring the impact of disruptive protests and the sacredness of participating responsibly in society. Recognizing individual dignity while promoting the common good is crucial. As we move through this world, it's our shared tapestry of experiences, beliefs, and responsibilities that craft not just the individual, but the whole of society.

Fr. Matthew Spencer discusses how the development of spiritual practices, like the Holy Mass after the resurrection, is an organic process guided by the Holy Spirit and requires patience from the apostles. Our faith journey is a continual evolution, and Fr. Matthew underscores the importance of focusing on approved and time-honored traditions while remaining open to insights that are in harmony with the Church's teachings.

Join Fr. Matthew Spencer as he journeys through fascinating topics and questions, always aiming to deepen our understanding and love for the Catholic faith.

Patrick is asked if the Alpha program in Catholic parishes aligns with evangelization. He issues a challenge—can Relevant Radio replace the need for such programs by fostering a deeper faith through daily listening? Plus, Patrick navigates the delicate terrain of marital responsibilities, providing heartfelt counsel to a young married mother on balancing family life and NFP.

Patrick shares invaluable insights into the teachings of Jesus regarding adultery of the heart and the damage wrought by consenting to lustful thoughts. He explores the distinction between temptation and sin, and the power of cultivating virtues of purity and chastity to combat lustful inclinations. He also delves into the controversial topic of liberation theology, providing clarity needed to navigate such complex issues with an unwavering Catholic perspective.

Patrick offers compassionate advice to Christine who opens up about her daughter’s struggle with alcohol. He recommends resources such as the book "Dying for a Drink" and introducing the support group Catholic in Recovery. The conversation continues with Rosie whose family is reeling under the impact of her husband's severe alcoholism. Patrick empathizes with her challenging situation and emphasizes the urgency for her husband to seek help.

It can be confusing to understand what actually constitutes euthanasia.

Patrick dives into a profound discussion with 16-year-old Elizabeth from Minnesota about the intricacies of euthanasia, life support, and the principle of double effect, all through the lens of Catholic moral theology.

Elizabeth, curious and concerned, asks about the Church's stance on euthanasia and the moral implications of withdrawing life support. Patrick clarifies that the Church vehemently opposes euthanasia as it involves intentionally ending an innocent life, categorizing it as a grave sin.

The conversation deepens as Elizabeth wonders about the morality of discontinuing artificial life support for someone unlikely to recover. Here, Patrick introduces the concept of "ordinary" vs. "extraordinary" means of sustaining life. He explains that while ordinary means (like feeding and hydration) must always be provided if the patient can physically tolerate them, extraordinary means (like a ventilator) may be ethically withdrawn if they no longer contribute to the recovery or the continuation of life.

Enter the principle of double effect, a crucial element in Catholic moral reasoning that Patrick lays out. This principle helps distinguish actions with dual outcomes—where one is intended and ethical, while the other, although foreseen, is unintended. For instance, removing a life support machine is intended to cease the intervention that prolongs dying, not to cause death itself.

Patrick uses the example of an ectopic pregnancy to further illustrate this principle. In such cases, removing the affected fallopian tube to save the mother's life, though it results in the loss of the baby in the womb, is morally permissible because the death of the little child is not the intended effect.

👉 Key Takeaways:

If you're intrigued by the nuances of moral theology, Patrick recommends the book Life Issues, Medical Choices which explores these topics in greater depth.

Sarah - how do you explain sacramentals to people without it sounding superstitious?

(7:00) Patrick - Does the Catholic church teach divine simplicity? And what are your thoughts on it?

Lonny - When Satan fell, wouldn't a higher level of angel need to challenge him? Why St. Michael?

(15:02) Jim - Confession - the only sins i ever have are in my thoughts and I get rid of them right away. I don't know what to confess when I get there.

(21:34) Break 1

Leticia - In California, most of our cities are named after saints. I think we have a sleeping giant here and we need to pray.

David - (on lamb call) Jesus is the ultimate Shepard.

(36:13) Break 2

(37:04) Does a couple need to break up if they are intimate before marriage? Patrick answers this question.

Jan - (on Elizabeth’s call) I had a similar experience when I was pregnant. They said that the baby was stressed and if he was, he was already gone.

Let's dive into a conversation that many Catholic parents ponder over: "When and how do I have THE talk with my kids?"  Patrick Madrid received a question from a concerned mom, Sandra, who was wrestling with this very question. Sandra and her husband have two boys, aged 9 and 11, and they're at a crossroads about who should lead this delicate discussion and when.

Patrick's advice? Go for it, but with a strategy! 

Father Knows Best? Yes, says Patrick. He leans towards the idea that dads should initially take the helm, when it comes to their sons. The magic age? Eleven seems to be the sweet spot, considering the societal influences kids are exposed to today. Why dads? It's about creating a comfortable space for questions and understanding, minus any awkwardness.

Moms, You're Up for Daughters: Patrick shared how, in his own family with 11 kids, he chatted with his sons, while his wife chatted with their daughters.

The Walk-and-Talk Method: Ever considered a heart-to-heart in a cemetery? Sounds gothic, but Patrick found this serene setting perfect for "the talk." Why? No distractions, just peace, making it easier to chat about becoming a man, the changes to expect, and the birds and the bees, all wrapped up in a message of love, growth, and the beauty of life's cycles.

Keep It Light, Keep It Right: The discussion doesn't have to be a somber affair. Infusing humor and keeping a light-hearted tone can help ease any tension. Remember, it's about opening a dialogue that continues as your child grows, ensuring they know they can always come to you with questions or concerns.

School Talks & Peer Chatter: Patrick emphasizes the importance of parents taking the lead before schools or friends do. Misinformation is rampant, and a guided, loving conversation from a parent can set the right foundation for understanding sexuality in the context of love, marriage, and procreation.

TL;DR: Patrick champions a thoughtful approach to discussing sexuality with children, aiming for an atmosphere of openness and trust. The goal? Equip kids with knowledge, grounded in faith and family values, ready to navigate the world informed, confident, and connected to their parents. 

Your Turn! When did you have "the talk" with your kids, or how do you plan to approach it?

Is it ever permissible to lie? Patrick explores St. Augustine's take, dissects the Catechism's stance, and weighs it against real-life, high-stakes scenarios. Patrick also tackles some intriguing biblical questions, from Mary's role in Jesus' miracle at Cana to the details surrounding His burial cloth.

The birds and the Bees: Patrick tackles a subject close to the heart of every parent—navigating the delicate conversation about sexuality with our kids. Patrick suggests the ideal age to talk about these changes, who should lead the discussion, and he shares personal stories and strategies that work. Patrick connects the dots between childhood, adolescence, and becoming a well-rounded adult, providing wholesome, virtuous guidance every step of the way.

Patrick explores the importance of protecting one's innocence in the digital age and how to avoid potential online traps. The conversations he has with callers serves as a necessary reminder of the need to be vigilant about what we engage with online. Patrick emphasizes that maintaining innocence and prudence in our digital interactions is not only possible but essential.

Mary calls in and shares the heart-wrenching struggles of her 40-year marriage where she feels utterly alone. Patrick explores the complexities of being a supportive spouse amidst apathy and addiction, and the emotional toll it takes when change seems out of reach.

Are you wrestling with life's hardest questions, yearning for encouragement, or seeking real-world advice grounded in faith? Join Patrick Madrid on The Patrick Madrid Show, where he tackles tough situations like Mary's struggle with her husband's alcoholism and explores avenues for hope, such as canonical separation and organizations like Mary's Advocates. Discover how others, like Amy and Brad, find strength in prayer, community support, and the courage to involve family in their trials. Remember, whether it's dealing with addiction or praying for your children's return to faith, you're not alone.

Are you unnerved by the idea of a cashless society? Today, Patrick ponders whether it's a step towards totalitarianism or just a change in currency mediums. He tackles the mark of the beast and privacy implications, discovering a balance between caution and freedom. In a world swamped with pessimism, Patrick shares advice on overcoming media-induced anxiety—counseling a focus on faith, family, hobbies, and unplugging from the news cycle.

Do you use the missalette at Mass? Or do you follow along on your phone?

In a recent episode of The Patrick Madrid Show, a riveting discussion unfolded around the use of traditional missalettes versus digital devices during Mass. Here's the breakdown:

Patrick Madrid explored the purpose of the missalette - that little book filled with Mass readings, prayers, and rituals. It's a handy guide for you to participate in the Mass. 

📱 Digital Dilemma: A tweet sparked debate: Is it appropriate to use a phone as a missal during Mass? One churchgoer tried to offer a traditional missalette to a fellow parishioner engrossed in his phone, suggesting it was less distracting. The response? A decline, emphasizing personal preference and sparking a broader conversation on modernity in Mass.

Patrick leans into the evolution of tech in prayer and worship, acknowledging the convenience of apps and electronic missals. He acknowledges the practicality of digital devices, from enlarging text to housing multiple resources in one's pocket. Yet, he advises discretion to avoid distracting fellow worshippers.

🤔 Etiquette & Empathy: The consensus? While tradition holds its charm, the integration of technology in worship is an undeniable trend. The key lies in balancing respect for individual worship needs. Suggestions ranged from using phones discreetly to possibly designating tech-friendly seating areas in churches.

What's your call on this? Should the tech stay or go at Mass?

Patrick Madrid reflects on a dilemma shared by a Catholic churchgoer, who was distracted by another parishioner using his phone as a missal during Mass. Patrick addresses the appropriateness of utilizing digital devices in place of traditional prayer books and how this shift aligns with contemporary worship.

Patrick ignites a vibrant conversation about using cell phones during Mass, addressing technology as both a tool for participation and a potential distraction. Patrick tackles tough topics like traditions and modern-day struggles, including addiction recovery and the historical significance of the term 'Catholic.' The discussions open a window to understanding the complexities of living out our faith in today's world while staying true to its roots.

Patrick grapples with a listener's poignant inquiry about the potential salvation of non-Catholics, candidly addressing the complexities of faith outside the visible Catholic Church and the Church's stance on inclusivity in salvation.

Patrick dives deep into ethics and morals, unraveling the biblical story of Onan from Genesis 38 and its relation to birth control across religions. Patrick explores the early church fathers' perspectives, Protestant beliefs, and suggests reading "The Bible and Birth Control" by Charles Provan to further understand the topic's history and application.

Email – What is the sin of Onan?

Michelle - Humans suffer and have pain due to sin. Why do animals have pain, if they didn't sin?

Patrick comments on today’s Solar Eclipse and where you can see it from

Andrew - What's the difference between scrupulosity and prudence when it comes to going to confession. How often should I go? What if I'm in mortal sin?

Maribelle - Does Patrick know about a Mexican tradition of wrapping trees in red ribbon during an Eclipse?

Rhonda - Why don't God's chosen people believe that Jesus is the Savior?

Patrick dives into the heart of struggle and faith, sharing Emma’s inspiring journey of 14 and a half years of sobriety, revealing the power of perseverance and the serenity prayer.

Patrick unravels moral complexities, explaining why a non-Catholic, unmarried couple may share a bed at their parents' house and how the natural institution of marriage carries validity outside of religious bounds. He tackles theological inquiries, including the necessity of Sacraments for salvation and the role of grace, using the example of the good thief next to Jesus. 

This podcast episode of The Patrick Madrid Show revolves around a caller, Dave from Wisconsin, seeking clarity on interpreting biblical miracles as literal events or allegories. Dave mentions examples such as the multiplication of loaves, Jesus walking on water, and the Israelites crossing the Red Sea. He recounts a conversation with a priest who proposed a non-literal interpretation for these events, attributing them to metaphors or natural occurrences.

Patrick Madrid responds by contextualizing this viewpoint within the historical criticism movement prevalent in seminaries during the 1970s. He criticizes this approach, labeling it a "hermeneutic of suspicion," which undermines the literal interpretation of miracles in Scripture. Patrick argues for the authenticity of biblical miracles, because he has seen so many people lose their faith over their failure to truly believe.

He recommends resources like"Politicizing the Bible: The Roots of Historical Criticism and the Secularization of Scripture"by Dr. Scott Hahn and Benjamin Wiker, as well as "Catholic Apologetics Today" by Fr. William Most to delve deeper into this topic. 

You can hear the intensity in Patrick's voice as he urges you to guard against erroneous interpretations that diminish the reality of biblical miracles, emphasizing the importance of upholding the Church's teaching on the inerrancy of Scripture.

Someone else' faith could be on the line, and you can help them by sharing the truth in Sacred Scripture and tradition. 

Patrick explores the deep waters of human grief and resilience. Patrick hears from Joe in Staten Island who, through the loss of his beloved wife, finds solace in a prayer that strengthens his faith and provides comfort. Patrick also underscores the value of prayer with the encouraging devotion of Our Lady Undoer of Knots.