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Today’s Ask Away is a good one, but first a little life recap! Raeann may have came back from her Mexico vacation paler than when she got there, but her relationship with Gabe has grown stronger. Raeann and Kristina share how they feel like they are glowing down, but apparently it’s a normal feeling in your early 30s so love that for us. Speaking of aging, Kristina got a 3D mirror image of her face and left with Botox recommendations and how to fix her tech neck. Also, Kristina drops that she is Taylor Swift’s muse?! One of her songs mentions an interview Kristina had with Travis Kelce and the Swifites are obsessed to say the least. Meanwhile, Raeann is fixated on the common theme that men never ask questions on dates and are just terrible conversationalists; the reason why is up for debate.    On today’s Ask Away, we give advice that will hopefully help you navigate your life dilemmas. Dating a short king can be an insecurity for some, but just own it! Rock the high heels and don’t be self-conscious about it. We also give our hot takes on how to get comfortable with flirting out in the wild. If you leave the RBF behind and give them a compliment about how much you love their shoes, you’ll be just fine. We share our thoughts on how to handle being friend-zoned and the best way to ask your friend to pay you back. You got this ladies, just be yourself and be confident!

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Today we sit down with Chelsea Blackwell to unveil what really went down during her time on Love is Blind, the Megan Fox debacle, and her dating life post Jimmy. Chelsea thought she didn’t say or do anything too crazy on the show that would bring unwanted attention, but little did she know that she would soon be roasted by America for saying Megan Fox is her celebrity doppelgänger. As she navigates this new life in the spotlight, she is handling the scrutiny with humor and grace while embracing exciting new opportunities with confidence. Chelsea gives her raw thoughts on the Love is Blind experiment, if she would do it again, and what really happens during a normal day in the pods. She opens up about her toxic relationship with Jimmy and the unexpected rollercoaster of emotions. As she reenters the dating scene, she is excited to see what happens and may even slide into some celebrity DMs. From being a jet-setting flight attendant to being a verified reality star, the world is truly your oyster and we cannot wait to see what’s next for you, Chelsea!   In other news, Raeann fills us in on her first vacation with Gabe! Other than Raeann ditching Gabe for TSA pre-check, it went swimmingly! Kristina and Raeann real talk about the dreaded bathroom sitch when traveling with your significant other. Are you a lobby bathroom or embrace the awkwardness type of person? Also, Raeann is still on the apartment hunt, apparently finding a place in NYC for under 10k/month is not an easy feat. And Kristina raves about her friend’s new movie, Musica, on Amazon. This is an episode you won’t want to miss, and if you haven’t seen Chelsea’s season of Love is Blind, we highlyyy recommend for a great binge-watch!

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In today’s solo episode, we talk about growing up as the bigger friend and the universal experiences we went through as a result. But before we dive in, we have to fill you in on a few things. Big steps were taken as Gabe met Raeann’s parents for the first time! There might have been a little chaotic family energy but we realized every family has a little crazy in them. Speaking of, how often do you talk to your parents?? Kristina’s trip to elusive Sarasota finally left the group chat. We also chat about the financial pressure of over-the-top bachelorette parties and similarly, the slippery slope over birthday dinners when the check comes. And of course, in pop culture news, Nick Viall’s reality recap podcast enlightens us with a male perspective about constantly critiquing your partner and the debate over proactive couple’s therapy.   If you’ve ever felt the anxiety that comes with writing down your extra-large t-shirt size in a room full of size smalls, this is for you. Being the big girl in the friend group or growing up as the bigger girl, we have had to endure many experiences that take a hit to our self-esteem. The defeating experience of prom dress shopping, not being able to share clothes with friends, and the feeling that no boys like you, were just some of the fun things we had to go through as the bigger friend. Raeann and Kristina also open up about how their families affected their body confidence, both the good and the bad. As we work through our past traumas, we learn to change our mindset and how we should talk to ourselves. This change in mindset was largely due to the body-positive movement in the media and seeing others embrace self-love at any size. Hype yourself up and fake it till you make it because you ARE hot! 

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We are thrilled to sit down with the inspiring plus-size content creator, Emma Arletta. She is the face behind the ‘Big Girls’ movement, is a prominent voice in the body confidence community, and is known to give great advice about dating as a plus-size woman. Emma delves into the dynamics of growing up with a thin mom and how her journey for self-love and confidence grew into what it is today. Finding confidence within yourself can be challenging, but it is so important to look within yourself to find what brings you fulfillment and joy outside of your looks. Emma talks about her transition from being a full-time Speech Therapist to a full-time content creator. She gives advice about personal branding and how to use your unfiltered voice to grow on social media. We also hear about her merch launch that sold out (!!) and how she is about to take the modeling world by storm! Emma opens up and offers refreshing advice on self-acceptance, relationships, and pursuing your dreams regardless of societal norms.    Speaking of relationships, Raeann and her boyfriend hard launched on social media and it accidentally went viral! If you’re curious about how they met, head over to Patreon for a full Q&A. Both Raeann and Kristina chat about how they want their partners to become influencers, like who doesn’t want more content of Steve?! Speaking of, Steve and his “Fyre Festival of easter egg hunts” comments definitely would’ve been a hit. This week’s obsessed with items revolve around pop culture, from JoJo Siwa’s cringe-worthy rebrand to The Valley and Kristina’s hatred of Jesse on the show. This episode featuring Emma Arleta offers incredible insights that we're obsessed with, and we hope you will be too!   

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Well, first things first. Raeann is filling us in on her and her boyfriend and expressing how she can be her weird self around him (*insert Olive Garden metaphor here*). Kristina chats about her stunning New Jersey home and how it got chosen for an insane remodel opportunity via an interior design magazine. Get the inside scoop, a full home tour, and more boyfriend gossip over on our Confidant Patreon if you haven’t already! In this episode, we also chat about the control social media has over us, the power of meditation and great therapists, and the shocking revelations about Jay Shetty.    In today’s Ask Away episode, Raeann and Kristina are dishing their thoughts and hard truths as they answer your questions. We tackle the complexities of being single, from how to navigate and embrace your single era to overcoming comparison and insecurities about your sex life or lack there of. We also drop some tough love which may be hard accept. But girl, cut ties with your ex and book a solo trip to Europe, and if you don’t hear from your boyfriend while they’re out of town, they don’t deserve you, period. Then we switch gears and talk about the anxiety-inducing topic of finances, and while we’re obviously not experts, just being more intentional and not booking bougie $100 lunches is a great place to start. We love connecting with our community and getting to give advice during these Ask Away episodes. See you soon on Patreon or stay tuned for next week’s episode! 

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Today we sit down with Lauren Chan, supermodel, Sports Illustrated rookie, and plus-size fashion designer (yes, she really does it all). Lauren is a prominent voice in the body-positive and self-love community and is truly redefining beauty standards across every avenue she ventures into. In our conversation, Lauren opens up about her trauma-driven pursuit of perfection, her self-discovery as a gay woman, and her inspiring journey post-divorce. We dive into her time as a Sports Illustrated rookie and how it is an incredible experience but it is also eye-opening to realize that every woman gets insulted for their own beauty standards and that there is no “perfect woman” in a man’s world. Lauren shares advice about how dressing for the female-gaze is the best thing you can do for your confidence and that you should curate your social media feeds with uplifting creators that make you feel inspired. From breaking beauty standards to navigating her passions, Lauren’s story shows us the importance of representation and to always stay true to yourself.   In other news, Raeann and Kristina launched Confidants yesterday!! Confidants is our new Patreon community that will be full of new solo episodes, first access to live events, a Discord channel, and so much more. We are SO excited for this new extension of The Confident Collective community. We also dive into Em Rata’s controversial divorce rings, swimming with no goggles on, and that Kristina finally fulfilled her dream of getting a partnership with Bravo! From talking with the brilliant Lauren Chan to dishing out the details of our Patreon, this is an episode you won’t want to miss!

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In this solo episode, we’re talking all about the craze behind Ozempic and of course, catching up with our girls. Kristina spills the tea about her bougie Aspen brand trip, meanwhile, Raeann had a much-needed low-key week. Kristina and Raeann chat about how drastically different their lives are now as Kristina talks about how special her first mother-son dance (aka rave) was. Raeann opens up about not feeling settled and her current existential crisis that she’s been trying to navigate. As for pop-culture references, we’re watching Summer House, binging The Traitors, and wondering where is Kate Middleton hiding! And we’re taking a poll — should Kristina be on The Real Housewives of New Jersey?   We’ve allll heard about it, seen ads for it, or know someone who’s on it. Yes, we’re talking about Ozempic, Wegovy, semaglutide. While some are tempted by its promises of thinness and a lack of food noise, others raise concerns about its long-term effects and the added societal pressure to conform to a narrow beauty ideal. We have made monumental strides forward as a society in the body-positive movement but overnight we’ve taken steps backward. Raeann mentions her fashion collaborations have dropped due to their lack of larger sizes available. A woman’s Roman Empire is their body and weight, so when praising and parading around this ideal that thinness is only a few injections away, this may have a negative effect on people in larger bodies and promote a negative stigma. There are so many sides and things to take into account with these drugs so by no means are we judging you if you are on them. Amidst this weight loss trend, we hope there’s a refocus on what really matters which is feeling and being healthy, nourishing your body, and loving the body you’re in, instead of constantly chasing a thinner body.  

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In this solo episode, we are chatting about spring trends and giving our honest opinions as true fashion connoisseurs. But before we get into it, Kristina and Raeann catch us up on what’s new. Kristina and Raeann unveil that they are both thriving in their fitness era — Kristina even signed up for a triathlon!! Raeann confesses her love for buffalo sauce, Kristina shares stories about her nanny, and the girls find agreement on ending friendships if they associate with disrespectful men. Also, does Kelly Clarkson know she’s the face of weight loss pills that are targeting old parents?!    As spring is just around the corner, we can’t WAIT to stash the puffers away until next winter. We analyze the hottest spring trends from dressy shorts to feminine rosettes. There is a slight departure from the long-time standing clean girl aesthetic, as we are seeing boxer shorts, funky glasses, and cheetah-print pants. Now, Raeann and Kristina are in debate about balloon jeans and mesh shoes, but it might just be all in how you style them. We dive into micro-trends and our current go-to fashion brands. Whatever trends you do or don’t participate in, just remember that cool girls rewear their clothes! Happy styling!

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We’ve all binged or heard about @ReesaTeesa and her 50-part TikTok series about her pathological liar husband, right? Well, let us introduce you to Raeann’s sister, Tory Langas, who’s about to open up about her 5-year relationship with a man who ended up being a sex addict and narcissist. The red flags started early on in their relationship when he lied about his age (hello, 16-year age gap), but was overlooked because of their love and pull towards one another. But the red flags kept piling up from fighting with family members to going to Vegas with his “ex” to not being able to hold down a job.🚨 His narcissistic tactics kept Tory on her toes to please him which ends in a huge hit to her self-esteem. After his lackluster proposal, enter Tinder girl and Tory’s new therapist. They opened her eyes, shattered the illusions, and made her start to trust her intuition because window shopping on Tinder is NOT okay.🤯 Amid deception and heartbreak, Tory stood up for herself and left the toxic relationship and we are SO happy for her and her new lovely life!!🤍 The takeaway is not to fall in love with the potential of someone and always trust your gut, ladies.    On a lighter note, Raeann and Kristina also fill us in on their tropical humid-filled vacations.🌴Raeann vents about her flight chaos and Kristina shares how Steve booked their Miami trip and the hiccups that entailed. Also, if Natural Cycles said you’ll be on a trip during your period would you move it?? Raeann did just that, but we know the swim content is going to be fire! This pod is full of twists and turns so buckle in and get ready for Tory to spill the tea.  

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In this Ask Away episode, love, dating, and relationships take center stage. But before we dive into your burning questions, did you know Raeann was in musical theater?! Apparently, Raeann and Mr. Jersey even break out into show tunes together which we love. Speaking of things we love, Kristina has been obsessing over love languages which also sparks the debate if returning gifts from a loved one is tacky or not. Rae and Kristina also chat about the planning it takes to get ready as a girl, the elaborate lies they told to impress boys in high school, and the fact that they have quite different dating philosophies. 

As we explore the intricacies of relationships through YOUR Ask Away questions, the ladies give their raw and juicy advice to help with your love life dilemmas. We tackle wedding planning drama and the controversial topic of tray-passed hors d’oeuvres to comparing yourself to your partner’s ex to getting your partner to be more intentional. Then we spice things up by talking about the dynamics of watching porn in a relationship, emphasizing the importance of realistic expectations and the allure of a 10/10 storyline, such as the art of baking bread. 🔥 Throughout the episode, Raeann and Kristina emphasize the importance of body confidence and self-love, encouraging deep talks, shared experiences, and maybe some ethical porn. As our Month of Love concludes, we hope you find self-love, embrace one another’s love languages, and spice things up in the bedroom. xoxo Raeann & Kristina 💕

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If you’ve found yourself saying “they hate me, it’s been 6 hours since my last text ” or if you run as soon as feelings start to brew, this episode is for you. Dr. Morgan, a relationship coach, is here to help us navigate through the four different attachment styles and give us advice on how to stop self-sabotage and break toxic relationship patterns. Get ready to get deep and vulnerable as we analyze past dating history and learn how to let go of unhealthy relationship beliefs. We also learn that certain attachment styles repeatedly attract each other which made the constant “you’re dating the same guy” spiral make so much sense. And remember, boundaries and self-worth is HOT. 🙌

As we enter week 3 of our Month of Love, also enter Mr. Jersey?! Yes, Raeann’s man now has a nickname which must mean they’re getting serious, right? 😍 Rae and Kristina also debate whether meeting the friends is a big deal or if the opinions on the man’s jorts is just creating unhelpful noise. Speaking of men and their icks, Travis Kelce anyone?! Meanwhile, Kristina is still obsessed with her cute little neighborhood and also found a new obsession for Nara Smith and her idyllic dream life. ☁️ Rae on the other hand is obsessed with the ‘starting over at 30’ side of TikTok...if you’re also feeling a quarter-life crisis coming on, you’re not alone. 

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We have a LOT to catch up on and we are going DEEP! Rae for one, drops the big “what are we” question, but does that mean they are official?! Meanwhile, Kristina is slaying the neighborhood mom scene, future Mayor Kristina D’Angelo anyone? We’re also spilling tea about the craziest shit we’ve ever done in relationships. Hint, it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗  We also chat about Rae’s wild Breckenridge girl’s trip, some recent troll comments, and the fact that Kristina is obsessed with Mike the Situationship. The girls are thriving and leaving that toxic energy behind. “42% of people in their 20s & 30s have never been in a relationship”. On week two of our Month of Love series, we’re talking about the inner struggles that come along with never having been in a relationship. In this rom-com generation, we expect good sex and prince-charming fairytales, but overcoming the fear of rejection and battling self-doubt can be daunting. Don’t worry, you’re not alone, the TCC community chimes in with their burning questions and insecurities about their lack of experience in the dating world. We’re here to be your hype women and tell you that you ARE hot, funny, and smart enough to land the person of your dreams. Being perpetually single isn’t a bad thing, if anything it’s kind of a turn-on. 💋✨

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Buckle in for the juiciest month of the year! Raeann opens up about being single for the past five years and how she’s learned to embrace and celebrate this era in her life. Kristina, drowning in NYC gloom, daydreams about Malibu beaches and for a minute contemplates a dramatic return to LA for a little sunshine. We also get into Kristina’s love for Vanderpump Rules (bonus episodes anyone 👀), influencers’ ever-evolving trends, and Travis Kelce’s freaky side. Now, as we kick off our month of love, let’s hear from a man’s perspective. Whether you’re anti-Valentine’s Day or a romantic at heart, comedian, Jared Freid, gives us his advice and hot takes on navigating the dating world. Jared has a Netflix special and a podcast talking all about this modern era of dating so he has experienced a thing or two. Get the lowdown on sliding into the DMs, how to stand out on the dating apps, and how to tackle the dreaded “what are we” question. We also chat about how confidence and being authentically yourself will only help you slay the dating scene.🔥 Are men like cabs? Are men intimidated by women who make more money? Is it harder to date as a curvy woman? Download the podcast, open Hinge, pour yourself a glass of wine, and let’s get into it!

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Kristina is filling us in on her new neighbor meetup and Raeann tells us about the MOST chaotic Pilates class she’s taken— no but really. You have to hear this story.  Then we’re getting a Dating Challenge Update from Rae … it’s a good one and we’re excited about it. Also, OSCAR NOMINATIONS are here and there are discussions to be had. So we will absolutely be talking about Barbie and its snubbing. 💅🏼🙃    Also, Raeann’s a Belieber and may or may not be making a public apology to SZA by the end of this ep. 🤷‍♀️   Finally, the ladies catch up with their artistic, entrepreneurial, and inspiring friend, Abby Price. We hear about the beauty and beginnings of hand-delivered dried floral arrangements, the building of her incredible store and business. To top it off, Abby’s also giving some insight and boots-on-the-ground wisdom the whole way through. She’s a boss building a great company and she’s inspiring. Oh and the timeline she did it in? It’s truly shocking. Get ready to feel like you had the best kind of espresso shot + a few belly laughs, a healthy kick in the pants, and an unexpected giggle or two. This one’s worth the download, just trust us!

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Okay, quick question for the class… is every single person on the earth on Ozempic? And Tom Holland and Zendaya didn’t break up, right? Because Kristina and Raeann have thoughts, questions, and opinions about it all. But before they dig into that, we’re going to get caught up on Raeann’s Vermont ski trip, WHICH may or may not have been her last. Ice is meant for drinks, not to ski on, ya know?    In other news, is Kristina made for the Mob Wife Aesthetic? Maybe she is and maybe she IS. Buckle up for a lively episode, no one’s holding back and there’s a lot of ground covered. Like, what’s got Raeann teary-eyed, is Kristina’s husband in the mob, and how important are intergenerational friendships?! Well, you’ll have to listen to find out!    Also, Kristina’s giving one of the best lines you’ve heard to use on the next annoying person you encounter. You won’t miss it. It’s an episode chock-full of goodness you don’t want to miss! 

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Well, first things first. Guess who hates Saltburn, Kristina or Raeann? Also, who is caught up on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City? Because Kristina has thoughts, STRONG ones at that. She believes one deserves an award while the other literally put her to sleep, in fact. 🤷‍♀️ Next up we’re getting some life updates and may or may not be hearing about a new crush, buttt you’ll have to 🎧 to find out! And don’t worry, we’re not skipping past Gypsy Rose … and the fact that her husband *MIGHT* look like her mom?! 😬 Raeann goes speed dating again and we get all the ☕️. What would YOU do if you were on a 10-minute date and it’s underscored by, “My Heart Will Go On” creating maybe the weirdest experiences ever?   This week’s ASK AWAY is a 👌🏼 one! Kristina and Raeann both have incredibly vulnerable, insightful, and wise advice to speak on dating in your 30’s after a breakup, growing your family, and having genuinely hard conversations with friends … especially where money’s concerned. Helpful and hilarious, enjoy!

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Raeann and Kristina are spilling the tea on everything that's been happening since the last episode -- 2024 is off to a wild start! From Raeann's January Dating Challenge (👀) to Kristina taking a wild polar plunge all by herself and all the trends that are IN and OUT in 2024. But the real icing on the cake? Alice Bell is back on the pod, and she's here to break down all things astrology! If you've been riding with TCC for a while, you know Alice Bell was the one who got Raeann hooked on astrology in the first place. Now, she's here to unpack the cosmic vibes of 2024 and how they're playing out in our everyday lives. Whether you're just dipping your toes into astrology or you're a full-blown astrology fanatic, this episode will have you locked in. Tune in for a laid-back chat with Raeann, Kristina, and the astro-expert Alice as they break down and make sense of 2024's cosmic vibes! 🌌✨

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What a year it’s been and what a fun episode to send us all into the Holidays! Today, we may or may not be getting some ☕️ *tea on the Golden Bachelor while Raeann fills us in on some circulating questions about the bachelor himself … not least of which, the pronunciation of “Gerry.” Then we get into Taylor Swift’s latest Vogue cover and some quotes to chew on, because obviously we must and we will! 👸 Before we start looking to the new year we have some dating recaps from Raeann, a solid story involving an un-called for Instagram blocking, along with some thoughts from Kristina on her own relationship with Steve and overall goals for the new year. We’re also getting therapy insights as Raeann vulnerably lets us in on her own journey. Therapy is no joke! Good thing there’s hilarious stories, sweet updates *like Christian’s projected height, and some really encouraging takeaways.  We really are so grateful for each of you and can’t wait to see you in January ‘24 with all new episodes, but until then, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!  What We Talk About:

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It’s a wonderful day for all our single and searching friends out there because we have Sixtine Rouyre in-studio dishing the goods! She’s dropping real dating-expertise, excel spreadsheets, some simple adjustments to your dating strategy and overall? - Just some confidence and chill we can all sit back and enjoy even if you're already cuffed! She’s giving us all some permission to be our most settled and authentic selves, to hide nothing on dates, and to find our own siren eyes … You’ll get it when you hear it.   But before we get into all that goodness, we’re first finding out what and *cough who* might be making Raeann a sports fan. In the end, Raeann and Kristina are entering their sports era and we are here for it! And then after announcing our Gift Bag Giveaway winner we obviously have to address the low-hanging garland in the room and #JusticeForSteve. What We Also Get Into: 

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We’re still recovering from our wonderful Friendsgiving Dinner and can’t wait to announce the winner of a free Goodie Bag, so make sure to subscribe to our stories so you don’t miss the announcement!  Now, we know you’re all dying to hear whether or not Raeann went out on THAT date we talked about last week … Well, let’s just say there was a shirtless selfie and some bad communication, do you think that was a dealbreaker for Raeann and would it be one for you?    Next we’re moving on to some Golden Bachelor and Golden Bachelorette Theories, of which there are a few … Is it going to be Leslie or Teresa and WHO is right for the first Golden Bachelorette? All of that aside, Kristina spent the first night at her new house and is filling us in on her favorite parts of the house, especially a shower and bathroom that sounds like a spa— heaven.    But the last half of this episode is devoted to YOUR questions and we’re tackling two great topics today: Old crushes in new environments and confidence in context to your friends.    What We Talk About: 

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Well our Confident Collective Friendsgiving was one for the books! We’re going to fill you in on our incredible night with awesome new friends, throbbing feet, a beautiful dinner, and we may even answer the age old question, “How many dirty martinis can Kristina order before the waiter tries to cut her off?” But before that, we’re catching you up on the day … which may or may not have included tears on New Jersey Transit, a euphoric cab ride, and a buccal massage— All before noon.    Raeann’s filling us in on the pre-Friendsgiving photo shoot drama and a pretty privilege joke that fell flat while also bringing us along for a Nightcap Adventure involving a pickle entrepreneur, raccoon eyes, and Lady and the Tramp. You’ll just have to listen to see what we mean! But the gist is that we had another wonderful night, just bringing women together, and we’re excited for much more.    And if you’re on board for some incredible goodies, you’ll not want to miss us going through our Holiday Gift Bag. We’ve got everything from Rose Inc. Eyelash Curlers to Kérastase and Orbe products, to Hero Cosmetics Mighty Patches and some wonderful Maybelline treats. The point is, you don’t want to miss a second!    What We Talk About:

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Finding an outfit you love and equally feel confident to rock at any party, get-together, or (in Kristina’s case) a gala, can be downright overwhelming. So we’re getting into it today! Before that though, we’re talking appropriate Christmas decorating times ... Someone may or may not already have a tree decorated and up in her house before her couch. Which, respect. Then getting into the meat of this ep, Kristina and Raeann are tackling an ongoing question and challenge for most of us— “How do you deal with dressing anxiety?”    The holidays mean prepping for all sorts of social functions, so why not eliminate future last-minute stress by sorting your fits now? Also, keep in mind that dressing up can be FUN; especially when you’re mixing textures, throwing in a feather here and there, for starters. Kristina and Raeann are giving solid advice and some practical ways to get ahead of all that potential holiday stress. We’re romancing our lives, remember? So let’s have some fun and feel good doing it together!   What We Talk About:

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Navigating any food conversations with your person or potential partner can be tense and tricky. We each have a very different relationship with food but that doesn’t mean we can’t come to the conversation from a level place and not with a grenade-of-opinion in our hand. That’s why we’re so glad to have Rosie back with us to help answer a listener’s question about this very thing. The best part? We all heard the question a bit differently so you’re really going to get a variety in perspectives today!   We also get to hear about Raeann’s trip to Vegas, XS, eye-surgery update and a surprise Diplo show. This may or may not have subsequently led to an urgent care pit-stop on her way out of town to Paris. And don’t worry, we’re getting the details on what may be the perfect hookup, anddd some other possible vacation romances. Meanwhile, Kristina’s having a bit of a time getting settled after her big move and some disappointing school visits, lack-luster ferries, and a not-so-reliable babysitting situation. But she’s trusting the process! So gear up, we’ve got a great ep for you!    “Just like you don’t talk about your sex life in bed, don’t talk about your eating habits at the table.” -Raeann Langas   What We Talk About:

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Today, I’m flying solo (Kristina here) because Raeann’s a bit under the weather. Vegas must’ve been a 👌🏼 time, right? But get excited because we’ve got a great Relationship Ask Away Ep for you … and trust me, these questions are GOOD. But before we get there, I want to process a bit and catch you up on my life.   It’s easy to question every decision we make, even when we know we’re making the right one. Hi, it's me. It’s also quite easy to be more anxious than excited when you’re in the middle of a big change. Also me. But accepting the change, settling into it, and owning it allows us to get truly excited. Or at least that’s what I’m learning. Let's get into it.    What I Talk About: 

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For us, getting into the Fall season means feeling refreshed and energized for the changing weather, early nights, and straight-up hibernating. But when the sun gets up after you and sets before you’re done with work, how do you find small ways to make special moments and truly enjoy your “Main Character Energy”? We’ve got you covered. Beyond that, Kristina’s telling us what an epic story about a magical Tesla, lost purse, and white fig tree have to do with knowing THIS house was her house. Then we have to talk about the Beckham documentary, how good it is, and how they may have one of the greatest love stories of all time? Which means we obviously have to talk about the Spice Girls. One of us is Scary Spice and the other Posh ... But can you guess which is which?    What We Talk About: 

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We could all use a little more Big Sis Energy in our lives; Malia Alexis and Kenzie Grace are here to show how to do just that! We were blown way by the authentic confidence and joy that Malia and Kenzie brought to the table for this discussion! Kenzie and Malia are Tiktok sensations and podcast hosts of the new show, Big Sis Energy! If you don't know, they are two sisters *one year and a day apart* whose creativity and infectious energy have taken the TikTok world by storm. With a combined following of millions, Malia and Kenzie bring a fresh, positive and engaging presence to TikTok. Join us in this episode as we delve into their journey to stardom, exploring their relationship as sisters, and learn from their genius creative minds. We also discuss:

We have a super exciting update for you in today’s episode: Kristina’s moving! Listen to this episode to find out where she’s moving, how she finally made the decision on East vs West Coast, what she’s most looking forward to, what she’s leaving behind and all the in between. There is a lot of great advice about making big life decisions in this episode, reflecting on how far you’ve come to celebrate your evolution, ignoring the noise of other people’s opinions and navigating new phases of life. Plus, hear all about how Raeann’s recent ptosis surgery went, Kristina and Steve’s couples vacation to the Bahamas, and why we are obsessed with The Golden Bachelor.

Being comfortable is okay, going back to your people is okay. You're not regressing by doing what you want and what feels right to you. - Kristina Zias

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When you put yourself in a new environment, you feel a little bit more inspired, creative, and you just start seeing things in a new way. So I think it's just going to be a really exciting new chapter for your family. - Raeann Langas

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Are you overwhelmed by all the skincare products out there, or even in your current lineup? Are you tempted to buy every viral product you see on TikTok? Same, so that’s why we invited Skin by Gill on the podcast to help us simplify our routines by identifying what’s really important and will work best for our unique skin types. Gill is a licensed esthetician and content creator, and helped Raeann simplify her routine with products that don’t cost more than $30. So, we knew we had to invite her on the podcast to share her tips and tricks!

This episode is full of really practical and helpful information about how to take care of your skin in the most effective, affordable ways. We talk about foods and lifestyle habits that influence your skin, how to use retinol, the most important steps in your skincare routine, what at-home devices are really worth the investment, how to repair a damaged skin barrier, clean beauty and so much more. Plus, Gill shares her favorite brands and products for every step of your routine. There's truly just so much amazing information in this episode so make sure to save this episode and share it with a friend!

“People tend to not think about sunscreen as an anti-aging product, maybe just a preventative, but if you don't have the sunscreen aspect, it's like your skin going into do not disturb mode.” - Gill Mils

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“Skincare obviously matters but it's not the number one thing that's going to impact your skin. Stress is so much more important than skincare is.” - Gill Mils

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We’re feeling all sorts of chaotic and while it’s bad for our sanity, it’s good for the podcast! Catch up with us in this episode on how we’re feeling post NYFW. We’re sharing some crazy stories about what we’ve been dealing with behind the scenes, some inspo Kristina got from a recent wellness and entrepreneurship panel, and how it’s been for Raeann to dip her toes back in the dating pond. Then, we’re answering your questions about dealing with boyfriend mama drama, friends flaking on your wedding, not feeling the pressure to “snap back” after having a baby and how to get in the right mindset to find clothes that are comfortable, cute and affordable.

Stop placing value on an arbitrary number like the size of your jeans or like the size of your dress. That literally means nothing because it's so different in every single brand. This fashion week, I wore a size large. I wore a size 2X. I wore a size 12. I wore a size 18. Who the hell cares? It literally means nothing about your self worth. So if you need to go up in size, go up in size. - Kristina Zias

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I try so many things that don't work to find things that fit, and then it becomes like a practice. - Raeann Langas 

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No matter how confident you are, being fat shamed still hurts. Whether it’s intentional or not, overt or covert, no one wants to be fat shamed. It's such a sucky feeling and after talking to our friend Rosie recently about an experience involving fat shaming on a plane, we’re left to wonder, why does this still happen? Why is being called fat such a diss and insult? And why do people think it's okay to say that? 

So, today we’re diving into the root of fat phobia, size stereotypes, and why the term 'fat' is still weaponized as an insult. We’re reflecting on the fat shaming experiences that we've had, how they’ve shaped our confidence, what we’ve learned from them, how to handle these situations, and ultimately how to overcome these negative comments. Remember that you don't have to be a certain size to be confident to be happy.

This might be controversial to say, but for so long I have been saying your life isn't going to be perfect if you lose weight, right? But the sad reality is that people do treat you better and a lot of things are better. - Raeann Langas

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The most insidious thing about fat shaming is that so much of it is done in an undertone way. - Rosie Richardson

Where my confidence comes in is, fuck you guys, I'm successful in the body I am right now, and I think I'm confident because I was able to prove them all wrong. - Kristina Zias

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Your curvy girls hit up NYFW for the first time and honestly, it was so much fun! We shared a lot of the BTS in real time, but nothing compares to getting all the juicy details in this episode. We’re sharing our POV on the Victoria Secret fashion show, Fashion Media Awards, and the star-studded VIP after parties we attended. Although we had a great time at the events and showing off our curvy style, the highlight was definitely getting to spend lots of quality time together! Hear all about it, plus the fall fashion trends we’re loving, in the new episode.

“Wear what you feel most comfortable in no matter what. No matter what the dress code is, no matter what is cool or not, because if you feel confident in your outfit, you'll be able to have the most fun night ever.” - Kristina Zias

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 “A lot of these things are smoke and mirrors. When you think like, ‘Oh my god, this person's doing this. It's so cool.’ In reality, they're begging to go on this carpet.” - Raeann Langas

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Welcome back to another Ask Away episode where we’re giving our advice on everything from style challenges to conflict in relationships! We’re sharing how the preparation for Fashion Week is going as stylish mid size girlies and we must admit, it hasn’t been easy finding clothes we love that come in our size. Then we’re giving advice on how to resolve conflicts in relationships; whether it’s a friend fight or drama with your partner or family. We talk about the realities of dating in the app age, and how we’d go about defining the relationship. Finally, Kristina gives some amazing advice for new mamas looking to restore confidence postpartum. If you have a situation you need our help with, make sure to submit it for our next episode here. The juicier the better, and we love helping you out in any way we can!

I have had a serious friendship breakup. The one thing that bothers me the most about it is that I feel like I didn't fight hard enough for that friendship. - Kristina Zias

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Where the problem arises, especially in friendships, is when you don't say anything and you let those things build up over time. - Raeann Langas

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Charlie Ann Max, a creative director, curve model, and chef, founded The Fude Experience to celebrate authenticity through food, art, and nudity. Dedicated to destigmatizing nudity, she creates safe spaces for deep connection and self-exploration, advocating for transformation through vulnerability and self-love.

In this episode she talks about what led her to explore practicing nudity and how it has helped her get in touch with her body and feel more comfortable in her skin. She shares her intention behind The Fude Experience, how these naked dining events came to be and why it's been a life-changing experience for so many people. We get into the stigma around nudity, and tips to start being more comfortable and confident naked. She also points out how your relationship with yourself translates to how you interact with others, reminding us to treat ourselves with love and respect.

If you’re interested in learning more about The Fude Experience, you’ll hear all about what to expect from the application process to the event itself in this conversation. Make sure to check out their website for upcoming dates! 

If this episode inspires you to start practicing nudity at home or with trusted friends, we’d love to hear more about how the experience impacts your confidence and connection to your beautiful body.

The act of being naked represents letting go, surrender, you're peeling back your layers to your most vulnerable point. And I believe when we have strength in our vulnerability, that is the strongest we can be and the best we can be. - Charlie Ann Max 

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Our bodies are so beautiful, And each time we force ourselves to say that, we start to recognize how beautiful we actually are. And when we put that on for ourselves, we can put that on for other people. - Charlie Ann Max

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Raeann is 30 & thriving! As she confidently enters a new decade, she’s sharing 10 takeaways from her 20s in this episode; from relationships to self confidence to friendships to career – she's sharing what she's learned in the last decade that is making her so excited for this next phase of life. Raeann shares how she’s feeling about this milestone birthday, and all the wisdom she’s gained in her twenties to bring into her thirties. We talk about her birthday plans, and Kristina shares what turning 30 has taught her, and a little more about what you can expect in this decade of life. If you’re turning 30 soon or have recently entered your 30s, this episode is for you! Let us know any wisdom or insight you’d like to share on Instagram at @confidentcollective.  

I feel so at peace with turning 30. I feel so excited for what's next in my 30s. I feel like the 20s were really like a time where I did the dirty work and set the groundwork. Now in my thirties, I feel like I'm getting to know myself so much better, and I'm just really, really excited. - Raeann Langas

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I think that for me, your 30s are more about trusting yourself and knowing that all the experience you've had so far that you had it in you to do whatever you want to do. You're absolutely capable and you don't really need permission from anyone else. - Kristina Zias

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Raeann has been having a lot of conversations with friends lately about the shift in her mentality around casual sex, so we thought we’d bring in Rosie to help us unpack and navigate this topic in case any of you are going through similar experiences. We talk about what Raeann learned in her “hoe phase” enjoying casual sex and why she has no regrets. We talk about the emotional and physical implications of casual sex that caused Raeann to rethink her relationship with it, and enter her “celibate era.” Join us as we dive into what her siren summer looks like dating without having sex right away, and what having casual sex taught her about herself. This episode is a no judgment zone as, and we hope this conversation highlights your right to reclaim your sexual freedom and individual relationship to sex in your current phase of life, but to always make sure it feels good for you.

I feel like I've come into that phase of my life where, as I've been dating recently, I have been waiting much, much longer or not doing it at all. I do feel like I have that power. I'm choosing who gets to have access to this part of me. - Raeann Langas

What We Talk About:

I've always thought, if you want to have sex with me, do you know how fucking lucky you have to be? And I feel like that is the attitude and value that maybe we need to all have. - Kristina Zias

As women we’re told if you sleep with x amount of people, you're a slut. It feels like a necessary thing to shake that off and find your freedom. I think you needed to have that experience of going down that path to realize, actually...Maybe I don't want all of that freedom, I just wanted to know that I could have it should I choose. - Rosie Richardson

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Join us on the latest episode of Confident Collective as we dive deep into the world of pop culture scandals and trends! Raeann spills the tea on the Love Island UK finale, while we both chime in on the Barbie movie magic. The Ariana Grande + Spongebob storyline is too wild to not get into, so we share our POV on the sticky situation. Plus, find out more about the unforgettable moments at the Cardi B and Miranda Lambert shows, and the scandalous Alix Earle incident in Montauk that has the internet buzzing. And just when you thought it couldn't get crazier, Kristina opens up about the spirit haunting her house. Remember, it's all in good fun! Slide into our DMs with your thoughts!

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Today we are excited to sit down with our friend, Khaylah Epps, the voice behind the podcast I Might Die Alone. In her podcast, she celebrates women who are defining their lives beyond their relationship status and dives deep into the dichotomy of wanting romantic love, but also not letting that absence consume us.

In this episode we talk to Khaylah about her journey of decentering romance in her life and what that has looked like for her. We talk about her desperate era and experience being on The Bachelor, her ultra independent era, and how she’s landed in her current gray era; finding a good balance between wanting a romantic relationship without letting that desire become the center of her life. Khaylah shares beautiful insight and advice about the difference between being single and being alone, why there shouldn’t be a hierarchy of relationships, and navigating friendships with people in all phases of life.

We're so excited for you to hear this episode and encourage you to check out Khaylah’s podcast, I Might Die Alone, if you enjoy or relate to this conversation!

What I'm challenging is the idea of obsessing over a romantic relationship and saying that it is the most important relationship for you to find in this lifetime. I just disagree with it. I think it's beautiful but I think so many other relationships are beautiful as well, and there should be no hierarchy. - Khaylah Epps

What We Talk About:

Having really intimate romantic friendships is so important. A community of women has brought so much fulfillment to my life in the last three years that I've been single. I would not be able to survive without my girlfriends. - Raeann

Being in a relationship isn't like the end all be all. We need to stop at this linear definition of what is a happy partnership because that's different for everyone. - Kristina

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We're kicking off Leo season with a fun and fiery episode of The Confident Collective! We're totally crushing on some famous Leos, Kristina’s sharing what she learned in her insightful astrology reading highlighting how important it is to tune into your intuition and trust your gut. We're also spilling the tea on our latest obsessions - The Golden Bachelor & The Summer I Turned Pretty. But it's not just about us, we're also digging into YOUR questions. We're tackling relationship etiquette (what's up with boyfriends hogging first class?), sharing our thoughts on the trending ozempic and body size discussions, and giving our two cents on how to move on from a one-sided crush. Plus, we're sharing our secrets on how we muster the confidence to show up as our real, authentic selves daily on social media. So, get ready for a ton of laughs, real talk, and a dose of self-love!

We have to learn how to stop putting so much of our self-worth into the hands of other people. - Raeann

What We Talk About:

When you're fearing judgment, you're worried about what people are thinking of you that literally don't matter in your life. Because the people that matter, the people that care about you, that respect you, are going to be proud of your hustle, are going to be proud to see you trying something different and excited for you and hoping that you succeed. So you have to stop worrying about the thoughts of others who literally don't matter. - Kristina

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It’s no secret that the patterns and behaviors that were modeled to us in our families growing up influences our confidence. Establishing the who, what, where and why of how we were raised is so important when you're trying to change patterns that are no longer serving you. In this conversation, Raeann, Kristina and Rosie talk about each of their own experiences growing up and the messages they received about confidence and body image. We talk about what helped instill confidence in us, what might be affecting us still today in how we feel about ourselves, and what we want to change for future generations.

We recognize that perfection isn’t the goal, and every generation before did the best they could within the culture they also were raised in. But it’s important to recognize that we have the power to reclaim what confidence looks like for us now. We hope this conversation will show that while we can’t control our past, we can break the cycle and show the next generation what confidence really looks and feels like.

“It's really important to have those dialogues with your families because I know I'm not the only one whose families comment on their bodies and make them feel a certain way. I think that you have to express how you feel, let it go, set your boundaries and then choose to ignore it because how they feel about themselves does not need to be a reflection on how you feel about yourself.” - Kristina

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“I don't want my progressions in life to be limited to the status quo of what is normal within, whether it be my family or my friendship circles or whatever. I've had to take time as an adult to be comfortable being an individual.” – Rosie

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Get ready for a super fun catch up episode where we share what we’ve been excited about lately. We get into our summer travel plans as Kristina prepares for her last West Coast summer & Raeann prepares for her 30th birthday festivities. Hear about a recent astrology and tarot reading Raeann had that gave her interesting insight about a future relationship. Then, we share some of our favorite beige flags we’ve seen and confess our own beige flags. There’s so much to look forward to this summer, and we talk about movies we’re excited to watch on the big screen, weigh in on Kardashian sibling drama and spill the beans on some of our own wild stories about how our siblings make us feel psycho. Long story short: we’re crazy & you’re going to love how we let it out in this episode.

“Honestly, summer travel plans can give me a little bit of anxiety because I always feel like you're supposed to plan those epic adventures, and it's like, wait, what is an epic adventure? Why do I feel like I have to go to a different country? Why do I feel like I have to be in Europe over summer otherwise I'm having a mediocre summer? No, summer is what you make of it. You choose your own adventure. - Kristina”

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"My beige flag is that it is very rare these days that I take the flight that I actually booked. I don't know if it's a commitment issue. I'm always switching. I change my flight probably eight out of 10 times." - Raeann

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Victoria Browne is known for keeping it real all around on social media, which is incredibly refreshing in an online world of filters & FaceTune. Although showing up authentically has always been part of her brand, navigating her own personal evolution in front of millions has been challenging at times. If you love following Victoria, you’re about to get to know her on another level in this episode as we explore how she went from a former D-1 athlete to Ted Talk speaker and content creator who has amassed over 1.5 million followers on social media. She's also the voice behind the Real Pod podcast, and you can check out our episode on her show as well! 

Victoria became widely known after exposing the rampant use of filters on social media and to this day sheds light on the mental harm it can cause when we’re comparing ourselves to unrealistic expectations. Having her own story of feeding into that narrative, she’s a role model for so many women to embrace your body exactly the way it is, and how you can change your relationship with your body to be more positive. 

With transparency and relatability being at the top of the list of things we love about her, the topics she shares on her page are constantly evolving along with her. On today's episode, we’re learning how Victoria is entering her wrecking ball era and being even more unapologetically herself. Victoria shares her experience as an athlete in relation to her struggles with binge eating and perfectionism, how she’s currently trying to overcome people-pleasing, how she navigates tough conversations with friends and maintains her long-distance female friendships, and what success looks like for her now.

I want to feel more confidence and assurance and abundance in my own life so that I'm not as affected by what other people are doing.  - Victoria Browne

What We Talk About:

Everything I do is really rooted in being true to myself. I'm so grateful for that because even if I don't feel like showing up online, that is my content for the day, describing why I'm not feeling good. I think I'm able to continue to evolve, and I hope my platform continues to look different. - Victoria Browne

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We are so freaking excited to introduce our new series, Going Deeper with Rosie, where we are going to dig a little deeper into more vulnerable and super important topics we really care about. We have brought on the perfect person for the job, our dear friend Rosie. Honestly this girl has a way with words. Whenever we’re having an issue in our lives or if we’re really struggling with something Rosie helps us navigate through our feelings and we always leave the conversation feeling so much better. We hope this series provides a deeper connection, understanding and exploration of ideas that influence our confidence, and ultimately help us become more confident in ourselves.

In this episode, we’re diving deeper into the complex issue of weight loss: Why does it feel like everyone is losing weight right now? Is it a bad thing to want to lose weight? Are we allowed to be in bigger bodies and feel healthy and strong? We talk about our personal thoughts and journeys around weight loss as women who love being in bigger bodies, and explore how we can connect more deeply to our own individuality and values. Community and representation play a huge role in this journey for us, and we hope this podcast will help you feel less alone if you’re struggling with the same thing. We may not have all the answers, but we’re not afraid to go there and be honest with how we’re feeling now. 

Make sure to let us know what topics you want us to dive deeper into with Rosie next month by sending us a DM on Instagram @confidentcollective! 

There are certain things I still want to be able to grab ahold of in my body and I do not want them to disappear because they have been a part of my journey of coming home to myself.  I fought really hard to want to exist in this body, so I want to lose weight right now, but I do not want to erase myself. - Rosie

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I am trying to balance this line. I feel like I'm doing what I need to do to take care of my body and feel good while simultaneously seeing so many people, on social media and in real life, losing so much weight. - Raeann

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Our summer kickoff pool party exceeded all of our expectations! We’re excited to share our favorite moments and takeaways from the event in this episode. It was so empowering and exciting to see women of all shapes and sizes feel comfortable and confident lounging by the pool and meeting new friends. Thank you so much for coming, for all of your support, and for being such amazing members of our community. We're obsessed with you guys and can't wait to do it again!

We’re also answering three of your questions in an Ask Away segment, sharing our advice for easing wedding-day pressure, tips for getting back into a fitness routine, and ways to feel more comfortable investing in your wardrobe.

“One of the girls was saying, ‘You know when you're drunk in a club bathroom and all the girls are like hyping each other up and it's just the best positive energy? That is what the whole event felt like.’ That was so special. That was so sweet.” - Raeann

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“I could not believe at the after party how many people seem like they've been best friends forever. I couldn't get over the fact that they just met a couple hours ago at our party.” - Kristina

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We're very excited to have a role model of ours, founder and CEO of Knix Joanna Griffiths, on the podcast! Joanna is a Canadian entrepreneur and launched Knix in 2013. She's honestly revolutionized the industry with her leak proof underwear, and they have now expanded into apparel and to swim. Knix is one of the first brands to ever use real people of all ages and sizes on their website and marketing, and it’s because Joanna truly believes all women should be seen. 

In this conversation you’ll learn more about her entrepreneurial journey, how she built the Knix brand with innovation, community and inclusion in mind, challenges she faced, how she handles change and how she balances being a mom and CEO. She is a testament to not living life safe, and is all around super inspirational. It's clear that Joanna cares so much about her brand, her vision, and most importantly the community. No matter where you are in your life, you're going to learn so much from her story. 

"We have this mantra at Knix which is safe is risky, and sometimes the riskiest thing in the world is to play it safe. And that's how we feel right now. There are so many different brands, there's so many options. How are we really gonna connect with our customers and make them know that we're different? And to do that we have to take risks." - Joanna Griffiths

What We Talk About:

"At the core of Knix, we believe that the most aspirational thing in the world is to like yourself and to be comfortable with who you are. And ultimately we're all just in pursuit of that." - Joanna Griffiths

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We are so excited to be back with you after a short hiatus! We are feeling refreshed and so ready to be back on the mic. We missed the Confident Collective community, and are excited to finally catch you up on everything that’s been going on in our lives over the past couple of months. We also share all the exciting details of our Los Angeles pool party happening on June 17th, what to expect if you’re coming and some outfit recipe ideas to help you feel so confident in a swimsuit. Finally, if you’ve been feeling the “change for summer” pressure or trends on social media, we’re here with an important reminder to do you and don’t buy into this mentality.

“You don't need to change everything about yourself before summer. Just keep doing you and live your life. You don't need to change your body for summer. Don't get caught up in this trap of having to do a complete 180 of your life before June.” - Raeann

What We Talk About:

“When it comes to swimsuits, you need two different ones; one that you just automatically feel confident in the second you put on it, and the other one is one that you feel great in, but you could also move around more in. Maybe it's a little bit more supportive, maybe it has a little bit more coverage.” - Kristina

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The burnout is real, you guys. Both Raeann and Kristina have been going through a lot this year; having a baby and moving to a new city. They have recently recognized that maintaining their current workload is causing them to neglect their mental health. We believe in listening to your gut and that it is important to take time to rest, so, we’re taking a break from the podcast for the next couple of months to recharge. We hope you understand that it was a really hard but necessary decision, and we’ll be back with a new episode on June 6th! 

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“It's the manifesting generator in me that feels like I can do everything, I have so much energy, I can do it all. And I feel like I have been doing it all, but at a cost. I feel like at that cost was my sanity. I think I need a moment to like really slow down and be present." - Kristina Zias

We also talk about…

“When I am just going, going, going, that is not in alignment with how I best function and how I feel the most inspired and most creative. Also we're in an interesting job where we are our job and I'm so thankful for that, but at the same time, I feel like between TikTok, Instagram, and the podcast, I have nothing left to give.”  - Raeann Langas

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The sun has come out, spring has sprung, and we’re ready for a closet refresh! In this episode we’re looking at the top spring and summer fashion trends for 2023 and sharing what we’re most excited to wear in the upcoming seasons. We’re ready to embrace new textures, colors and silhouettes; from festival season favorites like coastal cowgirl and mermaid core, to closet staples like maxy skirts to more playful pieces like floral appliques on shoes, get all you need to know to feel confident and look so chic when the warmer weather comes.

We also share our favorite products that help us feel more comfortable in our clothes, and tips for modifying trends to fit your own personal style. You all are gonna be looking so chic this spring and summer and we can't wait to see you incorporate these trends!

“If you want to be more confident, you don't have to copy these things exactly. If you see an outfit you want to recreate, take the essence of it or the part that you feel inspired by and give it your twist and incorporate it into your wardrobe. Take the inspiration and then let your little creative juices be free.” - Raeann Langas

We also talk about…

“Something else I'm really excited about making a comeback is so much silver jewelry. I have been wearing a lot more silver lately and I love it. And I feel like for a while, everyone was doing more dainty jewelry, but now statement earrings are back in such a big way. And I think that's really exciting." - Kristina Zias

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Welcome Greek Goddess, curve model, and content creator Ella Halikas to the show! Ella shares our mission to help other women feel confident in their skin, and turned her biggest dream into a reality by becoming a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Model in 2021. We admire Ella’s confidence and her ability to go after her goals with determination and grace. She reminds us that we get to our big goals by focusing on our passion, and striving to be our best self every day. 

Today she is sharing her best advice for setting boundaries with family members when it comes to conversations about weight, building “delusional” confidence, overcoming fear of failure, setting goals while avoiding burnout, and how rejection breeds resilience. We discuss dating as curvy women, and the self-worth struggles we are working through. We also talk about what it’s really like working as a full-time curve model, and the exciting project she will be releasing soon. We are grateful to Ella for sharing her wisdom and experience, and know you’re going to love this conversation!

“I think that having confidence really means wanting to be better than who you were yesterday. I'm always striving to be the best version of myself in all different facets.” - Ella Halikas

We also talk about:

“We grow and we learn so much from our failures. I learn the most about myself, about what I can achieve, how I can handle situations, when I fail, when I lose, when I get rejected, when I get told no, when I get dropped from agencies, when I don't get the job anymore. Don't let that stop you because literally on the other side of failure is the win.” - Ella Halikas

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Constantly losing things? Unfortunately. Always thinking someone is either mad at or obsessed with us? Most likely. Thinking that money is no object at the airport? Guilty. In this episode, we’re exposing all of our toxic traits and share some top offenders submitted by listeners. In summary, we're all toxic AF, but to be honest, we have no desire to change our toxic traits. It's fun to laugh at ourselves, so let’s accept them and keep doing what we're doing, okay?

Plus, Kristina shares some exciting family news and updates us on if she is planning on moving to the east coast. Raeann gives Kristina reasons why moving to NYC could have a positive impact on her career, shares an update about how she’s thriving in the city, and we talk about our current obscure Tik Tok holes. 

“Another really bad toxic trade of mine is how often I lose things.” - Kristina

“My top toxic trait is thinking everyone’s in love with me.” - Raeann

We also talk about:

Kristina: “This is someone's toxic trait in his mind as well: My phone is always about to die.”

Raeann: “That is a toxic trait about people that really annoys me. How was your phone always dying? Do you not have a charger? This is 2023.” 

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We’re sure you already know and love today’s guest, Olivia Noceda! Olivia has had an alcohol-free lifestyle for the past 15 months, so we invited her on the podcast to share her experience and to explore the concept of sober curiosity. Olivia shares her personal journey with sober curiosity and why she decided to cut out alcohol. We discuss the similarities between the sober curious movement and diet culture, and the red flags to be aware of. We also talk about the correlation between alcohol and hookup culture, and how to navigate dating while sober curious. 

Raeann and Kristina both open up about their own relationships with alcohol and share real-time reflections about why they drink. As Raeann has recently experienced, living in a drinking culture like NYC can be challenging for those who are exploring an alcohol-free lifestyle, so Olivia shares some great tips for going out and feeling more comfortable not drinking. We also delve into the potential effects on friendships and relationships and provide advice for those who want to stop drinking but are worried about the impact it could have on their social life.

Join us for this enlightening, honest conversation as we explore the growing shift towards sober curiosity and the importance of asking ourselves how alcohol does or doesn’t serve us in this phase of life. Regardless of what you choose, remember to always do what’s best for you, and that trusting yourself is loving yourself. P.S. Don’t forget to head to Olivia’s website and Instagram to try out some of her delicious mocktail recipes!

“The questions I started asking myself were; how does alcohol serve me? What is it to me in my life and what is my relationship with it? With no judgment, I'm not judging myself, I just want to know what it is. And very simply, I had nothing good to say about it. I just started to realize that there was nothing really positive that it was bringing into my life.” - Olivia Noceda

What We Talk About:

What does “sober curious” mean?

Why Olivia explored sober curiosity to begin with

Similarities between sober curiosity and diet culture

Questions to ask yourself if you’re starting to become sober curious

Tips for living in a drinking culture like NYC while sober curious

Navigating dating while sober curious

Kristina’s reflections on her relationship with alcohol

Why Raeann feels influenced to drink more than she’d like to

How cultural influences play a role in our relationship with alcohol

Signs alcohol may be a problem for you

Why there’s a culture shift towards sober curiosity right now

Advice for people who want to stop drinking alcohol but are worried about how it will affect friendships and relationships

The correlation between alcohol and hookup culture

Tips for going out and feeling more comfortable not drinking

“I feel there's obviously a lot of judgment for people who don't drink, but I also feel like there's a lot of people who don't drink who judge those that do. We all need to have a little bit more fair play and more respect for everyone's life choices, no matter what they are.” - Kristina Zias

“When you are following what you desire and what you are interested in and bettering your life, you're basically weeding out people who aren't aligned with your values and your mission. And that's just going to be better for you in the long run. So in the short term, it can be scary, but I think you have to look ahead to the long, long term goal. - Raeann Langas

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The audacity! We’re laughing but it’s actually ridiculous, the shit men say. And honestly, no one gets more random, crazy shit said to them than us. We’re sharing personal stories about the most insane things men have said to us; from commenting on our size, to the way we walk, to how our eyes look. Then, we share some of the most unhinged things our TCC listeners have heard from men. We can’t imagine what’s going through their minds to make these comments, but they sure as hell have made for funny stories. Whether they don’t know how ridiculous they sound or simply don’t care, let’s take this opportunity to collectively call them out on their BS.

“I think one of the most ridiculous things that someone said to me was when I was walking into Gelson's, which is a grocery store in LA, the security guard goes, ‘Damn girl, you walking like you’re about to fuck somebody up.’ And I was like, excuse me?” - Kristina

What We Talk About:

How Raeann’s move-in process is going

What life’s like for Kristina now as a mom of 2

Confessions of a breastfeeding mama

What’s really impeding on Raeann’s vibe in NYC

Kristina’s hair dilemma

Crazy shit men have said to us

Crazy shit men have said to YOU

“The amount of times I've been stopped on the street by random men, just so they can call me big, I can't even keep track.” - Raeann

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Get ready for one of our most requested guests, Mikayla Nogueira! If you don't already know who she is, Mikayla is a makeup artist and beauty content creator that has amassed an insane digital following with over 14 million TikTok followers and over 2.5 million Instagram followers. She shares everything from “Get Ready with Me” videos to beauty tutorials and transformations to her new home and her life with her fiance.

In today's episode, we talk about everything Mikayla has accomplished in her career at only 24 years old; from working at Ulta to now being a full-time content creator. We also talk about the online hate and criticism she's received, how it takes a toll on your mental health and how she's established her confidence over the past couple years. Overall, we think you're really gonna love this episode. We know so many of you follow and admire her, and hope you enjoy getting to know her on another level.

“ When people say, ‘Mikayla, you're my favorite body positivity influencer,’ I don't think that's fair to say because I do struggle with an eating disorder and because I don't believe I'm the most body positive. I try to be realistic about it where yes, I have grown confident in myself, but not every day is perfect for me.” - Mikayla Nogueira

What We Talk About:

How old she was when she posted her first YouTube video

The job & school plans she had when the pandemic hit in 2020

What happened when she posted her first viral video

Advice for people who want to put themselves out there but are afraid to

How to cope with having so many eyes on you

How she handled “getting canceled”

How she deals with online hate

Mikayla’s confidence journey and why she developed an eating disorder

What she does for self-care or to make herself happy

Her go-to look off camera that makes her feel hot aka “the mikayla look”

Inside her relationship with Cody: how they met and why they work so well

The one product she would choose if she could only use one

Her dream brand collab

Dream celebrity to work with and what type of look she’d do

Her dreams and goals for the future

“In that moment I was like, ‘Am I gonna lose all my followers? Is my career over? Am I no longer gonna have any opportunities? Are people not gonna wanna watch me anymore?’ All those fears I had about negativity, that whole situation just proved me wrong. People will constantly try to take you down, but you just keep going and don't let it change who you are.” - Mikayla Nogueira

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Baby boy number 2 has arrived! It’s so wild what an adventure pregnancy and labor and delivery are. There’s so many highs and lows and ALL THE EMOTIONS but with the absolute best reward ever in the end. In this episode, Kristina is sharing her entire birth story; which was much different (and harder) than her first experience, and to be honest, pretty stressful and traumatic. Although both mom and baby are recovering and doing well, Kristina openly and transparently walks through the details of her labor and delivery, giving her advice and learnings along the way. She shares how she and her husband Steve introduced baby Christian to Nikolas, his initial reaction to his baby brother, and how it’s going now. Motherhood is so hard and so fulfilling at the same time. Balancing a newborn and a toddler is a whole new ballgame but Kristina feels so confident and at peace knowing that she’s got this.

“On the way to the hospital, honestly, we had so much fun. I was in so much pain and we just started blasting music and acting like we were going to the club. We were singing at the top of our lungs and it felt like we were just about to embark on this crazy adventure, which we were. But instead of going to the club, we're going to the hospital.” - Kristina Zias

“All I knew was: the baby's gonna come tonight, so there's no point in me trying to get some sleep. So I was like, I'm gonna do my makeup and hair because if we're gonna have a baby tonight, I might as well at least try and look cute, and at least that will distract me from the pain. This is how I choose to give birth, how I choose to distract myself. And it was an amazing distraction, honestly. - Kristina Zias

What We Talk About:

How Kristina’s feeling as a mom of 2

Processing a traumatic birth with self compassion

Was the psychic medium Steve saw (from episode 89) right about the baby’s gender?

Preparing for birth when you have a big baby and what Kristina did to get him to come naturally

The timeline of the night she went into labor

How she distracted herself from the pain

Her expectations versus the reality of her second birth

The biggest differences in her experience with Nikolas and her second delivery

What she suggests talking to your doctor about before delivery 

Her stressful pushing process

The scary post delivery realization the doctor had

What Kristina’s recovery process was like and what she did to feel more like herself 

How they introduced Nikolas to the baby and his initial reaction

How everyone’s doing now

“Not to sound so woowoo, but that energy really makes a big difference. I know if I were to have another one or if you're having a baby, I think it's important to communicate the type of energy you need from your doctor because that is something I never would've thought of.”  - Kristina Zias

“ Around 11:26 AM my little boy Christian James DeAngelo, who was born: nine pounds, five ounces with a knotted umbilical cord. My little miracle baby is just like the sweetest little thing, and I feel like I'm just meant to be a mom. I feel so confident in that, and it feels really great. Obviously it's super, super hard and challenging and there have been tears along the way but I feel like you realize how strong you are and how resilient you are, and just having a growing family is such a blessing.” - Kristina Zias

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Prenatal massage: Sparrow’s Nest Los Angeles

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Reflecting on different phases of your life gives you an opportunity to appreciate the moments that have made you who you are, and shows you that you’re capable of so much more than you give yourself credit for. When Raeann moved to Los Angeles five years ago, her life looked a lot different. As she prepares to close this chapter and move to NYC, our good friend Rosie joins Raeann on the podcast to help her recognize and celebrate her evolution and ask hard questions that dive deep into the pivotal moments that have led Raeann to who she is today. We talk about the failures that were just redirections to something better, how to move forward after a big breakup, how solitude is the best way to truly get to know yourself, betting on yourself and going after your dreams even when people around you don’t understand it and so much more. If you’re feeling lost, or don’t know what’s next for you, we hope this episode inspires you to get to know yourself on a deeper level and really go after what you want in life.

“You cannot get to know yourself or experience growth outside of solitude.” - Raeann Langas

“There is such a freedom in getting it wrong and let that refine us and try again.” - Rosie

What we talk about:

Raeann’s NYC move and apartment update

Who was Raeann when she first moved to LA?

That time Raeann almost got married

The many jobs Raeann had when she first moved to California

How to redirect your focus when you realize something isn’t working

Being more mindful of celebrating our wins as women

How solitude is essential to getting to know yourself

Letting go of control and surrendering to what’s meant to be

Why you shouldn’t put literally everything into a relationship

Raeann’s hopes, dreams and goals for this next phase of life in New York

“If you try something and it doesn’t work out it’s not a failure because you’ve learned something from it.” - Raeann Langas

“Let’s always leave room for what’s bigger than we can imagine.” - Rosie

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Are you someone who has been on birth control for years yet doesn’t really understand its long term effects? How familiar are you with your cycle? Did you know that having horrible PMS symptoms is NOT normal and due to hormone imbalances that we can fix through lifestyle adjustments in each phase of our cycle? Unfortunately, women haven’t been well-informed about our own bodies, but it’s time to take our power back and equip ourselves with knowledge of how our bodies can function their best. And we have the best guest to lay it all out for us “hormone virgins” in this episode!

Alisa Vitti is busting female wellness myths and teaching us how to get to know our bodies and cycles better. Alisa Vitti is a women’s hormone and functional nutrition expert and pioneer in female biohacking. She is the best selling author of WomanCode, and her new book, In the FLO. She is the creator of the Cycle Syncing Method™— a female centric diet and lifestyle program that leverages hormonal patterns for optimal health, fitness and productivity. As the founder of FLOLiving.com, she has built the world’s first menstrual healthcare platform that helps women around the world put their period issues like PCOS, Fibroids, Endometriosis, and PMS into remission naturally using her highly effective FLO Protocol and the FLO Balance Supplements. 

Get out your notebooks, because this episode is full of information you need to know to optimize your life through hormone balancing with the Cycle Syncing Method. We talk about why so many women struggle with hormone imbalances, how to cycle sync your workouts, what to eat in the different phases of your cycle, and so much more. We know you’re going to learn so much in this episode, just like we did. Make sure to share this episode with a friend because all women deserve to know what’s going on with their bodies.

“That whole relationship that women historically have had with exercise, with fitness, with dieting, with their bodies, with weight has been made unnecessarily toxic because they’ve been given a blueprint that belongs to the self optimization for a man’s metabolism. I created the cycle synching method because the form of our self care must follow the function of our hormones.” - Alisa Vitti

What we talk about:

Alisa’s journey with PCOS that led her to this work

Why we haven’t learned about hormone balancing until now

What is cycle syncing?

The effects of women being left out of medical fitness and nutrition research

Food and fitness you should incorporate in each phase of your cycle

Why women shouldn’t follow a static routine

The root of women’s toxic relationship with food and exercise

Why you have brain fog

Where to start with cycle syncing

What happens to your cycle on birth control

The disadvantages to not ovulating during your reproductive years 

The contraceptive gel you should ask your doctor for

Ask Away: my mom is constantly bringing up my weight. What can I do?

“The cycle syncing method is the method I created to help women really understand what to do to take care of themselves correctly in each phase of their cycle. Doing this reduces stress, protects your delicate reproductive hormone balance, protects ovulation, reduces PMS, keeps blood sugar; does all the things you need it to do which is the direct opposite of how you’ve been told to care for yourself.” - Alisa Vitti

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Get ready for some laughs as we dive into our personal unpopular opinions. This IS a comedy podcast after all, right?! First, it’s dating story time with Raeann as she shares the awkward moment she had on a recent date in NYC. Kristina’s also sharing an update about what she’s trying to accomplish before baby #2 arrives and how she’s feeling in her body. Then, Raeann and Kristina share their unpopular opinions on foods, traditions, trends, habits, places and celebrities they think are overrated. Do you agree or disagree? What are some of your unpopular opinions? Share them in our Facebook group!

“The ‘I hate men’ narrative is so unproductive. I want a man who respects and loves women and I do think they exist.” - Raeann

What we talk about:

Dating storytime!

What Kristina’s trying to get done before the baby comes

Nikolas’ first Disneyland trip

Reflecting on pregnancy and body acceptance

What people are saying about Raeann on Reddit

Raeann’s hair extensions review: do you need to spend $2k?

Unpopular opinions about our culture, trends, traditions, clothes, food, celebs, etc.

Ask away: how do you know someone’s right for you or just telling you what you want to hear after a month of dating?

“Drinking is so overrated. When you wake up hungover and you look in the mirror and see every wrinkle and pore because your skin is so dehydrated, it is not cute.” - Kristina

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Welcome Ashley and Taryne, fellow besties turned podcast co-hosts of Unsolicited Advice podcast, to the Confident Collective! We love hearing Ashley and Taryne’s amazing advice and perspectives as we tackle some complex and interesting scenarios and give our advice. We'll be discussing everything from navigating the dating scene & confidently setting boundaries after going through physical changes to reigniting the spark in your long term relationship. We all have unique insights to share based on our individual experiences, and hope we can help with situations you have or potentially will go through. Make sure to check out Unsolicited Advice to hear more from us!

“If that person can’t accept anything about you, whether it's a scar, boundaries or preferences you have then that’s not your person and that’s a reflection of them, not you.” - Taryne (@tarynerenee)

“In the fun magazines I'd look at the clothes then I'd read the advice columns in the back. I loved the advice columns: how they were funny, embarrassing, sometimes serious and mostly about relationships and that’s what I wanted my podcast to be. Once I figured that out, I knew I had to do it with Taryne.” - Ashley Nichole (@ashnichole)

What we talk about:

What 2023 goal Raeann has already given up on

Grilling is for the guys or #girlswhogirll?

Baby update

Do you shave your toes?

An embarrassing story from Raeann

Our current Tik Tok rabbit holes

Our hot take on the debate: women who want to have kids vs women who don’t 

How Taryne and Ashley’s friendship formed

Taryne and Ashley’s secret talents

Our advice for scenarios like:

How to be confident dating after going through physical changes

How to get through a sex life rut or dry spell in your relationship and support a partner going through something difficult

When a guy love bombs then ghosts you then comes back asking for forgiveness, should you give him another chance?

“We make excuses for people because we are looking at the potential that we see and not the facts that are presented to us.” - Raeann Langas

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Resources:

Learn more and save 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/confidentcollective

Check out Unsolicited Advice Podcast with Ashley and Taryne

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We’re sharing our mindset heading into 2023, and the different categories of goals and intentions we’ve set for the new year. We’re focused on taking steps to feel our best and work towards positive, supportive change. We’re excited to share our thought process and how to set goals that are sustainable and attainable. We hope this episode helps you feel inspired, motivated or encouraged to go after the things you want that come from your heart. You can make your life feel however you want it to! There’s no better time to start than now.

“Setting goals and intentions for the new year is about being mindful of what life you want to create and taking the steps to get there.” - Kristina Zias

What we talk about:

Baby update from Kristina

Raeann’s feelings about packing up her LA apartment

How we’re feeling starting the new year

How to embrace the present moment

Enjoying the day to day journey to your goals

How to figure out what your goals and intentions are

Our goals and intentions for the year in these categories:

Personal development

Career

Health and wellness

Financial

TCC Goals

Ask Away: Advice for overcoming jealousy in your relationship

“Whatever your goals are with health and wellness, you need to enjoy the journey of what that is. That’s more important than having a specific looking body.” - Raeann Langas

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Alexa Lemieux has had such a big impact on curvy women all over the world, including Raeann and Kristina, and we loved watching her journey to find love on the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. Her confidence has sparked positive, dare we say viral, attention on the internet and she has inspired women to be unapologetically themselves and take up space. Although breaking the reality tv mold wasn’t exactly part of her plan, she has embraced her position as a role model for curvy women with pride. Hear the inside scoop about her unconventional and in some ways groundbreaking journey to the altar with her now husband, Brennon, what her expectations were going on the show, what her dating life was like before meeting Brennon, how they’ve strengthened their relationship since the show, when they want to have kids and seriously SO much more. If you’re an Alexa superfan like we are, you’re going to love getting to know her better in this episode.

“It’s not something I planned on doing; to be a curvy representation on TV. It just kind of came out that way and I am really glad that it did. If that’s something I'm going to stand for, that’s a really great thing to stand for.” - Alexa Lemieux

“What helps me a lot of the time is knowing this is such a temporary feeling, and next week you’re not going to be thinking about how down you are. When you’ve made it through your lowest, you know you’re doing to be fine.”  - Alexa Lemieux

What we talk about:

Update from Raeann’s psychic

What Alexa’s dating life was like before she went on Love is Blind

What dating in the pods was like for Alexa

How Alexa gained and cultivated her confidence

What helps Alexa boost her confidence

Being unapologetically yourself and taking up space

Alexa’s mindset about body confidence going on reality TV

Did Alexa describe her physical appearance before meeting Brennon face to face?

Was Alexa nervous about what people would say about her weight?

Not limiting yourself to one “type” when you’re dating

Why Alexa almost left the show

Does there need to be an initial spark or can it grow?

How to have a thriving sex life

Alexa’s favorite things about being married

How Alexa and Brennon handle conflicts

Alexa’s opinion on the cutie incident

When are Alexa and Brennon having kids?

Get to know Alexa better in our rapid fire segment

Ask Away: How to make friends in a new city

“I’m not for everyone and I shouldn’t be. If I was for everyone that wouldn’t make sense. We’re all supposed to be so different.” - Alexa Lemieux

“Brennon and I would not be together if I did not put myself out there. During the show I was going to peace out and imagine if I did.” - Alexa Lemieux

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

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Kristina’s Drew Barrymore Show segment

Follow Alexa: @mrsalexalemieux

Watch Love Is Blind Season 3 on Netflix

Domestic violence hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

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ICYMI: Raeann is officially moving to NYC! Check out this solo episode where Raeann is giving you the exclusive update on how she’s adjusting. Is NYC really more expensive than Los Angeles? What’s the dating situation? Has she noticed an energetic difference living on her Jupiter line versus Pluto line?  Raeann is answering your most common questions and giving her advice for anyone looking to make a similar move. Plus, hear about our TCC dreams for 2023 here first! Remember, getting outside of your comfort zone is the best way to build your confidence. Have fun hanging with Rae!

“If there is something you want to do in your life, just go for it. It’s going to be scary and terrifying. But then you’re going to blink and you’ll be living in a reality that was just a dream for you.” - Raeann

What we talk about:

Did Raeann get scammed by a psychic? Hear about her $500 experience

Prices of things (fitness classes, apartments, etc.) in NYC vs LA

Tips to making a transition to a new city easier

Raeann compares dating in NYC vs LA

Are East-coasters mean?

What she loves about NYC

Next steps for Raeann moving to NYC 

Goals and intentions for 2023

What to expect from TCC in 2023

“People see me differently here. People see me for who I truly am and recognize that which is really cool and feels good.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

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This guest has transformed Kristina’s life. Dany D’Andrea is a professional home organizer and styler, and will give you a holistic approach to editing your home that will impact more than just your closet. In this episode, Dany shares her easy tips for home organization that will transform your space. She offers insight about how and where to start decluttering your home, how you can identify your aesthetic in order to be more intentional with your purchases, and how to know if it’s time to part with an item in your closet. She acknowledges the financial and emotional impact this process can have, and gives great advice for working through it. Enter 2023 with a clear mind and a clear space! There’s seriously nothing more liberating.

Takeaways & Tips from Dany:

“Action inspires motivation. It’s not actually as intense as your mind has built it up to be.” -Dany 

“A lot of people don't realize that their disinterest in wearing something is because they actually don't feel comfortable in it physically.” - Dany

“Ask yourself: how do you use the space the most?” - Dany

What we talk about:

Nervous bumpdate from Kristina

Raeann’s recent dating hack & update from Brooklyn

Navigating the physical changes of pregnancy and how it affects confidence 

How to start organizing your space

How to edit out items in your closet

What to do with items that have sentimental value

Reevaluating shopping habits

The #1 rule for cycling items through your closet

Honing in on your personal aesthetic and style

Helpful tools for organization

Tips for styling items and creating a practical flow

Ask Away: advice for saying no, listening to your intuition and enforcing your boundaries in a sketchy situation

“I don't think you understand how liberated I feel after having Dany in my space. She’s been so instrumental in clearing my mind and my space.” - Kristina

“We see something that’s on trend and we want to buy it, but we don’t think about how it makes you feel. It just boils down to being more intentional with your purchasing habits.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Work with Dany: https://www.spatialsoulutions.com/services

Follow Dany on Instagram: @dany_d.andrea

Dany’s Amazon storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/dany_d.andrea

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The holidays can be a crazy busy time of year. Between going to events, finding the perfect outfit for said events, shopping for yourself and others, and taking advantage of all of the festive activities, there’s so much to do in such a short amount of time. We’re hoping to take some of the stress out of the season by sharing some of our favorite outfit recipes you may already have in your closet, seasonal activities you shouldn’t miss, tips for staying within your budget, and reminding you to take time to rest. You can enjoy the holidays without breaking the bank or feeling mentally and physically drained!

“If I can’t think of 3 ways to style it with items I already have in my closet, I’m not going to get it.” - Raeann

“Rest up. Don't feel pressure to have to do everything, have to go to everything. You don’t.” - Kristina

What we talk about:

How Raeann’s adjusting to the nomadic lifestyle

Takeaways from the Lizzo concert

Tips for shopping for holiday outfits (sustainability and cost effectiveness)

Outfit recipes you may already have in your closet

Embrace the season with our favorite holiday activities

How to make the holidays more budget-friendly

Tips for keeping up with your health and wellness routines

Ask Away: How have you settled into your inherent worthiness? Tips for not getting down when you get ghosted or rejected.

“When you are so ruthlessly and authentically yourself, and don't care if people don’t like you, then that confidence continues to grow.” - Kristina

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

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Do you know what your body likes and desires? Do you want connect more intimately with your partner, or just feel more confident saying what you want? We all deserve to feel empowered in our sex life. Today’s guest is an expert in the sexual wellness space and is about to teach you how to experience more pleasure and feel more connected to your body. 

Kiana Reeves is an educator, practitioner, speaker, and leading voice in the sexual wellness movement. Her approach is wholistic and includes the emotional, biological, social, and spiritual nature of sex & intimacy. Her work in this field ultimately led her to join Foria as Chief Content Officer, where she has helped grow and shape the sexual wellness brand over the last five years.

In this episode, Kiana explains how masturbating really is self care, beneficial from a health perspective and can improve your overall sex life. We cover the science behind orgasms, how to experience more pleasure, and how to communicate your desires with your partner. We also talk about removing shame from the equation when it comes to sex, and embracing vulnerability. Whether you already feel sexually empowered or don’t even know where to start, we know this conversation will inspire you to try something new & have a better sex life.

“Masturbation and orgasms can boost your immune system, it can support your sleep, it’s really good at resetting your response to stress and lowering cortisol. When you orgasm and when you’re touching your body or masturbating, experiencing pleasure, you’re releasing dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins. All of those chemical cocktails really play a role in feeling powerful, creative and connected.” Kiana Reeves

What we talk about:

Our Thanksgiving plans

Raeann’s latest date story

The activity that’s changing Kristina’s life for the better right now

Feeling FOMO from social media

Is dating in NYC better than in LA?

Thoughts on the recent season of Love Is Blind 

Viewing masturbation as self care

How masturbating impacts your sex life with a partner

The science behind the positive effects and health benefits of self pleasure

How to be more comfortable with masturbating

Addressing the shame around self-pleasure 

Embodiment practices for self-pleasure

Kiana’s recommendations for beginner tools and toys

Destigmatizing the use of lube

The pressure we put on sexual performance

What impacts our arousal and sexual pleasure physiologically

Can using a vibrator “too much” be a negative thing?

How to get out of your head during sex

How to have the best or multiple orgasms

Tips for talking to your partner about sex

How and when to communicate what you want with your partner

Ask Away: Is it okay to not have a “wild phase”?

“To destigmatize the use of lube: When you introduce lube, research shows that all parties experience more pleasure.” - Kiana Reeves

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

“When you expand your pleasure capacity and pathways, what’s possible in your body alone really impacts what’s possible in your body with a partner.” - Kiana Reeves

Resources:

Follow Kiana @kiana.reeves

Get some Foria Arousal Oil and explore their resources

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Diet culture and thin-praising has been highlighted in news articles, entertainment and culture a lot lately, and we know how harmful these messages can be. If you’re struggling with comparison, or the pressure to be thinner or lose weight before going home for the holidays, hit play on this episode to reframe your mindset on what will really help you feel more confident, and remind yourself that your worth is not tied to your weight. If you’re being influenced by negative comments or people around you that believe being thin or losing weight is the answer to your problems, you have the power to change the conversation. And we’ve got your back.

“I don't have a goal to dress to look thinner. I have a goal to wear things that make me feel confident, feel cool or inspire me in some way. That’s something we have to remind ourselves: you don’t have to dress to look thinner. You don’t have to workout to lose weight.” - Kristina

What we talk about:

Raeann’s first week in NYC recap

THE BEST event Kristina has been to with Knix and Ashley Graham

Why the New York Post article mentioning “heroin chic” is so harmful

Body types as “trends”

How the Kardashian’s body types have changed and how that influences culture

The responsibility influencers have to be transparent around weight loss

Our confidence during times we were more thin than we are now

Figuring out why you want to lose weight

Setting an example for those around you by standing up for yourself

How to keep people in your life from impacting your body confidence

Ask Away: How do I deal with wedding diet or weight loss pressure from my family when I actually feel really confident in my body?

“During that time in my life I could not have felt worse about myself. I thought I was the biggest human being to walk the earth. I’m 30 pounds heavier now and I'm so much more confident. Losing weight will not make you happier in your body if you're not doing it for the right reason and if you’re doing it for outside validation.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

The New York Post article

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Have you ever dreamed about working for yourself but don’t know how or have the confidence to actually do it? Today’s guest, Adriana Parente, went from working in a corporate setting to having her own clients as a freelance influencer marketing specialist and brand consultant in her 20s, and is sharing her advice for how she made the switch in this episode. We talk about how to know when it’s time to take the leap to work for yourself, how to stay on track and motivated, tips for budgeting and sending invoices, how to set your pricing and everything you would want to know if you’ve thought about making this transition.

“Working for other people is rewarding, you learn so much, but I always felt that I wanted something to be my own and all the efforts for the projects I've been working on to be my own.” - Adriana Parente

What we talk about:

Our post live show thoughts, feelings and favorite parts

What people thought of Raeann’s live date with Roberto and what happened behind the scenes

What the deal was with that creepy guy in the audience

How Raeann’s first week in NYC is going

How Kristina’s 3 weeks in New Jersey went

The show Kristina’s obsessed with

Raeann’s new workout plan

How to know you want to work for yourself

How Adriana made connections and pitched herself to brands at the beginning

How to not get discouraged by the process of applying for jobs

The importance of saving and being strategic in taking risks

What a successful pitch and follow up looks like

Tips for how to stay motivated & organized when working for yourself

How to figure out rates and how to have that conversation with clients 

What to do if a client doesn’t pay you or pay you on time

Overcoming imposter syndrome

Advice for people wanting to go out on their own

Ask Away: “My upstairs neighbors are having really loud sex at all hours of the day. What should I do?!”

“The most important thing is trusting and believing in yourself, and when you do that, everyone else will too.” - Kristina Zias

“Grow your skills and prove to yourself that you have them, then that will help you build your confidence to pitch yourself out to brands.” - Adriana Parente

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Connect with Adriana on Instagram: @adrianaparente_ and via email: hello@adrianaparente.com

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We’re still not over our first live podcast show in NYC!! We had the time of our lives getting dressed up in Halloween costumes and hanging out with the Confident Collective community IRL! Thank you so much to everyone who came out to our first show. We can’t wait to do it again! From sharing some of our most cringe-worthy high school photos, to asking Steve questions from the male perspective, to setting Raeann up on her first NYC blind date - we were cracking up the whole entire time. We hope you enjoy catching up on all of the main events and hope to do it again in a city near you soon! Let us know where we should go next.

“Just don’t call me queen. Or big bitch.” - Raeann

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Thank you to these amazing brands that partnered with us for our live event!

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Oribe - Dry Texture Spray

Christian Louboutin Beauty - Matte Fluid Lip Color- shade Rouge

Blind Date NYC (@blinddatenyc)

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Questions for Steve 

Guessing game with Steve about common female goodies

Kristina and Steve host Raeann’s first NYC blind date LIVE on stage

Live Ask Away segment with the audience

Halloween Costume Contest

“Who decides to do a live show when they’re 7 months pregnant? ME. I am crazy!” - Kristina

It’s official: curve models, content creators and hosts of the Model Citizen podcast, Michaela and Hunter McGrady, are our long lost best friends. They have such incredible energy, are the best examples of sisters supporting and respecting one another and it is so inspiring. Listen to this episode to hear how they were raised to put respect for one another first, and how their mom positively influenced their confidence growing up. We also ask them to share how they’ve navigated the tragic loss of their brother, and how practicing gratitude has helped them move forward. Plus, we celebrate some of their major career wins like walking together in the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit runway show. We know you’re going to love this conversation and hope it leaves you inspired to embrace and enjoy life here and now.

“(Our mom) always said ‘weight is such a boring thing to talk about,’ so we never heard her discuss anyone else’s weight or her own. I can’t tell you one time our mom said something about anyone else’s appearance that was not positive.” - Hunter and Michaela McGrady

What we talk about:

Updates on Raeann’s move and Kristina’s taping at the Drew Barrymore show

How astrology is shaping Raeann’s mindset about her move

How Hunter & Michaela’s sister dynamics have evolved over time

How they work together collaboratively vs competitively

The influence their mom had on them when it comes to food, weight and cultivating confidence

How to reframe food not being “good or bad” and their body positive parenting tips

The importance of practicing gratitude

How their faith has influenced them

How grief changes you

How to have a strong bicoastal relationship

How respect is crucial in working with your family members

BTS of their Summersalt campaign with their mom and opening the Sports Illustrated swimsuit runway show

Navigating motherhood and career

“This life is so short and so fragile. Don’t wait to start living or being grateful or taking a bite out of life until a tragedy happens.” - Hunter and Michaela McGrady

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Follow Hunter @huntermcgrady and Michaela @michaelamcgrady on Instagram

Listen to the Model Citizen podcast and follow @themodelcitizenpodcast 

Get Your Tickets to our Live Event in NYC on October 30th

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Wow, do we have some juicy content for you today! We’ve all done some scandalous things, so there’s no judgment here as we get into our most scandalous stories and then share yours anonymously. We share about a one night stand that turned into a sex tape, the story of how Kristina was arrested in Washington Square Park, savage things we did in college, spicy hookups and so much more. Hear all about it in this episode!

“I’m a vanilla gal, I’m 80% vanilla, so all of my scandalous stories are still pretty PG.” - Raeann

What we talk about:

Kristina’s upcoming travels, and her family trip to San Diego

Raeann’s heartbreaking family news and how she’s navigating grief

How we’re getting into fall mode 

Our favorite Halloween movies

Our scandalous stories

Spicy listener hookup stories

Cheating scandals

Ask Away: What to do when you feel slighted and hurt by a best friend during a period of change in the friendship

“We got freaking arrested by a young, hot police officer on a bike. It was super sexy in my head until we were in the back of a police car.” - Kristina

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Read Final Gifts for grief support

Get Your Tickets to our Live Event in NYC on October 30th

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Want to know how to build more joy into your life while increasing your chances of meeting a partner IRL? Today’s guest, podcast host of @datebrazen & dating coach Lily Womble, has your answers. Lily “helps women transform their dating lives from a soul-suck, to an act of self-care, attracting extraordinary relationships along the way.” Sounds like the ideal way to date, no? We chat with her about the internal work we need to do before we start dating, adding more joy, self-love and compassion into our lives, how dating apps can be harmful to the nervous system, where to put your energy when it comes to dating, and what it looks like to date with intention. If you’re in a committed relationship and want to know how to support your single girl friends in their dating journey, she has some great advice for you too. Lily shares so many tangible dating tips that we know will transform your dating experience in the best way!

“Give yourself permission to want the expansiveness of what you want.” - Lily Womble

What we talk about:

Raeann’s friends’ wedding recap

Kristina’s trip in Santa Fe, New Mexico

Balancing craving routine & having a desire to travel

What women should ask themselves to determine what they actually want in a partner

How to identify how you want to feel in a relationship

Cultivating an abundance mindset in qualities you want in a partner

Getting to the root of why you want what you want

Processing your own emotions and doing the internal work

Embracing what you love in want in all types of relationships

Reframing rejection

What’s a “confirmation text” and when should you use it?

The trap of dating apps

How to create opportunities to meet a partner in person

Ask Away: how to be in alignment with your own desires without feeling influenced by different friends with different interests

“Do what makes you happy and brings you the most joy because that's what you’re going to be doing with the person who comes along.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Follow Lily on Tik Tok @datebrazen

Listen to the Date Brazen podcast

Download Lily’s free "Guide to Make Dating Feel Like Self-Care."

Get Your Tickets to our Live Event in NYC on October 30th

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We must confess…we have some major pet peeves we need to talk about! It just feels good to release and talk about things that annoy us so we can get it off of our chest, you know? In this episode, we also talk about our upcoming LIVE EVENT in NYC this October, the worst date Raeann has ever been on, and some exciting news from Kristina about a TV appearance she’ll be making soon. In our ask away segment, we give advice to a listener about how we motivate ourselves to stick to our workout routines, and not compare our relationships to what we see on social media. We hope this episode will be cathartic for you like it was for us!

“I’m in my “protect the peace” phase.” - Raeann

What we talk about:

New makeup trend Krisitna is obsessed with

Raeann’s sublet apartment hunt in NYC

Our biggest pet peeves

Your biggest pet peeves

How to be motivated to get back in a workout routine

Reframing food as a reward for working out

Meal prepping tips

Social media perpetuating the false idea of a “perfect relationship”

“When you tell your partner you’re tired and they’re like, ‘Oh, I’m tired too.’ Stop trying to one up me!” - Kristina

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Get Your Tickets to our Live Event in NYC on October 30th

Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective 

Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas

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We’re talking about something Kristina is super passionate about: feeling confident and great in your body when it is going through the biggest change, pregnancy. Kristina is going solo this week to share information she wishes she knew before she got pregnant so that you can feel more prepared, and understood, in your pregnancy journey whether you’re going through it now or will one day. She shares what bodily changes she was not ready for, what positive physical changes she’s experienced, what NOT to say to a pregnant woman and how to cultivate confidence in your body and your decisions while pregnant. *This is not medical advice, so please always ask your doctor if you have specific questions or concerns!*

“That stimulation and having that fun with your partner is always such a major confidence boost and makes you feel good and sexy. I think that’s a major win women don’t talk about.” - Kristina

“Every month we didn’t get pregnant with Nikolas I thought, ‘Is it because I’m fat?” - Kristina

What we talk about:

The pressure to lose weight before getting pregnant

Lack of plus size pregnancy representation online or in media

Stressing about things that are out of your control

Dealing with everyone else’s opinion on what you should do

Fear of not losing weight post-pregnancy

Learning to trust your gut and your own instincts

Things pregnant women get told that drive them crazy

Ask Away: how did you know you were ready to start having kids instead of being influenced by friends who are having kids?

“Whether you’re scared of gaining weight, or what your body will look like, just remember at the end of the day there’s a miracle happening inside of you.” - Kristina

“You cannot stress about things that you don’t know what the outcome will be and that are out of your control.” - Kristina

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

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Most of us want to be in a happy and healthy long term relationship, right? But the reality is, in order to get there, it takes a lot of work. If that sounds daunting and overwhelming, today’s guest is sharing her easy to integrate tips to help you through different phases of your relationship, and build a relationship that lasts. Kim Polinder is an individual and couples counselor whose training in traditional therapy and energy work has helped her create her holistic approach to issues such as anxiety, couples communication, childhood trauma and low self esteem. Check out this episode to learn the essential elements of a long-lasting relationship, how to reconnect with your partner, communicate better and build resilience in your relationship.

“You can be as upset as you want; feelings are real. But when it comes to communicating with your partner, it helps to stay specific.” - Kim Polinder

What we talk about:

Working through infidelity

How to address the root of our issues by processing childhood trauma

Common issues among 20+ year relationships

Virtual partners and relationships

Lack of engagement among younger generations

The basis of a successful relationship

The importance of identifying value systems

How to integrate modern relationship dynamics

Romanticizing social media relationships

How to reconnect with your partner

“When it comes to deciding who you’re going to commit to, a lot of it is just making the decision to commit.” - Kim Polinder

Other topics:

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Follow Kim: @kp_counseling 

Play We're Not Really Strangers

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Raeann and Kristina started as fashion creators, and honestly, experimenting with fashion was one way that helped us to feel more confident. Because we LOVE helping other women feel confident and good about themselves, this episode is all about fall fashion: what we’re excited for, how to incorporate trends, stay true to your style, our tried and true outfit recipes and best confidence tips when it comes to fashion.

“Find the recipe that really works for you then just have fun with iterations. Because you know you're going to feel good when you walk out the door.” - Raeann

We also talk about:

Raeann’s trip to Mexico for a friend’s bachelorette weekend

Toxic masculinity & men who can’t be open about their feelings in front of other men

Kristina’s funk

What Kristina’s parents have been lying to her about her whole life

Raeann’s upcoming heritage trip & Scandinavian style

Being unique and unafraid to wear things that aren’t trendy

Tips for trying new things and embracing trends

Being confident in & finding your own personal style

How to stay confident when people make comments about your clothing

Outfits we wore that make us cringe now

Ageism in fashion 

ASK AWAY: “As someone who works in social media, how can I find the balance between being on my phone for work, creating content, taking photos and being present and in the moment with who I’m with?”

“You have to remember who you’re dressing for and why. If you’re dressing for yourself,  only your opinion matters.” - Kristina

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Resources:

Follow Tibi founder Amy Smilovic on Tik Tok: @amysmilovic

The Cut article

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The last episode of our summer series reveals a HUGE life update from Kristina: she’s PREGNANT! Hear about how she found out, when she’s due, how she’s been feeling and what she’s most excited for with baby number 2! We get into the BTS of Raeann’s recent modeling gig in NYC for Express, discuss Barbie Ferreira leaving Euphoria, our thoughts on the low media coverage of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s wedding, and other celebs tying the knot this month (Sarah Hyland and Wells Adams). We also open up about our dating history, and normalize feeling insecure about not having been in many relationships. We give our thoughts on the pressure women feel when it comes to relationships and dating, and our advice for women who have never been in a relationship.

“Every major milestone in our life is around a relationship for women. It’s crazy. We don’t celebrate a woman getting a promotion in the way we celebrate them getting engaged.” - Raeann

We also talk about:

Manifesting a podswap with Giggly squad

How can we get Raeann on Love Island?

Barbie Ferreira leaving Euphoria 

Wedding talk: Benifer wedding & Wells Adams and Sarah Hyland’s wedding, 

Has JLo really never had work done?

Kristina’s pregnancy details

How important it is to have a good doctor while pregnant 

How Kristina feels about the physical changes of this pregnancy

Reminders & advice for women who have never been in a relationship

“Enjoy your single life, enjoy time with friends, enjoy discovering yourself. You have the rest of your life to be in a relationship. That’s not something to rush or be embarrassed about.”  - Kristina

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29 and feeling FINE. Raeann’s birthday celebrations were truly next level. Tune into this super fun episode right after a few days of shenanigans and good times in honor of our Leo queen for all the details. We talk about everything that went down at Highland Park Bowl, including why Kristina almost didn’t get in, and how Raeann accidentally got everyone too high. Raeann shares why she didn’t get any photos at her birthday party, Kristina’s finger injury, and her spontaneous tattoo adventure. Raeann and Kristina share their highlights from an Instagram event in Malibu with the Kardashians and Hailey Bieber. Then Kristina shares her last and final update about her evil eye after a priest prayed for her to get rid of it. 

“I have a sorority tattoo on my butt…I just like the story of a tattoo. I don’t think there needs to be a super deep meaning.” - Raeann

We also talk about:

Not washing your face or taking makeup off before bed

Free Nobu sushi and highlights from the Malibu Instagram event

Sweating when you’re nervous (or super high)

Dealing with anxiety after hosting a party

Our thoughts on tattoos

Expensive hotels & the cost of children

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“You can’t give it thought or attention because that's how it thrives. When something is negative in your life, the more you think about it the more negative things happen. That is what the evil eye now symbolizes to me.” - Kristina

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Resources:

Corn video on Tik Tok

Highland Park Bowl

Kristina’s product: 

Raeann’s product: 

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Get the scoop on why Kristina thinks she’s caught an evil eye, the warning a family member gave her in Greece, and what she’s doing about it now. And, it’s Leo season, baby! Raeann shares 3 ideas for an epic birthday celebration. Hear what activity she decided on, her reflections on the last year and what she’s looking forward to. We also talk about items on our wishlist (ft. fall trends). We also talk about the top wardrobe tip we have been leaning into lately that is leaving us more creative and inspired by what’s in our closet, what’s unique about Jersey weddings, and our experience/advice about laser hair removal.

“I finally shook this feeling that I had to live life in a certain way.” - Raeann

We also talk about:

Kristina’s crazy vs chill sides

Addison Rae’s family drama on Tik Tok

Two questions Raeann asks people on their birthday

What Raeann is thinking about getting herself for her birthday

Trending items for fall

Ask Away: laser hair removal advice, cost, what to expect, and at-home product results

“I can’t reiterate enough how different New Jersey weddings are than weddings anywhere else in the country. It’s such a different caliber.” - Kristina

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Resources:

Braun Silk·Expert Pro 5 IPL Laser Hair Removal

Kristina’s product: Rare Beauty Lip Liner in Humble

Raeann’s product: The Sarah Baskin hoops from Galley Los Angeles

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While Kristina and family have had a blast while traveling in the Greek Islands, it’s not all chill beach hangs and aperol spritzes when you have a toddler. Kristina is surrounded by her childhood friends and family who now also have kids, and she’s realizing the importance of having friends who can relate to what you’re going through (especially re: parenting). We talk about having different types of friendships in different seasons and the importance of them all. We also share our maybe unpopular opinions about whether or not you should make amends with an ex, and what happened when Raeann reconnected with an ex before her European travels this summer.

“I’ve realized how I’ve felt really alone at points throughout this past year.” - Kristina

What we talk about:

The start of Leo season/Raeann’s birthday month

Trying to be more present

Kristina’s son Nikolas’ evolution during this trip

Kristina’s lost luggage

A designer purchase FLOP

Toe hair

Men in flip flops: does it give you the ick?

Reality TV and the toll public opinion (via social media) takes on cast members’ mental health

Getting back with an ex: is it a good idea?

“I saw my ex before my trip. We did make amends, but it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

The Pattern Astrology app

Kristina’s product: Summer Fridays mineral sunscreen

Raeann’s product: Havaianas flip flops in rose gold

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Kristina’s enjoying her second week of rest and romance in the Greek islands. She talks about how nice it was to have a couples getaway with Steve in Patmos, and the importance of making time for your relationship especially after having kids. Raeann is embracing LA while she’s still there, and recaps running into an ex at a concert. Then, find out why she’s making a public apology to Bumble. Raeann and Kristina discuss how chill European culture is versus the go-go-go mentality of the US. In our “ask away” segment, hear Raeann and Kristina’s advice for talking about sex with your partner, navigating having a different sex drive than your partner, and releasing timelines when it comes to getting pregnant.

“You have to release yourself from the set timelines of when you thought you should be doing certain things.” - Kristina

What we talk about:

Importance of slowing down

Raising a toddler on vacation

The worst facial Kristina has ever had and the product she used to save her skin

What we love about European culture

The most toxic, misogynistic guy on Tik Tok

Ask Away: Talking about sex with your partner

“(In America) our whole system and lifestyle is built in a rush… In Copenhagen there’s a designated time to have a sweet treat, slow down and chill. I want that to be my lifestyle constantly.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Relationship Q+A with Dr. Viviana

Kristina’s product: the feelist most wanted facial oil 

Raeann’s product: silver chain concho belt

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Raeann’s sharing the good, the bad and the scandalous parts of her 6-week European vacation, and answering your most common questions! First, Kristina shares an update on her first few days in Greece, and gives some tips for moms traveling with toddlers. Then Raeann goes into every detail of her trip: her favorite and least favorite destinations, what she would do differently, more tips for meeting people if you’re traveling solo, the best and worst money she spent, what to pack, safety tips and so much more. Plus, hear a scandalous story from one of her dates and a HUGE life update you do not want to miss!

What we talk about:

Kristina’s travel experience to Greece

Rae’s daily routine/ideal way to travel

3 easy ways to meet people

Planning vs going with the flow

Was there a language barrier?

Wardrobe recommendations

Where to go if you only have one week

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Kristina’s product: Airpod Pro

Raeann’s product: Tripod

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We’re back together for one day before Kristina heads to Greece! Raeann shares her initial reflections upon returning to LA from 6 weeks in Europe, and how the trip impacted her personally and work-wise. Stay tuned for an upcoming episode where she’ll be going more in depth about her experience. She tells us all about her dating app swipe success in Europe and how different it was than dating in LA. Kristina shares how she’s preparing to travel to Greece for a family vacation, and they give advice to a listener who’s wondering if she should make a move on her work crush.

What we talk about:

How Raeann feels after getting back home to LA versus how she felt before her trip

Kristina speaks Greek to us and shares what she’s bringing to Greece

Raeann recaps attempting to speak French

How more people should lead with positivity

Are French people actually mean?

How many guys swiped yes on Raeann’s dating profile in Europe versus in LA

How Rae got scammed

Advice for how to make a move on a work romance

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Raeann’s Tik Tok

Kristina’s product: Good American Swim

Raeann’s product: Faithfull the Brand

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There’s nothing more humbling than accidentally peeing yourself in an elevator. Whether it was from having too much fun laughing with a friend or potentially getting drugged at a French pizza place, we don’t really know. You have to hear these stories from Raeann’s time in France and weigh in! She talks about which French hot spot is overrated, where to go instead and the epiphany she had while getting a psychic reading in London. Meanwhile, Kristina shares an epiphany of her own, and a Tik Tok video calling out our parent’s generation’s weird relationship with food reminds us of unhealthy norms that influenced us growing up.

“If you ever have the opportunity to do something different, take it.” - Kristina

What we talk about:

Everyone NEEDS to study abroad

Kristina comes clean on a lie she told Rae in a past episode

Why Kristina thinks she may have ADHD 

Why Raeann thinks she could’ve been drugged in France

Ask away: what to do when you want to be supportive but dislike the guy (with all the red flags) your friend is with 

“That’s what I’m obsessing over: not letting what I should be doing or what society says is normal dictate how I live my life.” - Raeann

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Resources:

Kristina’s product: this Charlotte Tilbury bronzer

Raeann’s product: these local European pants (wears a M/L but thinks L/XL would give her a baggier look)

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Last week Rae was having a blast making out with strangers, and this week she’s reflecting on always feeling like the “single one.” She’s dishing about why she fell in love with Soho House London, the celebrity she saw there, and unexpectedly falling in love with Thai food. Kristina shares about her recent trip to San Diego, embracing new types of fun with her family, and shares exciting career news. We talk about our favorite places and products as well as give advice for staying productive while living alone in our Ask Away segment!

“When your close friend has a new relationship, you’re happy for them, but it does change the dynamic. Sometimes I feel like the single woman is always expected to bend.” - Raeann

What we talk about:

Navigating changes in friendship dynamics when they enter new relationships

Communication and accountability in female friendships

Kristina’s theory on botox

How what seems fun changes over time and in different chapters of life

How to stay productive when living alone and the benefits

“I think the best part about living alone is getting to know yourself.” - Kristina

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Kristina’s product: this Reformation activewear dress

Raeann’s product: these sunglasses she wears nonstop

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For Raeann, this is the summer of crossing things off of her bucket list. Manifesting skinny dipping with a hot guy in Greece? Check. Having the most fun with drunk make outs, bonding with strangers who become fast friends and embracing flexibility and spontaneity? Also check. It’s the wild and free summer she always dreamed of, and reminds us it’s never too late to do the things you’ve dreamed of. We’re diving into all the juicy details in this episode! Come along for the ride (and get a preview of what we’re dreaming of for the TCC 2023 summer trip). Plus, Kristina shares context and tips for traveling in Greece.

“I’m so grateful I'm having this time now. I manifested skinny dipping in the ocean with a greek man: check! Riding a scooter in Italy: check! I'm having all these experiences I didn't get to have.” - Raeann 

What we talk about:

Playing our version of a trending tik tok game

Being spontaneous and a little wild at any age

Benefits of being flexible and in the moment while traveling

The power of traveling with friends and strangers

Getting out of your comfort zone

A new show to binge and beauty products we’re loving this summer

What to eat in Greece

Relationship advice: What to do when a long time partner ghosts you after a fight

“Being flexible with your trip is super important when you’re traveling. You never know what opportunity will arise and who you’ll meet. Sometimes you need to realize that this concrete plan you have doesn’t need to stick.” - Kristina

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Resources:

Kristina’s product: Charlotte Tilbury Flawless Filter in share #4

Raeann’s product: Iconic London liquid highlighter

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If you’re like us and consistency and routine is your lifeline, traveling for an extended period of time can be a challenge. Raeann is 2 weeks into her solo travel adventure, and although she is having the best time, the lack of her normal eating and exercise routine is starting to weigh on her mental health. Kristina is getting into a new gym routine, but shares how the pressure to get fit for summer is real and reminds us that we should be working on being healthy and strong all year round. We also talk about the dangers of social media comparison and what a world without social media would feel like. We also reflect on being a product of your environment and recognizing positive cultural differences. Thanks for hanging with us and tuning in to our summer series!

“You could be in the most amazing place and doing the most amazing things but if you're feeling off in your body it can have a bigger impact than we want to admit.” - Raeann

What we talk about:

Getting into a fitness routine and creating consistency

Raeann’s Florence/Tuscany update

Raeann’s hot take on Italian men and how they’re different from American men

Top Gun movie review

How social media impacts happiness

Prepping for Greece and what’s next

Ask Away: What to do when you hate your haircut

“There’s so much pressure leading up to summer to try and be fit. Then summer comes and you feel like, if you didn't get into the shape you wanted, giving up on fitness. But it's good to be strong all year round.” - Kristina

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Resources:

Kristina’s product: Unite 7 Seconds Detangler

Raeann’s product: Saie Slip Tint  Tinted Moisturizer

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We finally have the long awaited update for you about Steve’s psychic reading and the messages she had from his dad who has passed away. She shared information with Steve no one outside of the family knew and truly knew everything. Plus, she tells Steve and Kristina what the gender of their next child could be and where they should ultimately end up living. This story will give you major chills! We also talk about Raeann’s travel experience so far in Italy, how to meet friends and take photos while traveling solo, and advice for anyone looking to live abroad.

This was the best thing he’s ever done. It gave him so much clarity. - Kristina

What we talk about:

Where to get Kristina’s favorite pasta in Florence 

The full story of Steve’s dad’s spirit reaching out through a psychic & what messages and insight she had for him

How to meet people while traveling

How to take photos when you’re traveling solo

Tips for applying for global entry 

TMI about digestion and travel

Ask away: Tips for settling in and living in a different country

You need to be willing to spark up conversation. - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Read Jacey Duprie’s new book “Liking Myself Back: An Influencer's Journey from Self-Doubt to Self-Acceptance”

Arizona Love Sandals

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We’re kicking off our summer mini episode series documenting our Euro travels and summer adventures. We begin this episode with an update from Raeann on her chaotic first couple days in Rome! We get into Kristina’s plans for the summer, products they’re loving for travel, and some key advice for anyone traveling this summer (especially to Italy.) We also chat about what we think about the Depp vs Heard trial and verdict, share lots of fun personal stories and share our opinions about how to keep calm while trying to get pregnant from a listener’s question. Hot Girl European Summer is ON, baby!

“Don't let the fear of not knowing keep you from traveling” - Raeann

What we talk about:

Something Raeann was not anticipating about Rome

What app Raeann recommends for dating in Europe

Something Italians don’t do that we do in the US

Complexities of the outcome of the Depp/Heard trial

Not being afraid to be inquisitive about the culture when you’re abroad

Ask Away: Tips for not stressing out over trying to get pregnant

“There's a difference between being ignorant and being inquisitive and wanting to learn about the culture.” - Kristina

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Beis diaper bag

Megababe thigh rescue

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Have you ever had lunch with a friend who kept talking about her weight and diet, and then you started to question your lunch order and weight and diet? Sometimes we adopt others’ insecurities and don’t even realize it. A pivotal part of our confidence journeys has been realizing when we’ve taken on others’ insecurities as our own. Today we’re sharing stories from throughout our lives where our confidence was challenged because of other people’s opinions and insecurities, and how we persevered to protect and practice our own self confidence. At the end of this episode we’ll share tangible tips to help you if you’ve found yourself in similar situations.

“We're not programmed to feel negatively about ourselves, we are influenced to feel negatively about our bodies.” - Raeann

What we talk about:

A learning Kristina had about toxic weight loss culture 

What Raeann has learned in therapy so far

How other people’s insecurities effect:

Body image and weight

Career moves

Having kids

Relationships

How to find your core values and get to know yourself better

How to tell someone how you feel and set boundaries

How our family culture influences confidence and insecurities

Surrounding yourself with the right people

Practicing gratitude and mindfulness

How to clarify your wants and desires

Ask Away: Tips for not comparing your timeline to others’ 

“Something I've had to work through in therapy is that so many of these insecurities are not actually my own, they’re coming from other people.” - Kristina

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Knowledge is power. We encourage you to read the resources on the Everytown website and find ways you can make an impact. Moms Demand Action is a subsidiary and they have chapters in every state.

Evereden Golden Body Serum

Tan Luxe Face Drops

“Untamed” by Glennon Doyle

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When it comes to modern dating, everyone is looking for the best advice on how to find love. Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, co-hosts of the Dateable podcast, join us to discuss the most important dating advice you need to know. Julie and Yue were active daters turned dating sociologists who talk to experts and daters about what’s working in our modern dating world. In this episode, Julie and Yue give advice and feedback from relationship scenarios submitted by our listeners. We also talk about what to do when you experience dating burnout, how to use dating apps intentionally, how playing games interrupts the real dating experience and maintaining confidence while dating. Make sure to subscribe to their podcast if you loved what you heard for more insight. Plus, you might hear yours truly in a future episode. We can’t wait to hear what you think!

“It’s better to communicate what you want rather than creating rules in your head.” - Yue

“The best thing you can do is find someone who wants the same things you do.” - Julie

What we talk about:

What successful relationships have in common

How to shift your mindset when you’re feeling like you’re “no one’s cup of tea”

What to do when you experience dating burnout

How to use dating apps intentionally

How the ego gets involved in dating

Their take on being on the same page about kids before getting into the relationship

Communication tips

“Relationship chicken” and how it’s the biggest problem in dating

“You have to make your own rules and be yourself because you want to live your life with someone where you can be your full authentic self.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Check out Dateable podcast

Follow @dateablepodcast on Instagram

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Kristina and Raeann are answering your questions in today’s episode and sharing raw and honest emotions about what’s been going on in their lives behind the scenes. Raeann opens up about struggling lately with the sadness of heartbreak. Whether you’ve recently experienced a break up or are still dealing with emotions from past relationships, we’re here to remind you that it’s okay to be sad when you lose something you love. But we’re also sharing our tips for moving on, focusing on yourself and appreciating where you are now. We also get Kristina’s perspective on what you can do for a friend who is a new mom to support her. 

“Sometimes you have to sit in sadness and accept how you’re feeling and know that even though there are brighter days ahead, it's okay to be sad.” - Kristina

What we talk about:

How to stop judging women based on their appearance 

What to do if your long-term boyfriend hasn’t proposed yet

Can exes be friends?

Daily tasks to build self love

How to support a friend who’s a new mom

What to say if/when a doctor fat shames you and how to advocate for yourself

Leaving a long term relationship

“Oftentimes, when you feel triggered, you need to look within yourself. It's your insecurities that are feeding these thoughts. The more you build confidence in yourself and your worth, the less you’ll think about other women.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Leather Laptop Sleeve from Cuyana

Beis Cosmetic Case

The Tik Tok Raeann mentions

The Instagram video Kristina mentions

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Courtney Swan (@realfoodology) is an Integrative Nutritionist with her masters of Science in Nutrition and Integrative Health and she also happens to be a dear friend of Raeann. Courtney posts daily about the real food and organic movement on her Instagram account: Realfoodology as well as her weekly podcast, also called Realfoodology. She aims to educate on the dirty practices of the food industry and how to eat healthy, with real food, and today she’s on the podcast sharing her top 5 wellness tips for women who are looking to improve their overall health.

What we talk about:

Raeann recaps Stagecoach

Tips to wind down to prioritize sleep

The danger of heating food in plastic

How to tell if packaged food is okay to eat

Ingredients to avoid in sunscreen

Why sunscreen doesn’t protect you from skin cancer

How spending time in nature impacts your nervous system

Unsuspecting foods that can be high in sugar

How to find ways to enjoy moving your body

Tips for tracking your cycle naturally

What Courtney recommends for testing yourself for food sensitivities or allergies

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Raeann’s obsessed with: Living Proof dry shampoo

Kristina’s obsessed with: Biossance body scrub

Package/food quality reviews: Yuka app

Scientific article: “Melanoma is not caused by sunlight”

Track your cycle: Natural Cycles app

Listen to The Realfoodology podcast and follow Courtney Swan on Instagram @realfoodology 

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Not wearing socks with holes in them. Folding damp towels. Planning literally anything. We love the men in our lives, but living with them is not the easiest sometimes! We’re reading off the things men just don’t get that drive our listeners crazy and it’s equally hilarious and frustrating. Tune in to see if your submission made it into the episode and if you can relate to any of these situations!

What we talk about:

Raeann’s prep for Stagecoach

Raeann’s recent health issues

Raeann shares about getting her IUD removed and off of birth control

Reality TV relationship trainwrecks

Why are women better at multitasking?

How to allow men in our lives to do more for us

What men do that drive women crazy and why we think that is

Ask away: changing sizes/getting comfortable with going up in clothing size

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Shop Kristina’s Cult Gaia beach bag

Snag Raeann’s favorite fitness tracker: the Oura Ring

Listen to Episode 82 with Eve Rodsky and buy the book here

“Your Brain on Birth Control” by Sarah Hill

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Feel like you contribute more to the household duties than your partner? Do you find yourself saying, “I’ll just do it myself” more than not? If you’re feeling burnt out or overwhelmed by all of the invisible mental work required to run a household, this episode has your solution. Eve Rodsky, author of the best-selling book Fair Play, is sharing her simple strategy for dividing household tasks fairly using boundaries, systems and communication. Whether you’re single and can use this information to start strong in your next relationship, are married or have kids and truly need more peace and to truly be able to enjoy your free time, we hope this conversation is helpful, validating and enlightening. 

What we talk about:

Scheduling European adventures (Kristina lets us know THE time to be in the Greek islands)

Kristina has a spooky story that will give you chills

Our hot take on The Kardashian’s new Hulu show

The “invisible mental load” we carry

WHY women have been pigeon-holed into roles within the home

Overcoming the urge of saying “I’ll just do it myself”

Developing the “why” behind your systems at home

Examples of how you can have these conversations with your partner

Implementing CPE (conception, planning, execution) and minimum standards of care

Eve plays the Fair Play Card Game with Raeann and Kristina and we get to learn more about their family systems growing up

Feeling deserving of your free time

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Check out Kristina’s Elta MD Sunscreen

Find Rae’s Set Active Bodysuit

Read Fair Play by Eve Rodsky

The Fair Play Card Game

Read Eve’s new book Find Your Unicorn Space

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Have you felt torn between what you think you should do versus what your gut is telling you you want to do? Whether it’s to make a friend or family member happy, a work opportunity or FOMO – saying no to things that sound like a good idea or that you know would make someone you care about happy is extremely hard to do. As finances and the balance between work and a social life become more challenging to manage in adulthood, it’s important to be aware of your options and understand how to make the right decision for YOU. In today’s episode, Raeann and Kristina talk about recent decisions that have been hard to make, and walk through their process of how they decide when and how to say no. If you struggle with setting boundaries, prioritizing your time, preparing for big goals and managing finances this episode is for you! 

What we talk about:

Kristina’s Coachella experience - addressing the drama

Validating how difficult it is to shop in-store and find a size that fits

Shifting your mindset when you feel left out and your ego is in the way

Why it’s so hard to say no

How to decide when to say no

Navigating money/financial obligations 

How to communicate boundaries with others

Why Kristina almost quit blogging and content creation

Ask away: how to recover from sleeping with someone after the first date that you want to see again

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Shop Kristina’s current favorite Good American Skate Pants here

Grab some  Cookie Dough Granola Butter by Oathaus

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Olympic athlete and Tik Tok star Ilona Maher’s confidence is contagious. She started playing Rugby as a senior in college then made it as an Olympic Rugby player in the 2020 Tokyo Olympics where she went viral on Tik Tok with her witty commentary and insightful view into the Olympic Village. Ilona is hilarious, and an incredible role model for women and girls by encouraging us to embrace our strength and athleticism. In this episode we talk about the false stereotypes around Rugby players, how playing a sport has helped her confidence, how to deal with people saying you’re “too much,” dating stories and advice, overcoming insecurities and so much more. We had a blast chatting with Ilona and know you’ll love this episode! P.S. Make sure to check her out on Tik Tok if you haven’t already.

What we talk about:

Raeann’s new most embarrassing moment 

Raeann and Kristina’s take on the new Skims campaign

How playing a sport can increase your confidence

What’s helped Ilona become more confident 

How dating has been for Ilona

How to get past hangover anxiety 

Dispelling the stigma of being 200 pounds

Stereotypes vs the actual Rugby culture

Working through the fear of being “too much”

Ask Away: How to make friends with coworkers when you work remotely

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Kristina’s weekly obsession: Fenty Beauty Heat Lipgloss

Raeann’s weekly obsession: Dior Lip Glow in Mahogany

Follow Ilona on Tik Tok and Instagram

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In 2019, Raeann and Kristina were approached by Nike to lead a group for a half marathon with the Confident Collective community. They trained for months just to have the race canceled weeks before due to COVID. Since then, Raeann has thought about completing her goal of running a half marathon to challenge her own perception of what a runner looks like and what her body can do. In this episode, Raeann shares her biggest takeaways from the experience, what she gained and her advice for anyone thinking about tackling a big goal. We also discuss tips for future half marathon runners, and how to prepare.

What we talk about:

Challenges of finding size inclusive brands and options while shopping

Collaborating with brands that are not size inclusive

How Raeann and Kristina initially got interested in training for a half marathon

The mental side of training for a marathon

Why Raeann’s trainer decided to run it with her

What the experience showed her

Raeann’s pace and its spiritual meaning

How to start planning to run a race

What to wear, bring and tips to prepare for the race

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Check out Kristin'a’s Amazon Favorites

Nike Run Club App for training

Running Gear 

Top

Bra

Shorts

Shoes: Go to a running store and have an assessment done to see what is best for you! Raeann went to Road Runner.

Socks

Fanny pack

Gummies

Hat

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Have you ever needed to have a difficult conversation with a friend but didn’t know how or where to start? Do you want to improve your relationship with your bestie or low-key have some things to work through?  If you want to know more about evaluating friendships and how to be a good friend, today’s episode is for you! We also talk a lot about being in different phases of life, which is common in our age group, and super hard to navigate. We are very excited for you to hear this episode and hope it helps strengthen or salvage the important friendships in your life.

What we talk about:

Rae spills some tea about an old flame

Why you need to prioritize time with friends 

Tips for balancing work life, social life and home life

Navigating relationships with friends who have kids

Normalizing having different friends for different types of connections and interests

Work friends don’t have to be transactional

The importance of a diverse friend group with people who are different from you

What to do if you feel like a friendship has run its course

How to support healthy friendship dynamics

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Follow Erin on Instagram: @erinfalconer

Check out Erin’s book: “How to Break Up with Your Friends”

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Let’s be real, being the bigger friend in your friend group sucks sometimes: not being able to share clothes, shop at the same stores, and hearing people thinner than you complain about their bodies. We receive messages from listeners all the time requesting advice on how to handle these situations. Raeann and Kristina have both been the bigger friend, in size and height, and know that it can feel alienating. But they’ve also come a long way in their confidence journeys and have plenty of good advice to share. So, we’re talking about how to change your mindset and embrace your height and size in this episode!

“You can’t change people’s opinions necessarily. If someone thinks you’re fat or too tall, they’re gonna think that. You have to really work on changing your own perception of yourself.” - Kristina

What we talk about:

How to move past negative comments on social media

Times in Rae and K’s past when they’ve been uncomfortable in their bodies

How to change your mindset around your size

How to handle unwarranted comments from men about your size

How to be honest about your experience with your friends and help them understand your position

What helps Raeann and Kristina to feel empowered and proud of their size

Benefits of choosing clothing that fits and compliments your body

Ask away: Is it wrong for a married man to go to lunch with a female coworker?

“Fuck yeah, we are tall, gorgeous, Amazonian, bad-ass women. It’s all about changing the mindset that we need to take up less space. Own the fact that that is your power. If you are tall and curvy, you are fucking gorgeous, and you have to tell yourself that. And (your mindset) will start to change.” - Raeann

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

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Wedding invite says: serve a look. We have a fun wedding-themed episode for you today as wedding szn approaches! Taelor Pawnell aka @stylishsista is your plus-size, creative, Virgo, bridal bestie, sharing tips for plus-size bridal fashion and wedding planning on her social media. Raeann loved following her and was super inspired by her fire Brooklyn Bridge engagement photos so we had to have her on the podcast to hear more!

“There's a lot of hidden costs of being plus-size, and then you add the layer of not having options. I’m very much wanting to do what I want to do and you push me into this box with 5 options to choose from that are standard? No.” - Taelor

What we talk about:

Raeann shares a dating update

Kristina’s wedding dress disaster story

Process of getting ready for her engagement photos

How to be confident on camera

Where Taelor shopped for her “outside of the box” size inclusive outfits

Taelor’s wedding dress shopping experience and advice for plus size brides

How Taelor found her bridal dress designer

The toxic weight loss pressure brides feel

Tips for planning and navigating pre-wedding events

Ask away: My partner hasn’t said “I love you” yet, should I be worried?

“In order to be confident, remember the end goal. It’s all about you, this is your thing.” - Taelor

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Follow Taelor for more tips: @stylishsista

Check out Taelor’s Stylish Bachelorette Planning Template on Etsy here. 

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The year’s approximately 1998. You get home from school in your Limited Too matching set and immediately pop in Spiceworld: The Movie as you plop down on your blow up couch. A gentle breeze filled with Victoria Secret’s Love Spell fills the air. You reapply your Lip Smacker and touch up the row of butterfly clips adorning your head like a crown, admiring the Mary Kate and Ashley poster proudly displayed on the wall. Life is good.

If you haven’t guessed it already, this episode is all about ‘90s-’00s nostalgia. Get to know Kristina and Raeann a little better as they reminisce over their favorite memories and trends from the decade giving us major cultural inspo today.

What we talk about:

Favorite movies and music

Childhood memories

Beauty and fashion trends we loved

‘90s trends we’re into and not-so-into currently

Ask away: advice for navigating plus size travel

New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.

Resources:

Kristina’s ‘90s Nostalgia Playlist

Kristina’s hair rollers and Celine sneakers

Raeann’s Tower 28 lip jelly in Pistachio 

Follow these accounts for plus size travel information: Kelly @itsmekellieb just started an account called @plussizefriendly, Jeff @chubbydiaries__, and @hellostefanienicole

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